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Pearls to Scars: Signs You Are In Love with a Narcissist

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Do you get the feeling that you might be in love with an entitled brute? How do you relate to him/her? Does he/she seem too self-absorbed? Are they only but a shadow of the loving and caring person that swept you off your feet not so long ago? You could be in love with a narcissist.

It’s not always easy to identify the signs you are in love with a narcissist. Whereas a narcissist may compliment you with all the words, you want to hear, this warmth is usually short-lived. If not careful, persons in love with narcissists may end up getting hurt.

Nevertheless, what are the telltale signs you are in love with a narcissist? This is a quick guide!

7 Signs You Are In Love with a Narcissist

#1 They Are Extremely Superficial

Narcissists always look attractive and strive hard to maintain their public image.  They are concerned about their appearance and that of the people around them. Once they make you a target, they will do all they can to win your heart.

Consequently, they always seem perfect on your first dates. For example, they will say and do things as you’ve always pictured in an ideal partner. Unfortunately, as you get to know them, you’ll realize that all this facade is only skin deep.

#2 They Feel Entitled

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Narcissists expect you or those around them to give them special treatment, and nobody else. For example, he/she may pick up a quarrel about the way you prioritize the kids over him. He/she unreasonably expects you to drop everything else and attend to them when they are around.

They may also ask for passwords for your bank accounts, social media accounts, or keys to your house.

Equally, they will blame you for any problem that you are experiencing as a couple. To the extreme, a narcissist may feel that it is their right to inflict harm on you as a way of correcting and molding you into this fantasy lover they want.

#3 They Live a Fantasy Life

A narcissist lover may be the most romantic person you have ever met. He/she will take you out for candlelight dinners, exotic holiday destinations, or a midnight walk along the beach. They are the type that flood your social media accounts with romantic photos.

Equally, they have a passionate sex life during the courtship period. As they plan their fantasy life beyond the courtship, they may start talking about your future wedding, honeymoon, and number of kids you should have.

All these fantasies seem irresistible until he/she starts going cold on you. They soon realize that you are just an ordinary person who may not fit in their fantasies. Hence, they may opt-out of your wedding plans at the last minute sighting boredom.

#4 They Twist Facts to Their Benefits

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Narcissists will quote faiths but corrupt them with a contrary fact. This way, they want to justify their abuse towards you. For example, if you are going through a healing phase or seek a deep connection with your significant other, the narcissist lover may encourage you to be vulnerable to heal or connect with them. Such facts are true.

However, he/she only wants to inspire you to put your guard down. That way, they’ll have a chance to attack or use your details against you.

In addition, they may tell you that forgiveness is necessary proof of showing that you are spiritual. True. However, this narcissist lover will only raise this fact to encourage you to overlook their immediate abuse towards you. Ideally, you should forgive when you feel you are ready, not when under pressure to feel right.

#5 Narcissist Will Accuse You of Being Aggressive

Has your partner ever told you that you have so much fear or ego, especially when you question their actions? This reaction is typical of a narcissist. Your worry may be because of what you see happening around you. You know you are not safe. 

However, anytime you point out bad behavior, the narcissist will be quick to label you as aggressive. Specifically, these partners are trying to deter you from setting clear boundaries against them.

For example, they may threaten to shame you in front of other people by revealing secrets that you once shared with them. They will do all they can to prevent you from correcting them for the abuse they inflict on you.

#6 They are Coercive

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A narcissist likes controlling their partner’s behavior. For example, when he/she wants to groom you for future abuse or avoid responsibility for their actions, they may say you are judgmental towards them.

Equally, they will try as much as possible to prevent you from putting a label to their acts. If the narcissist is a teacher or a leader in a shared group, he/she may try to convince other members to also shame you for the choices you make.

#7 They Lack Empathy

A narcissist has no empathy. Still, they will do all they can to make you think that they are an empath. What they say will not always match what they do. He/she seems to try too hard to be kind, caring, or gentle with you. Therefore, check for these contrasts in the narcissist’s manner.

Other Signs You Are In Love with a Narcissist

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Narcissist lovers may discourage you from wearing makeup, saying that it is against your spirituality. They may want to dictate your tone of language and choice of words even when you are alone with them.  Indeed, they want you to see things only in their perspective.

In addition, they like to shift blame to you for what is happening. They will call you names or use spiritual words to make you feel that they are better than you are and that you are not good enough for them.

Conclusion

Narcissist lovers enjoy manipulating their partners. Luckily, with the above information you can now know if your partner is one. The Signs you are in love with a narcissist are easy to see. Equally, if this person has no empathy, states facts but in a twisted way, seeks for opportunities when you are vulnerable so that they can strike the hardest, or just don’t take criticism lightly, then, you could be in love with a narcissist. Your safety comes first in any relationship. Ensure you take action to stay safe.


Katya Ki is the Founder of SOLANCHA Magazine, a Metaphysical Expert, a Reiki Master, and Human Rights Attorney. She has been studying Eastern metaphysics, cosmology, and esotericism for almost 20 years now. And she's still discovering new knowledge, which is hidden in ancient teachings. During her pilgrimage to the monastery of Saint Catherine in Egypt, she discovered the SOLANCHA System. This is how the SOLANCHA journey started!

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The Most Accurate Horoscope for June 2020

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In this article, I will share with you the most accurate horoscope for June 2020 based on the Feng Shui flying stars chart. This horoscope includes not just predictions for different spheres of life and Chinese zodiac signs but also very important tips for protection from negative influences of the month and the activation of positive events and good luck.

Most Accurate Horoscope Based On Chinese Zodiac Signs

I believe that the Chinese Horoscope is one of the most accurate horoscopes you can use for correcting the energy of the month in your favor. I follow its recommendations every month and it really helps me to not only attract positive events into my life but also to prevent unfortunate ones.

I often hear that if you focus on positive things in life and follow the law of attraction rules, astrology doesn’t affect you. Yes, a positive mindset is very crucial; however, according to Eastern teachings, there are three kinds of luck that affect each of us:

  1. human luck;
  2. earth luck;
  3. heaven luck.

Your positive mindset is your human luck which is just 33% of your total luck score. Your heaven luck (another 33%) comes from astrology. And your earth luck (33%) depends on Feng Shui and the energy you surround yourself with.

Of course, you can rely on your human luck and believe that your positive mindset can help you overcome all the obstacles. However, let’s say something negative happened and somebody yelled at you or your husband/wife cheated on you or somebody you love died. How many of us can stay 100% calm and positive in situations like this? You see when you allow yourself to react to a negative situation in a negative way you loose your human luck. Now you can rely only on your heaven and earth luck.

Ok, now let’s take a look at your earth luck. Is your house 100% balanced? Is it 100% clean and free of blockages? Does it have all the remedies and protection from negative energy? If your answer is “no”, well, you can’t really rely on your earth luck. And now all that left is your heaven luck that depends on astrology.

With the help of Chinese astrology, you can fix your situation, protect yourself from negative influences of the month, and activate good luck! All you need to know is what type of energy rules the month and how to deal with it.

It can be quite dangerous to play around with the energy of the month. People who have started to religiously follow all the Feng Shui recommendations after reading my monthly horoscope articles noticed big improvements in their lives. Today I want to share with you these priceless recommendations for June 2020. I’m asking you to take everything you’ll read below seriously. It’s especially important to get all the protection tools for the month because they are literally life saviors!

For reading your Horoscope for June 2020, all you need to know is your Chinese zodiac sign. To do this, you just need to find your date of birth in the Hundred Year Calendar (click here)!

Horoscope For June 2020

RAT (1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008)

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The Rats are experiencing a boost in their energy and productivity levels. However, there is a chance of getting into an argument. Try to be more diplomatic and tactful this month – it will help you escape unnecessary conflicts and misunderstandings. There is also a danger of meeting unsavory people that you can get in conflict with. And if a conflict happens it could get really ugly and turn into a big scandal that could destroy your reputation.

Carry the Dragon Holding Fireball Anti Conflict Amulet. It will help you to control your temper. Also, protect yourself with the 15 Hums Amulet. This powerful amulet destroys all negativities brought by someone due to envy and jealousy. It’s highly recommended to keep this amulet in possession when you have to face a jealous person or office politics, and it will work on you most effectively if you carry it all the time. 

OX (1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009)

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This month, the Oxes should be extremely careful when it comes to money matters. Watch your investments closely and refrain from taking monetary risks. Also, in June 2020, there is a risk of robbery and betrayal. Be wary of the people around you. There is a chance of being scammed.

It is extremely important for the Oxes to protect themselves this month. Make sure you carry Anti-Burglary Amulet and place the Blue Rhino and Elephant with Talisman Feathers in the Northeast sector of your house. To protect yourself against betrayal, carry the Kuan Kong in Horseback Anti-Betrayal Amulet.

TIGER (1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010)

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It’s not the best month for the Tigers. You may face unexpected expenses, causing you financial problems. This month is not a good time to overspend on unnecessary luxuries so you are able to easily sustain unexpected expenses. Also, you should watch out this month – there are many dishonest people around you. You may be offered a “good deal” that could easily turn out to be a scam. Be especially cautious when you see that a deal is too good to be true. It’s more likely a fraud matter.

Display a Double Humped Camel on your work desk. It will protect your finances from being easily spent. Also, it will help you to sustain difficulties with resilience and always emerge unscathed.

Also, make sure to wear the Pi Yao bracelet throughout the month. It will protect you against betrayal energies and will help you to attract wealth luck.

RABBIT (1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011)

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June 2020 is a very dangerous month for the Rabbits! Be very careful! The energy of the month may bring you serious health problems and other unfortunate issues. As the current pandemic continues, it’s best for the Rabbits to stay home. Your immune system is not so strong and your energy level is very low this month. So, it’s better not to risk and stay safe.

Carry the 5 Element Pagoda at all times for protection against all kinds of problems. Place a Wu Lou by your bedside to bring healing energies into your space and to protect you from illness.

DRAGON (1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012)

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The Dragons are experiencing a quarrelsome month full of conflicts and misunderstandings. Whatever you say can be misinterpreted and taken as an attack rather than a statement. Therefore, best advice for this month is to keep your opinions to yourself. You could also face some troubles with the law. However, your wealth luck is pretty strong this month.

To reduce the conflict energies around you, carry the Anti-Conflict Amulet.

If you find yourself getting into trouble with the law, make sure to carry the Talisman to Win a Court Case which will help you to reduce the severity of the judgment.

To activate your wealth luck, carry the Mongoose Wealth Amulet.

SNAKE (1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013)

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The Snakes are experiencing a conflict month full of arguments and disagreements with family and friends. You may find yourself dealing with lots of negativity and misunderstandings. Therefore, to minimize conflicts and stress, try to express your opinions and thoughts less and try not to prove your point. No matter what you say, it can be turned against you and get you into big troubles. It’s safer to be quiet this month!

To minimize the conflict energy, wear more red clothes, and carry the Apple Peace Amulet.

HORSE (1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014)

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Those born in the year of Horse are experiencing a prosperous month. Your career luck is strong. You may get a promotion or some changes at work that may help you financially. However, to experience all this great luck that June 2020 offers you, make sure to activate it!

Place the Golden Ingot Treasure on your work desk. It will activate your financial luck, attract wealth, good fortune, and familial prosperity.

To activate good completion luck, carry the Sum-of-Ten Amulet. With this powerful Feng Shui talisman, you ensure that whatever luck comes your way actually manifests for you causing you to enjoy good outcomes in all your endeavors.

SHEEP (1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015)

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Those born in the year of Sheep are having a very productive month! You will notice that your energy levels improve and many new opportunities are coming your way. Use this lucky time to improve your career or business.

To boost your good luck, carry the Victory Banner talisman. This is the ideal Feng Shui enhancer for those who need to triumph over all obstacles, or those who are in competitive situations, whether in business, at school or in some other endeavor.

However, you may experience arguments and quarrels in your relationship. You may even face some infidelity problems. To protect yourself from such problems, place a pair of Marriage Happiness Ducks in the Southwest sector of your house.

MONKEY (1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016)

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Horoscope for June 2020 promises the Monkeys a transformational month! Your energy levels are very high so you can get a lot done this month. You will be very productive and creative. It a good time for a career change or getting a promotion. Don’t miss the opportunity!

Place the Luo Han with Crab on your work desk. The Luo Han with Crab is one of the well-known 18 Chinese Saints who bring all forms of good fortune. It symbolizes formidable intellect, great strategy and the ability to rise up to high positions of leadership and power. All CEOS, managers and anyone working in a corporate environment should display this Luo Han at the work desks.

ROOSTER (1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017)

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Horoscope for June 2020 promises the Roosters a very happy month. Anything you touch this month turns to gold! You may meet helpful people that could give you big support and useful guidance. Do not miss this chance!

To attract helpful people into your life, carry the Heaven Luck Activator. This amulet manifests mentor luck, which attracts into your life someone very influential and powerful who could open doors to your success. Carrying this amulet ensures that anyone who wields any kind of power over you will provide you with support and stay on your side.

To activate your good fortune, place the Jade Emperor with Qui Ren Talisman on your work desk. This Jade Emperor maximizes luck from the heavens and brings imperial good fortune influences for all your undertakings.

DOG (1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006, 2018)

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The Dogs are facing a misfortunate month. You may find out that there are people who are envious of your success, and some who will betray you at the slightest opportunity. Also, there is a big possibility to face all kinds of obstacles on your path. You may also experience some moderate problems in your relationship.

To protect yourself from the toxic energy and negativity of others, make sure you carry the Evil Eye Amulet.

Also, carry the 5 Element Pagoda Amulet to protect against obstacles brought by the misfortune energy of the month.

BOAR (1959, 1971, 1983, 1995, 2007, 2019)

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Horoscope for June 2020 advices the Boars to lie low this month. This is not a good time to take risks, as you are likely to incur losses. Try not to make big and important decisions this month. You may also notice that people are gossiping behind your back. Be careful with who you trust! Gossips and lies can harm your career or even marriage.

To keep the negative effects of the month under control, carry the Five Element Pagoda amulet.

To dispel toxic gossiping energy, carry the Hamsa Hand Anti Gossip Amulet. This powerful talisman will help you to stay protected against office politics, gossip and those who mean to do you harm.


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Abundance Haircuts In June: Good And Bad Days To Cut Your Hair

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Abundance Haircuts is a little-known sutra that reveals the negative consequences of cutting your hair on the bad days and incredible benefits of cutting it on the good days. Bad and good days for this sutra are based on the Tibetan Calendar. Dates of Abundance Haircuts are calculated according to extremely complex formulas by experienced Feng Shui Masters. Naturally, each year, depending on the stars and their position, these days change.

Most people in the Western world have never heard about abundance haircuts. While for Eastern people it’s not a new practice. In this article, I will share with you this powerful sutra and give you a special calendar for abundance haircuts in June with good and bad days for haircuts. Pay attention to what day you’re picking for your next hair salon appointment – only choose good days for abundance haircuts in June.

Why Is Hair So Important?

Since ancient times, people have given hair and any manipulation of it a sacred meaning. It was thought, that through one’s hair people can connect with the Universe. Hair serves as “antennas” and “guides” between our world and the world of Heaven. And so far this knowledge has not lost its relevance. Hair connects us with Higher forces, cosmic energy, God, Higher consciousness. By connecting through the hair to the Cosmos, a person is fed by the energies of Abundance and Health.

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There were many beliefs associated with hair, some of them have survived to the present day. For example: in any case, you should not get a haircut by yourself, as in this case there is a deformation of your energy field, which can lead to poor health. It is also not recommended to get a haircut on the days of a lunar or solar Eclipse: the hair can suffer, weaken, lose shine, and volume.

What Are “Abundance Haircuts”?

It has long been known that there are days when it is especially favorable to cut hair. Among these days there are days of “Abundance haircuts.”

Abundance haircuts is a special ritual to attract abundance flows into your life. It is good to say special affirmations and mantras for abundance and prosperity on this day. So you will strengthen the ritual haircut and make it a more effective and efficient force.

On this day it would be beneficial to chant the Lakshmi mantra:

OM HREEM SHREEM LAKSHMI BYO NAMAHA

Or Ganesh mantra:

OM SHRI GANESHAYA NAMAHA

It is also very beneficial to say positive affirmations like:

  • I deserve to be abundantly happy and healthy!
  • My abundance is constantly growing!
  • I always have money for everything I need!
  • Money comes to me easily and fast!
  • I’m grateful for my abundant life!

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Quotes To Inspire You To Become a Creator of Your Own Reality and End Victim Mentality

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Victim mentality is, probably, one of the most destructive habits people have. Playing a victim takes away any personal responsibility for your life and always gives you someone to blame for your failures in life. It is a victim mentality that keeps you in your comfort zone and delays your personal growth. By choosing to be a victim you lose control over your life and become a hostage to circumstances. To inspire you to become a creator of your own reality, we created this collection of victim mentality quotes. Use these victim mentality quotes as an inspirational tool and as a reminder that you are the only one who is responsible for the quality of your life!

Here are 47 quotes to free you from a victim mentality and become a creator of your own reality and the only master of your life!

47 Quotes To Free Yourself From Victim Mentality

#1

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“Today is a new day. Don’t let your history interfere with your destiny! Let today be the day you stop being a victim of your circumstances and start taking action towards the life you want. You have the power and the time to shape your life. Break free from the poisonous victim mentality and embrace the truth of your greatness. You were not meant for a mundane or mediocre life!” ― Steve Maraboli

#2

“There is a fine line between compassion and a victim mentality. Compassion though is a healing force and comes from a place of kindness towards yourself. Playing the victim is a toxic waste of time that not only repels other people, but also robs the victim of ever knowing true happiness.” – Bronnie Ware

#3

“You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of.” – Jim Rohn

#4

“Some choose to believe that there is nothing they can do to solve their
problems, even when they in fact could. Victims seek to blame others for their problems or blame outside circumstances. This may make them feel better in the short term, but it leads to a life of anger, helplessness, and despair.” – Mark Manson

#5

“The difference between a professional victim and an empowered person is NOT what has happened to them, but the way in which they REACT to what has happened to them.” – Miya Yamanouchi

#6

“A victim evokes sympathy, right? Victims are not responsible, right? Victims have the moral high ground… someone else is causing the misery, right? Victims can easily justify why they are right. Victims allow themselves to be stuck in the status quo and they excel at seeing the faults in others, ignoring their own responsibility. They love to take others’ inventory of faults and are excellent at blaming. Victims become hypersensitive to real and perceived injustice, where any slight becomes a reason to reject. Victimization is the toxic wind blowing through families, fanning the fires of dysfunction.” – David W. Earle

#7

“The moment you take responsibility for everything in your life is the moment you can change anything in your life.” – Hal Elrod

#8

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“Everything you do is based on the choices you make. It’s not your parents, your past relationships, your job, the economy, the weather, an argument, or your age that is to blame. You and only you are responsible for every decision and choice you make. Period.” – Wayne Dyer

#9

“You relinquish your power when you blame others for situations in your life. The blame does not change the situation and only keeps you in a victim mentality. Accept that the situation occurred and find a way to transcend it and you will reclaim your power and become the victor.” – Nanette Mathews

#10

“We are stuck in the maize that we created. Most people keep complaining about being stuck rather than finding the way out, and they call themselves unlucky!” – Maddy Malhotra

#11

“Your complaints, your drama, your victim mentality, your whining, your blaming, and all of your excuses have NEVER gotten you even a single step closer to your goals or dreams. Let go of your nonsense. Let go of the delusion that you DESERVE better and go EARN it! Today is a new day!” – Steve Maraboli

#12

“You owe yourself everything you expect from others.” ― Nicky Verd

#13

“There are two different kinds of people in the world. There are people who instinctively look for every chance to be a “victim” and those who look for every chance to rise above—regardless of where they are in life and what’s happening around them. There are people who realize their ability to create (greatly influence) reality toward a positive direction for themselves and those around them, and unfortunately those who use this power we all have for destructive purposes for themselves and others—many times without even knowing what they’re doing or the power they have inside themselves. We are all powerful individuals. Let’s use that power to create something beautiful!” ― Christopher Hawke

#14

“Self-pity is spiritual suicide. It is an indefensible self-mutilation of the soul.” ― Anthon St. Maarten

#15

“Life is not compassionate towards victims. The trick is not to see yourself as one. It’s never too late! I know I’ve felt like the victim in various situations in my life, but, it’s never too late for me to realize that it’s my responsibility to stand on victorious ground and know that whatever it is I’m experiencing or going through, those are just the clouds rolling by while I stand here on the top of this mountain! This mountain called Victory! The clouds will come and the clouds will go, but the truth is that I’m high up here on this mountaintop that reaches into the sky! I am a victor. I didn’t climb up the mountain, I was born on top of it!” ― C. JoyBell C.

#16

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“The victim mindset dilutes the human potential. By not accepting personal responsibility for our circumstances, we greatly reduce our power to change them.” – Steve Maraboli

#17

“There is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction; the moment you are old enough to take the wheel, responsibility lies with you.” – J.K. Rowling

#18

“Accept responsibility for your actions. Be accountable for your results. Take ownership for your mistakes.”

#19

“Who we become is the result of our disciplined actions.” – Brendon Burchard

#20

“One day I realized that everything that I get out of life, is exclusively a result of my actions. That is the day I became a man.” – Nav-Vii

#21

“The problem that we have with a victim mentality is that we forget to see the blessings of the day. Because of this, our spirit is poisoned instead of nourished.” – Steve Maraboli

#22

Empaths did not come into this world to be victims, we came to be warriors. Be brave. Stay strong. We need all hands on deck.” – Anthon St. Maarten

#23

“Because that happened to me when I was little, this is how I will now treat other people”; “Because so and so beat me up and hurt me a long time ago, that gives me the right to treat people the way I treat them, today”; “Because life was hard on me, life should be hard on everyone else around me”— does this sound/ look familiar? It’s called victim mentality. When people choose to be the direct product of everything that happened to them, the direct product of every single pair of hands that hurt them. And the world, to these people, must bend over backwards in order to accommodate their wounds. Some people don’t want to be loved; they just want to make the world pay.” – C. JoyBell C.

#24

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“The power behind taking responsibility for your actions lies in putting an end to negative thought patterns. You no longer dwell on what went wrong or focus on whom you are going to blame. You don’t waste time building roadblocks to your success. Instead, you are set free and can now focus on succeeding.” – Lorii Myers

#25

“We all have a story. The difference is: do you use the story to empower yourself? Or do you use your story to keep yourself a victim? The question itself empowers you to change your life.” – Sunny Dawn Johnston

#26

“Victim mentality only creates helplessness, the most maddening, miserable and upsetting of mental states. In fact, it is commonly reported that nothing triggers madness like a sense of helplessness. It is a cousin of paranoia, a sense that the world is out to get you, that there is some opposition, some rivalry between you and the world. This is a warped, twisted mentality that offers no benefits, and, more importantly, is manifestly false.” – Armstrong Williams

#27

“How would your life be different if…You stopped validating your victim mentality? Let today be the day…You shake off your self-defeating drama and embrace your innate ability to recover and achieve.” – Steve Maraboli

#28

“When you complain, you make yourself a victim. Leave the situation or accept it. All else is madness.” – Eckhart Tolle

#29

“Taking personal accountability is a beautiful thing because it gives us complete control of our destinies.” – Heather Schuck

#30

“Victims declare,“The world is responsible for me,” and never do anything to better their quality of life.” – Henry Cloud

#31

“At first you might wonder what you did to deserve such treatment. Nothing, probably, so that doesn’t matter. What matters is that, eventually, the abuse becomes the status quo. It’s no longer about the whats and whys (“what did I do?” “why are they doing this?”) but the whens and hows (“when are they going to do it?” “how are they going to get me?”). Persecution becomes inevitable, inescapable. And once you get into the victim mindset, you’re f**ked. The bullies don’t even need to hurt you now; your poor, warped, pathetic brain is doing half the work for them.” – Nenia Campbell

#32

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“Nobody can hurt me without my permission.” – Mahatma Gandhi

#33

“In life, you can either be a victim or you can be a survivor. It’s a mindset.” – Clyde Lee Dennis

#34

“Stop validating your victim mentality. Shake off your self-defeating drama and embrace your innate ability to recover and achieve.” – Steve Maraboli

#35

“You have power over your mind —​ not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” – Marcus Aurelius

#36

“The choice is yours in every moment to create beauty or misery, happiness, or pain.” – Ralph Smart

#37

“If what you are able to give to others, in this life, is only proportionate to what you received from people in your past— it only means one thing. You are a victim of life’s circumstances, a direct and utter equivalent of what has been done to you. Rise above and become more! Be better than what happened to you.” – C. JoyBell C.

#38

“The trap of resentment. It is probably the worst mental prison in the world. It is the inability to let go of anger and the perceived or real injustices we suffer. Some people let one or two, or maybe ten unpleasant experiences poison the rest of their lives. They let their anger ferment and rot their personality. They end up seeing themselves as victims of their parents, teachers, their peers and preachers.” – Ayaan Hirsi Ali

#39

“As I’d seen over and again, people who see themselves as victims sometimes don’t notice when they become oppressors.” – Souad Mekhennet

#40

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“My life is immeasurably enriched by taking personal responsibility to do what I can, with what I have, where I am.” – Rob Waldrop

#41

“You’re only a victim to the degree of what your perception allows.” – Shannon L. Alder

#42

“Accept responsibility for your life. Know that it is you who will get you to where you want to go, no one else.” – Les Brown

#43

“I’d rather be an optimist and a fool than a pessimist and right.” – Albert Einstein

#44

“The victim mindset will have you dancing with the devil, then complaining that you’re in hell.” – Steve Maraboli

#45

“It is only when you take responsibility for your life that you discover how powerful you truly are.” – Allanah Hunt

#46

“If you own this story you get to write the ending.” – Brene Brown

#47

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“A victim mentality creates a victim reality.” – David Icke

We hope you are inspired by these victim mentality quotes as much as we are!

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The Most Accurate Horoscope for June 2020

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