The most common question people ask Feng Shui masters is – how to choose a perfect house according to Feng Shui? Are there any general guidelines? The thing is there are no perfect houses according to Feng Shui. Every house has its pros and cons. Feng Shui is an individual setting for a particular person. It takes into account your horoscope, Kua number, your desires, and goals.

However, there are general rules that you should consider when choosing a house. Unfortunately, most architects don’t know anything about Feng Shui and energy laws. That’s why most houses have Feng Shui mistakes and energy leakages.

In this article, I want to share with you the most dangerous Feng Shui mistakes that can actually ruin your life. I believe this article will be helpful not only for those of you who are in a process of choosing what house to buy or rent but also for everyone who’s interested in fixing the Feng Shui mistakes in the houses they already live in. That’s why I’m going to share with you, not just the most common Feng Shui mistakes but also effective methods of fixing (healing) them.

All the Feng Shui mistakes I’m going to talk about refer to the Bagua map of your house. If you are not familiar with this term make sure to read my previous articles:

Feng Shui Bagua: 8 Aspirations

The Feng Shui Bagua Map: How to Use It?

Feng Shui Mistake #1: Kitchen in the Northwest sector

Take a look at the Bagua map of your house – is the kitchen in the Northwest sector? If so your house has one of the most dangerous Feng Shui mistakes.

Problem

The Element of the Northwest is Metal. The main element in the kitchen is Fire. If your kitchen is located in the Northwest of your house there are two conflicting elements – Fire melts Metal.

The Northwest sector is linked to masculine energy, so the kitchen in this sector can lead to particularly serious problems for the man that lives in such a house. It’s very common that women always stay alone in houses like this.  And it can be both: single women without prospects of marriage, and married women whose husbands are away from home frequently, often on business trips and so on.

A house with a kitchen in the Northwest sector brings lots of problems to the man, the head of the family. This sector is directly related to the man as the head of the family and the earner of money.

A kitchen in the Northwest often causes problems like difficulties in work, delays in career, failures in business – up to bankruptcy. It can also bring health problems, injuries, feeling weak, unwillingness to do anything.

A Northwest kitchen leads to quarrels, divorce, difficulties in the relationship. If a woman is not married yet, then living in a house with such a kitchen, will make it almost impossible for her to get married.

Healing

1. Completely remove the red color from the kitchen (any red items of interior design, red dishes, red carpets, etc.).

2. Decorate your kitchen in the colors of the Earth element: sand color, dark brown, ochre. Ideally would be to combine Earth colors with metal colors: silver, gold, white.

3. Hang wind chimes with 6 tubes in your kitchen.

4. Put 6 crystal balls in your kitchen.

5. Hang a picture of a horse on the wall of your kitchen.

Feng Shui Mistake #2 – Bathroom in the Northwest sector

Problem:

As I already said the element of Northwest is Metal. In the bathroom’s the dominant element is water. Now ask yourself: how does Water affect Metal? That’s right – water covers metal with rust! That can’t be good for Feng Shui of your house, right? In addition, the drains in the bathroom are the place through which the energy leaves the house.

This situation has a tangible impact on a man – he has no energy, no power, it’s hard for him to support his family and express his masculinity. If a man is inherently weak, he will continue to live in such a house, staying on the sidelines. But if his nature is strong, he will leave this house sooner or later.

Healing:

1. Do not allow blockages of sewage.

2. Keep your bathroom perfectly clean.

3. Be sure to always keep the lid of the toilet closed.

4. Tie all the pipes in the bathroom with red ribbons or draw a red stripe on them (with a nail polish, for example).

Feng Shui Mistake #3 – Northwest is missing

Problem

The absence of this sector does not allow masculine energy to be realized. This means that it is difficult for a man to be realized in this house as the head of the family. It is difficult for a man to stay in such a house because the very shape of the house deprives him of strength. In addition, the house with the missing Northwest gives a feeling of lack of help and support from others.

Another disadvantage of the Northwest absence is that it affects the relationship between husband and wife. It is difficult for a man to realize his potential, and a woman experiences loneliness.

In addition, the absence of the Northwest can adversely affect the health of any person living in the house. People can have diseases associated with the head (especially vulnerable are people with the Kua number 6).

Healing

1. Hang a picture of the moon and Shri Yantra behind the wall bordering the missing Northwest sector (this tip I learned from Vastu).

2. Activate this sector in the living room. To do this, find the Northwestern corner of your living room according to the Bagua map. And put there as many metal items as you can. Place there Kwan Kung and Ganesh statues.

Error 4 – Bathroom in the Southwest sector

Problem

The Southwest bathroom weakens the hostess of the house, disconnects her from the partner and family. According to statistics, a very large percentage of single women have a Southwest toilet.

It’s also bad for businessmen because it leads to an inability to establish good partnerships. And if a business woman has such a bathroom the problem doubles. However, if a woman craves solitude, this is an option for them.

Healing

1. Do not allow blockages of sewage.

2. Keep your bathroom perfectly clean.

3. Be sure to always keep the lid of the toilet closed.

4. Tie all the pipes in the bathroom with red ribbons or draw a red stripe on them (with a nail polish, for example).

Feng Shui Mistake #5 – Absence of the Southwest

Problem

Leads to the weakening of the hostess of the house. She doesn’t want to come home after work, she prefers to stay late at work. A house with Southwest missing leads to family breakage and ruins the bond of the marriage. It can also lead to diseases of the female reproductive system, neuroses, obsessions, psychological problems, skin diseases, abdominal diseases, dissatisfaction, and dishonesty.

The absence of the Southwest sector is especially dangerous for mothers, women after 40 years of age and people of any gender with the Kua number 2.

Healing

Activate the Southwest sector in your living room. To do this, determine the Southwestern sector of your living room according to the Bagua map. Put there 2 rose quartz crystals, Green Tara statue, Double Happiness symbol, Mandarin ducks statue.

The Bottom Line

As you can see the most dangerous Feng Shui mistakes link to two sectors: Northwest and Southwest. And this has a very logical explanation. The thing is that everything in the world is created by two types of energy – masculine and feminine. In order to provide a happy and abundant life, your house should have both of these energies. The masculine energy of your house is located in the Northwest of your house, and feminine – in the Southwest. If you miss one of these energies you missing the whole concept of the creation process. This is how your house becomes unbalanced.

That’s why our main focus should always be on feminine and masculine aspects of the house and how to bring them into our homes if they’re missing. I hope these simple recommendations on how to invite and heal these aspects will help you turn your house into a temple that radiates abundance, harmony, and love.

When you are attached to material possessions, your mind is constantly thinking of questions like: “how to make more money?”, “how to attract more clients?”, “how to repay loans?”, “where to get more money for paying my bills?” etc., thereby creating an excess of creative energy (CHA energy) in your energy field. To balance the excess of creative energy (CHA) the universe directs destructive source (SO energy) to balance your current situation.

In situations with attachments to material possessions destructive energy (SO) will manifest itself in such a way that you will certainly lose something: money, health, people you love, peace, etc. In cases of credit or excessive debt, SO energy will manifest itself in such a way that the size of loans and debt will increase. Thus, the Universe will try to draw your attention to the energy imbalance that exists in your own energy field.

All you need to do is to establish a balance (LAN energy) between the creative (CHA) and destructive (SO) energies in the space around you. This balance can be achieved only by getting rid of your attachment to material possessions through the destruction of money and debt (credit) bindings. In order to do this, you need to start giving what you are attached to to other people. In this case, it is money. Now before you overreact and think this sounds ridiculous I don’t mean get rid of all of your money. You simply need to loosen the attachment and begin allowing the energy to flow again by releasing a small portion of it.

Do You Obey The Universal Law of Abundance?

There is such a thing as “tithing”, which means giving 10% of your income to charity.

Tithing has been used since ancient times by Egyptians, Babylonians, Arabians, Greeks, Romans, and Chinese. The word “tithe” means “tenth”. The ancient people regarded “10” as the number representing the increase.

The Universal Law of Abundance states that: “true abundance ALWAYS comes from a spiritual basis”.

The Absolute Awareness (God) is the Source of all supply. We should never forget that our bodies, minds, emotions, education, experiences, jobs or professions are just instruments of this prosperity. However, the Absolute Awareness (God) is the source. That is why if we want to be consistently prosperous we need to do something to “keep in touch” with that infinite source of all supply.

Regular, consistent giving opens the door to regular, consistent receiving.

The 10% of your income, given to charity, not only teaches you to be generous (and generosity, as we know, is the quality of God), not only heals you from material dependence, but also purifies the remaining 90% of your income, as well as removes energy congestion in the way of prosperity flow into your life.

Let’s imagine that you have 10 apples. One of them is rotten. To preserve the remaining 9 apples from decay, you have to throw away spoiled one. In addition, throwing one spoiled apple, you make room for a fresh apple and also save the remaining 9 apples you have.

The same goes for money. To save 90% of the money you have, and at the same time clear the way for the receipt of new funds, it is necessary to give “tithing”. It will remove the blocks of the money that you have, as well as eliminate energy congestion in the way of money flow.

What Happens When We Do NOT Obey The Law Of Tithing?

When we do not obey the “law of tithing,” we create an “energy swamp.” You have to understand that any energy, including money, must constantly move. If you constantly saving money just for yourself or your family needs, you stop the movement of abundance energy in your life, creating an excess of creative energy (CHA).

The Universe, according to the “law of tithing “, will still take this 10% from you, by taking away the flow of energy from your life. First, the destructive energy (SO) will eliminate the 10% from your life. And then, if you still do not find a balance, by removing your attachment to material possessions, the destructive energy (SO) will continue its activities in the field of your finances, health, and relationships. In other words, the destructive force will “walk” throughout your life like a tornado, sweeping away everything on its path.

Therefore, it is in your best interest to stop the excessive activity of destructive energy in time, thereby slowing it down.

What Kind of a Tithe Giver Are You?

At first, it is not always easy to give away something that you want for yourself. However, gradually moving along the path of spiritual development, one becomes aware of the illusory nature of material possessions and it becomes easier and easier to share.

There are four levels of the “tithe” givers:

Level 1: Giving with regret

On this level, people give 10% of income just because they understand that they have to, but reluctantly.

Level 2: Insufficient giving

On this level, people give less than 10% of the income. It’s a pleasure for them to give at least something.

Level 3: Giving without recognition

On this level, people anonymously give 10% of the income and feel happy about this.

Level 4: Unconditional giving

On this level, people give 10% of income unconditionally. It means that unconditional givers don’t even think about the “compensation” from the Universe. They give just because they are happy to give.

Each level of the giving involves the movement of abundance energy through the elimination of energy congestion (block). However, only at the fourth level, when you begin to share material possessions, without requiring compensation from the Universe (and with the quiet confidence that the Universe always takes care of you no matter what), you will notice fundamental changes in the financial component of your life – the rate of receipt of abundance energy in your life will increase many times, which will manifest the abundance of all aspects of your life. In this case, you will not be attached to money and material possessions but will be in a harmonious relationship with abundance. This state of body, mind, and spirit balance we call ABUNDANCE – state of LAN.

Are You Immune to Poverty?

As long as you’re attached to material possessions, you’re not immune to poverty. Here again, we are talking about duality. However, when you realize that such extremes of wealth (CHA) and poverty (SO) can lead to a harmonious state of body, mind, and spirit, you move away from duality towards the third element – ABUNDANCE (LAN).

Conclusion

Let’s be more responsible for the reality we live in! We are here not for the satisfaction of the ego’s ambitions. We came to this planet for making this world a better place. By obeying the Universal Laws we can manifest a better reality for all living beings. Let’s help each other without the expectation to receive something in return! And let’s give each other positive energy, love, and kindness!

And what if we start with giving money to those who are in need? Just be honest! Don’t try to trick the Universe. What’s your 10% tithe?

Feng Shui and abundance are synonymous words. When you bring Feng Shui into your home, it begins to emit vibrations that attract abundance. Accordingly, your life begins to change – your mood improves, the tone of life increases and your consciousness is adjusted to a positive wave. Thus, your home and yourself enter into resonance with the Universe and, thus, a direct contact between your home and Cosmic abundance is established.

Today I want to share with you a basic Feng Shui activation that will help you to attract cosmic abundance into your house. It is very simple yet powerful!

Start With The Bagua

First of all, create a Bagua map of your house. For doing the basic Feng Shui activation you need to know the compass directions of all the rooms in your house. If you’ve never heard about Feng Shui Bagua, read my previous articles:

Feng Shui Bagua: 8 Aspirations

The Feng Shui Bagua Map: How to Use It?

Basic Feng Shui Activation

This Basic Feng Shui activation is based on the Lo Shu square and Bagua. For performing this activation simply say your intention to activate Cosmic Abundance energy in your house and then do the following:

Place one mini-fountain in the Northern sector of your house.

Place a couple of crystal Mandarin Ducks or two Pink Quartz hearts in the Southwest of your house.

Put three plants in the Eastern sector of your house.

Place four plants in the Southeast of your house.

Put five crystals in the Center of your house.

Place metal wind chimes with six tubes in the Northwest of your house.

Put seven coins in the Western sector of your house.

Place eight crystals in the Northeast of your house.

Place nine red candles in the Southern sector of your house.

What Happens After You Do the Basic Feng Shui Activation?

This activation helps you to make energy move more harmoniously and smoothly in your house. All 9 sectors in your house are activated and radiate the energy of all 5 elements. It means that all 9 aspects of abundance are activated in your house. And now vibrations of your house resonate with vibrations of the Universe. It is much easier now for your house to receive cosmic abundance and fill up your life with happiness and joy!