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Trauma bonding is a dysfunctional attachment that develops in the presence of danger, shame, or exploitation. Think of such phrases as; “You broke me, but you are the only one who can fix me.” Or “I know my partner is abusive, but I can’t imagine a life without him.” These bonds are common in narcissistic […]
Narcissists are known for their exaggerated sense of self-importance. They think that the world literally revolves around them. Narcissists draw their main satisfaction from making other people see them as persons of great importance who know everything. If you’re dealing with a narcissist but not sure what type it is, our narcissist quiz will help you […]
Gaslighting in a relationship can be a real nightmare. Unfortunately, many people do not spot it early. And even when they spot it, they do not know the right way to navigate through it. Gaslighting is when the other party makes you question your own experiences and feelings. In a relationship, your partner may psychologically […]
Are you in a passionate relationship that seems to be hitting turbulence every other day? All relationships indeed have ups and downs. But the situation is different with karmic relationships. A karmic relationship’s lows are low, and the highs and very high. It feels like strong waves carrying you. Karmic relationships are meant to teach […]
Did you know that feeling constantly exhausted is also a sign of a tired soul? Yes, despite having an active lifestyle, eating a balanced diet, exercising regularly, or getting sufficient sleep, you can feel weary. This is soul exhaustion, not body exhaustion. How Soul Exhaustion Occurs We all have an inner flame that drives us […]
How do you tell when you need to accept your friend’s flaws vs. when you’re overlooking a serious issue? Naturally, people change. However, some personality traits don’t change quickly, and these should be your red flags when in a toxic friendship. 10 Signs You Are in A Toxic Friendship #1: Chronic Anger This doesn’t just […]
We all make relationships (knowingly or subconsciously) with people we meet every day. More so, we behave differently in each relationship depending on whether the other person is a child, parent, friend, workmate, boss, student, client, or a significant intimate partner. Ideally, these are healthy interdependent relationships that allow both parties to thrive. But, what […]
What comes to mind when you think of a narcissist? A selfish person who uses their victim for self-gain, right? In contrast, we see a codependent person as excessively selfless and an easy victim to a narcissist. Yet, both the narcissist and the codependent person have unhealthy views of themselves. See, they share similar needs […]
The August 2021 New Moon is coming on August 8th at 9:50 a.m. EDT. This is the time when the Moon is lost in the glare of the Sun and completely invisible. This is an amazing time that can give impetus to our development and multiplication in any sphere of our life. In this article, […]
Do you feel overwhelmed with the current uncertainty in the world? Do you feel trapped or helpless? Are your emotions going out of control every time you turn your TV on? Then it’s time to get your power back and resist the darkness that recent events have brought into our lives. In this article, we […]
Do you feel guilty or excessively responsible for your parents? And, does this over-concern meddle with your ability to tap into opportunities either professionally or romantically now that you are an adult? Well, an adolescent or young adult who is uneasy about leaving home, or feels less supported upon return is probably growing in an […]
In this article, we have collected 70 toxic people quotes that will help you to recognize them and cut the drama out of your life! Toxic people are hard to avoid! It could be your friend, family member, neighbor, or coworker. Their toxicity manifests in many different ways. They could be full of interpersonal issues, […]