Narcissists are known for their exaggerated sense of self-importance. They think that the world literally revolves around them. Narcissists draw their main satisfaction from making other people see them as persons of great importance who know everything. If you’re dealing with a narcissist but not sure what type it is, our narcissist quiz will help you figure it out! After taking the narcissist quiz, you will have a clear understanding of the narcissist type you’re dealing with and get helpful advice on how to get out of such a situation.
Who is a Narcissist?
Lately, people seem to be fascinated with the concept of narcissism more than ever. Perhaps it’s because we’re all a little bit narcissistic or know someone else who is.
So, who is a narcissist?
Narcissists are smitten with an idealized self-image, which they wear around other people to escape reality. Deep down they are wounded creatures who are just too scared to admit it to themselves and other people around them. To compensate for their injuries, they create a “perfect self-image” that is flawless in an attempt to make themselves feel better.
Psychotherapy has proven to work just fine for the majority of people diagnosed with this condition. It’s not that narcissists are very dangerous people, but spending too much time around them might have adverse effects on you. Their alter-ego may begin to make you feel like a failure or worse still stop you from reaching your full potential.
Narcissists live on making other people feel less achieved about themselves and regard them as some form of a superhero.
Narcissist Quiz
Whether you’re dealing with a narcissistic partner, family member, friend, colleague, or boss, our narcissist quiz will help you get some clarity on your situation and make the right decision.
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1. Does the narcissist you're dealing with have high self-esteem?
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2. How would you characterize him/her (narcissist)?
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3. What is his/her personality trait?
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4. Which one of the following statements characterizes the narcissist you're dealing with?
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5. How does communication with him/her look like?
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6. Is he/she shy or/and self-effacing?
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7. Does he/she have a victim mentality?
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8. Which statement characterizes him/her best?
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9. Does he/she feel empowered by hurting and harming others?
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10. Which statement is a true description of the narcissist you're dealing with?
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11. What tendency does he/she have?
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12. If you had only one word to describe the narcissist you're dealing with, what would it be?
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13. Have you ever been physically abused by him/her?
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14. Do you get constantly pressured with guilt when interacting with him/her?
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15. Have you ever been financially hurt by him/her?
Narcissist Quiz
Grandiose Narcissist
You're dealing with a grandiose narcissist. In psychology, grandiosity refers to having an unrealistic sense of superiority. This type is characterized by high self-esteem, a sense of personal superiority and entitlement, overconfidence, a willingness to exploit others for self-gain, and hostility and aggression when challenged. A grandiose narcissist can be charming but often lacks empathy. In conversations, they don't relate to people, but rather one-up them. This narcissist type has a habit of trying to manipulate or/and control others. They push forth positive illusions about themselves and suppress any information that puts them in an unflattering light. Grandiose narcissists can be insensitive, aggressive, and dominant. They tend to exaggerate their importance and brag a lot. When dealing with a grandiose narcissist, they will push your boundaries, eroding them so a lower level of treatment becomes the new normal. Be prepared to enforce your boundaries—even better, walk away.
Vulnerable Narcissist
You're dealing with a vulnerable narcissist, also known as a covert narcissist. This type craves people's recognition and gets very defensive in the face of criticism. Usually, a covert narcissist is abjectly miserable and believes his/her suffering is worse than anyone else's. This narcissist type is insecure, introverted, passive, and withdrawn. He/she craves people's recognition and gets very defensive in the face of criticism. Vulnerable narcissists may feel offended or anxious when others don't treat them as if they are special. They are usually passive-aggressive but come across as very helpless. You can recognize this type by the tendency to a victim mentality. They are quick to cry or stage crises to gain attention. They often struggle with anxiety and depression. Usually, vulnerable narcissism comes as a result of emotional trauma. But you have to remember that although they may have been hurt before, it's not your duty to rescue them or save them. Make sure you set clear boundaries when dealing with this type.
Sexual Narcissist
You're dealing with a sexual narcissist. This type manipulates those around him/her for his/her sexual pleasure. They want to have as many partners as possible to portray a sexual prowess that they believe they possess. Yet, such a person never gets intimate with anyone. This type has a self-centered view of sex. Usually, he/she reacts poorly to sexual rejection. A sexual narcissist expects sex in return for gifts or nice gestures. He/she pressures, tricks, or manipulates you into having sex with him/her. Moreover, he/she feels entitled to get sex elsewhere if you don't meet their sexual needs. A sexual narcissist expects a lot of praise for their performance in bed. However, they are not very interested in their partner's needs. Sexual narcissists are often serial cheaters and may behave violently during sex. To protect yourself from a sexual narcissist, your safest option is to get out of the relationship and seek therapy to help you get through the breakup with a narcissist. Staying in such relationships will eventually destroy you completely.
Malignant Narcissist
You're dealing with a malignant narcissist. This is a manipulative and malicious type that may even show signs of sadism and aggression. He/she can hurt you physically, emotionally, financially, and sexually and never feel like they need to apologize. Such a person gets pleasure seeing people in pain and discomfort. He/she is always suspicious of those around them. A malignant narcissist is only capable of seeing things as black and white, such as whether someone is a friend or enemy. They would do anything that it takes to get what they want, regardless of the harm it may cause others. This type of narcissist feels empowered by hurting or harming others. They rank relationships and other people based on superficial standards rather than emotional qualities. Such a person tends to bully people who he/she thinks are below them. They feel comfortable taking advantage of people to achieve their own goals. If you know a malignant narcissist, try your best to avoid them completely and cut off all ties. Any attempts to outsmart them will be unsuccessful and exhausting. Your safest option is to stay away from them!
Spiritual Narcissist
You're dealing with a spiritual narcissist. This type often uses his/her spirituality to justify harmful behaviors and uses spiritual jargon to intimidate others. Such a person projects an idealized version of himself to escape his broken, insecure self. A spiritual narcissist uses seemingly sensitive and spiritual actions as a way to elevate themselves above others. Such a person believes that spiritual wisdom makes him/her more special than others. This type of narcissist always backs his desires with only those spiritual facts that suit him. They may even pretend to be empathetic, kind, and considerate, however, it's just the role they're playing to gain attention and manipulate others. The truth is their actions in day-to-day life never match what they promote in public. They have a tendency to hear selectively to what is in agreement with their reasoning. Usually, spiritual narcissists are surrounded by friends and followers who accept everything they say without challenging it. If someone you know uses their spirituality as a tool to manipulate or belittle you, your best option is to separate from them.
