Sexual Polarity: Bringing Passion Back Into Relationship

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Is there a single rule that describes how the universe operates? We live in a complicated environment, and the human mind is much more so. But if there is one theory that comes near to explaining everything, it is the law of polarity. Understanding the rule of polarity is critical to living a happy and meaningful life. The energy you send into the world is essential for your relationships and all your life objectives. In this article, we will explore what sexual polarity is and how you can use the law of polarity to bring passion back into your relationship.

What is the Law of Polarity?

The law of polarity states that everything has two “poles”: good and evil, love and hatred, attraction and separation, electric and magnetic, SO and CHA. Consider the North and South Poles on a globe or a battery’s negative and positive terminals. There is an antonym for everything in the cosmos.

Everything has two sides. And it enables us to enjoy life and appreciate the lovely things in the world.

“There is an equal and opposite response to every action.” This is Newton’s Third Rule of Motion, and it properly summarizes the law of polarity. It signifies that forces are symmetrical: negative and positive, action and response, masculine and feminine.

Not only can you cultivate specific energies within, but you can also utilize the law of polarity to attract other energies, much like a magnet. Understanding how these two energies manifest in the world and how you can personally harmonize within yourself is the basis of the practices and principles of SO LAN CHA.

Think of it this way: 

Is it dark without light? Could you have pleasure without experiencing sadness? Is there love without suffering? Is there a sexual desire in partnerships without opposing energies? There is a law of rhythm that exists between these two poles that are forever trying to reach a state of equilibrium, LAN.

We’ve all heard the expression “opposites attract.” That is correct, and here is where sexual polarity comes into play. 

Sexual Polarity: Masculine Vs. Feminine Energy

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In love and relationships, polarity has the most power. When opposing masculine and feminine polarities are entirely accepted in a relationship, that “spark” of sexual energy is created. The greater the desire in a relationship, the more opposite the sexual energies of two individuals, are – masculine vs. feminine energy.

Physical attraction, spiritual bliss, and personal connection flourish when there is an apparent sexual polarity between both partners. If two individuals have comparable sexual polarities, that is, they are both more “masculine” and more “feminine,” their attraction will be lessened. However, if there is a significant gap, where one spouse is particularly “feminine”, and the other partner is “masculine,” physical attraction will be heightened. It’s a case of “opposites attract.”

Gender has no bearing on masculine and feminine polarities. Anybody, male or female, may embody either energy. People with male energy tend to be robust and mission-driven problem solvers looking for freedom from life’s constraints.

They are competitive and have difficulty conveying their feelings, yet they want to be recognized in relationships. People with feminine energy are more open, accessible, and willing to offer and accept love. Feminine energies like to be recognized and understood, and their caring nature might cause them to remain in partnerships for too long.

The most crucial aspect of sexual polarity is understanding your actual nature and how it unfolds. If you’re in a relationship, you may use this notion to strengthen it. Are you looking for love? Accepting and cultivating your inherent energy will automatically attract mates that compliment you. 

The Other Side of Sexual Polarity 

Depolarization is the inverse of the law of polarity. It happens in sexual polarity when one or both partners strive to adjust their energy to satisfy the other. A feminine partner may compensate by exhibiting more male characteristics if they feel insecure or neglected.

When a male partner feels questioned or dominated, they may become less determined and lose focus. The lovers no longer engage in a game of masculine and feminine polarity. Because both partners channel the same energy, the relationship becomes stale, tense, or imbalanced.

Depolarization’s Merits and Demerits

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Depolarization is terrible for any relationship, but it may sometimes seem “positive,” especially when we are used to it. We tolerate our relationship’s lack of sexual polarity in exchange for one of the three elements of passion: closeness. This is known as the “friendship” part of a relationship. Emotional connection and trust are what keep couples together in the long run.

But, without the other two keys to passion, excitement, and sensuality, a relationship is simply that: a friendship.

The polarity of natural male vs. feminine energy is a passion killer, and it’s a “con” that’s much more important than any comfort or assurance you may experience. To recapture the sensation of pleasure and excitement, a loss of passion might lead to increased squabbling, lesser levels of commitment, and even infidelity. But you don’t have to settle for closure without desire.

How to Correct Depolarization

Do you desire a passionate, thrilling relationship that is rewarding and fulfilling in every way? You deserve it. Open avenues of communication with your spouse and commit to resolving the problem. Bring back the fire.

The male partner must learn to accept life’s feminine power, no matter how wild and destructive it may get sometimes. When confronted with a male spouse’s strong, overpowering presence, the feminine partner must not shrink. Learn to trust the masculine knowledge and its capacity to act clearly in the face of emotion – and to accept the feminine wisdom and its innate intuition and emphasis on love.

What makes a relationship succeed is having things in common. The fact that things are different is what makes a relationship passionate. You need to restore your sexual polarity – and hence your desire.

How Can the Law of Polarity Change Your Life? 

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This rule of attraction is more than just sexual polarity. The law of polarity provides a vital tool for changing our mindsets: when we recognize that there is a positive for every bad, we can choose to concentrate on the positive.

When we are trapped in a rut, it might be challenging to understand that there is another way to look at the world. You probably concentrate on these sentiments if you are lonely, dissatisfied with your job, or unsatisfied. Bad occurrences in your life constantly appear to follow these negative beliefs, reinforcing the negative thinking.

It feels like an eternal loop, yet it can be broken.

You must first fix your underlying limiting ideas before learning the polarity rule and applying it to every aspect of your life. If you are unhappy with your employment position, you devote all your attention to finding a new one. On the surface, you seem focused on the good and strive to attain your objectives. However, if you haven’t gone deep enough to find the underlying limiting belief causing your pain – whether fear of failure or the conviction that you don’t deserve happiness – you will continue to attract unhappy employment.

The same is true for sexual polarity. Your limiting beliefs may prevent you from embracing your natural energy in your relationship. Underlying assumptions such as not being adequate or being rejected by your relationship may force you to hide your natural energy. Being damaged in prior relationships may also lead to putting on this mask and focusing on pleasing others rather than allowing our genuine selves to show. 

The Bottom Line

Are you hiding your authentic self in your relationship? Are you a more masculine or feminine person? Have you concealed your actual energy? You can cultivate the passion back into your relationship – or attract the appropriate partner – and improve every aspect of your life once you evaluate your limiting beliefs and utilize the law of polarity.