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Why Past Sexual Egregores Can Ruin Your Relationship?

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6 months ago

November 6, 2018

Sexual energy is the most powerful creative energy on our planet. When there is too much creative energy it transforms into the opposite – a destructive force that causes relationship problems and freezes spiritual development.

Each sexual connection we have in our life (even short-term) forms a powerful egregore connected to the energy body. The fact is that sexual energy is always aimed at creation – thus, children are born and egregores are formed.

That’s why I think it’s very important to be aware of sexual egregores you’re still attached to. It will help you to avoid many relationship problems you could experience in the future.

What Is An Egregore?

Egregore is a sustainable energy-informational structure, engendered by the thoughts and emotions of people.

The egregore itself is formed on an energy level, but it feeds on the energy of the physical plane. The egregore exists as long as it has adherents capable of maintaining the necessary level of energy in it for its existence, as well as until its idea is “alive”.

Egregores have the ability to transmit and receive energy at their own frequencies. That is why not everyone can catch the signals of a particular egregore. Such signals are able to catch only those people who are aligned with this particular egregore.

Egregore provides a person with the necessary resources and provides him (her) with the necessary energy to solve his (her) tasks. However, it should be understood that the resources and energy provided by the egregore are given for solving specific problems of the egregore itself. If a person, instead of solving the problems of the egregore, spends energy and resources on something else, then energy and resources are taken away from him (her).

The egregore itself is a neutral form. However, when you create a new egregore, an old egregore of similar quality must be destroyed. Otherwise, the old egregore will put all its forces to destroy the new one, or at least slow down its development.

Sexual Egregores

Sexual connection arises initially at the level of thoughts and emotions. First, there is a sexual desire, then the desire to satisfy it, and only after that it gets satisfied on the physical plane. That’s the algorithm in which a sexual egregore gets created.

Thus, you have as many sexual egregores as many sexual partners you’ve had in life. Since all of these egregores were built on the energy of the same quality (sexual energy), they all have the ability to influence each other. The task of each egregore is to keep you in a relationship with a sexual partner, as a result of which, in fact, it was formed. Thus, you may have several egregores in the confrontation, taking away your energy.

This fight for your energy will continue until you destroy all egregores based on your past relationships. The danger of having such egregores is that they are trying to destroy the relationship you have at the moment, taking the energy away from it, as well as taking energy from your partner.

A Lack Of Energy Leads To Relationship Problems

Past relationship egregores can act like energy parasites that suck your energy, your partner’s energy and eventually create relationship problems.

Here is the list of signs (relationship problems) that show if you have the lack of energy in your relationship:

quarrels, scandals, swearing;
lack of understanding;
lack of intimacy;
distrust;
cheating;
jealousy;
fatigue;
aggression;
spite;
no desire to be alone with each other, the need to be in a company of friends (i.e. your egregore is so depleted and weak that you just need to be among other people to get energy support from them because your relationship almost has no energy to survive. You explain yourself that you just want to have fun, that without friends you are bored. Although actually, not boredom is forcing you to be in the company of other people but the lack of energy. When there is enough energy in your relationship, it can’t be boring. Therefore, you’re able to have fun only in with your friends – because you are full of energy taken from a friendship egregore).

Sexual Egregores May Keep You Away From Relationships

If at the moment you are alone and can not create a relationship, it can also indicate that it is the sexual egregores of your past that attract all sorts of failures in love, preventing you from meeting your soulmate. They will try to “cut to the root” any relationship because in this case, you will continue to feed them with your energy.

The only way to get rid of the destructive effects of an egregore is its destruction. To do this, first of all, it is necessary to realize the danger of having such an egregore, and then – without regret to destroy it.

How To Destroy a Sexual Egregore?

The process of liberation from destructive sexual egregors consists of the following steps.

Step 1: Make A List Of All Your Sexual Partners.

It’s very important to make a list of all your sexual partners. It gives you a clear idea of what to work with.

Stage 2: Remove Any Material Connections With Your Ex Sexual Partners

Using the list of your ex sexual partners remove any material connections with each of them:

remove their phone numbers from your phone memory;
burn all the pictures where you’re together, and delete them from electronic devices and social networks;
get rid of all the gifts that your ex-partners gave you (give them to someone, give them to charity, and if they are of no value – just throw them away);
stay away from any discussions of your ex-partners with friends or family members;
try to protect yourself from any interaction with your ex-partners.

Stage 3: Karmic Relationship Healing

In order to destroy energy cords with every sexual partner you’ve had in life you should consider doing a karmic relationship healing. Use the list of your ex-partners so you won’t forget anyone! This is very important because if you don’t heal your karmic relationship you will transfer your previous relationship to the next incarnation in the form of a karmic bond, which will be a big obstacle to your full development in this and next life. To learn more about this practice read my article “Karmic Relationship Healing: Effective Practice To Let Your Past Go!”

Conclusion

When you free yourself from your past you’ll step into a new stage of your life. Nothing will pull you back anymore, you’ll stop experiencing the same relationship problems again and again. You will be free from your past so you can enter a new relationship! What’s more important is that you’ll be able not just to receive love but also to give it. You’ll be able to be happy and make your partner happy too. By destroying sexual egregores of your past you’ll finally be able to create a loving and harmonious relationship!

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Katya Ki is the Founder and Editor-In-Chief of SOLANCHA Magazine, a Feng Shui Master, a Metaphysical Expert, a Reiki Master, and Human Rights Attorney. She has been studying Eastern metaphysics and esotericism for almost 20 years now. And she's still discovering new knowledge, which is hidden in ancient teachings. During her pilgrimage to the monastery of Saint Catherine in Egypt, she discovered the SOLANCHA System. This is how the SOLANCHA journey started!

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8 Ways To Create Conscious Relationship

Published

2 weeks ago

April 10, 2019

Katya Ki

Do you believe in conscious relationship and pure love? And not just any love; the love that brings total satisfaction. It’s easy to conclude that true love went away with the winds, right? We need to change the current love paradigm. It is a total failure. And that’s why I have written this article to help redefine relationships.

So what is conscious relationship?

Conscious relationship is a relationship that focuses on growth and purpose. As partners, you commit to relationship commitment, self-respect, self-love, and self-worth. It’s a relationship that attracts right-minded people with similar dreams, and self-determination. It does not encourage fear, irritation, abuse, or similar vices in a relationship.

The Qualities of a Conscious Relationship

The following qualities define a conscious relationship:

Total Focus on Growth

As a couple, you should be determined to love and care for each other. Your curiosity to learn from one another should be epic. Be committed to grow and develop together in physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual realms while trying to fulfill each other. Conscious relationship allows mutual respect, trust, independence, and freedom. This, therefore, accelerates growth in the relationship.

Commitment to Own Up

You and your partner are unique and different in your own ways. A conscious relationship allows you to own up to your mess; whether in the past, present, or the future confusion. As a couple, you realize that issues don’t always move in the right direction. Therefore, when things go wrong, you (as a couple) accept it. However, it does not mean that you are in a failing relationship, or with the wrong partner. You are just committed to looking beyond your past and current situations throughout the relationship. You are ready to face the belief, concerns, and the evolution of the new relationship that is more deeply rooted.

Mutual Acceptance

The differences in a relationship should not break you. How you solve these differences matters a lot. Some couples spend their entire life trying to change their partner’s mind and concept without success. Why? Because most of the differences are majorly on their perception! Conscious relationship overlooks personal views and commands a mutual respect. You may disagree with each other, but appreciation and respect is center stage.

Free Communication

Every partner is allowed to express their feeling without the fear of judgment. How do you expect your partner to understand what you want or feel without communicating? It’s impossible! On the other hand, listening to your partner is also what conscious relationship entails. It may not be easy at first, but once you do, you experience immense healing in the relationship. Poor to no-communication kills most modern-day relationships. Conscious relationship emphasizes to always try to see deeper into your partner’s situation before making a judgment and above all respect their views and feelings.

Why Should You Seek to Have a Conscious Relationship?

True love does not condone selfishness but rather aims for mutual growth. With conscious relationship, growth and personal transformation are the primary focus.

Additionally, you take full responsibility for what you do without blaming each other regardless of the situation. So that’s a burden off your shoulders, right? Finally, conscious relationship welcomes and accepts all the feelings, emotions, and thoughts. There is a mutual understanding of each other and there is a commitment to make it work. What more would you ask for?

8 Ways to Create Conscious Relationship

Below are my top eight tips to create and practice conscious relationship. With these tips, we can improve most of the past romantic relationships that were not conscious to stand the test of time.

Self-love and Self-respect

First of all, learn to love yourself. How can you love someone else genuinely if you don’t love yourself? And how will you believe it when they say the three magic words: I love you? This is what makes people say they feel unappreciated in a relationship. Similarly, if you learn to respect yourself, you will have the courage to stand for what you believe amid conflict. Once you’ve mastered self-love and self-respect, the next step is to extend the same love and respect to your partner.

Be Committed

According to research, lack of commitment is the number one destroyer of relationships and most especially marriages. Dedicate to commit to your partner. Complement them without expecting anything in return. Make your relationship work with the “mentality” that you’re both there to stay. Do you understand what I mean?

Learning For the Sake of Growth

Be willing to learn new things in the relationship. Discover new feelings, emotions, sexual pleasures, and similar lessons for the sake of your relationships growth. A conscious relationship refrains from negative defensive behaviors. These include the silent treatment, quarreling, criticism, bringing each other down mentally, and hurting each other emotionally and physically.

Honesty

Conscious relationship upholds true openness. Express your feelings and thoughts with transparency and sincerity. All the anger, sadness, joy, fear, and affection, is openly discussed, and analyzed. Be willing and ready to listen to your partner without judgment.

Unity

When you decide to practice a conscious relationship, do not hold back from making decisions as one. In addition to decision making, practice unity in family projects, finances, and investments. Give reasonable assurances and take it as your responsibility to fulfill your partner. These covenants and promises live in the spirit too.

Accountability

Every partner is accountable for their mistakes and eventualities. You have to take action to improve yourself for the sake of growing the relationship. Similarly, you shouldn’t look forward to finding faults in your partner. On the contrary, help them to become a better person in the relationship.

Appreciation and Gratitude

Come up with excellent and impressive ways to appreciate your partner. A simple thank you, you look lovely today, and similar phrases go a long way in showing gratitude. The relationship blossoms when you practice these virtues.

Practice Love and Affection

Conscious relationship allows you to practice love as a couple. Understand your completeness and express emotions. Open your heart to receive the same warmth and affection from your partner.

In Conclusion

Conscious relationship has incredible qualities and concepts that fuel a healthy relationship. As you start the journey to conscious relationship, it is necessary to assess your partner too. Are they prepared to commit mutually? If the answer is yes, jump in with both arms open to embrace them. But if they are not, don’t try to change them. You might get hurt in the end.

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Feng Shui For Love: 5 Simple Steps To Attract Romantic Relationship

Published

2 months ago

February 11, 2019

Katya Ki

If you are unlucky in your love and romantic life and you don’t know how to find your soul mate, then you might want to try a little feng shui to help with the disharmonious atmosphere in your house. If the energy of your home doesn’t radiate love and romance, it’s not easy for you to attract a decent life partner. Feng Shui for love offers many proven formulas and methods of harmonization of the energies around us. These methods are quite simple. We can successfully apply them in life and achieve amazing results!

In this article, I want to share with you 10 proven tips to bring romantic luck into your life by harmonizing the energy of your home with Feng Shui methods!

Let’s get it started!

Step 1: Cleaning Out Space Around You

No matter how boring it may sound, before you start attracting the long-awaited love, it is necessary to properly clean the space around you. Your home is your temple, where love lives. Therefore, the attitude to the house should be appropriate. Create a temple of love in your house!

Good Feng Shui for love always begins with cleaning your house and getting rid of old and useless things. Remember that every little thing in your house has energies. However, these energies are not always positive. Look around! Do all the things that surround you make you happy? Without regret, get rid of all those things that do not cause love vibrations in your heart!

It is especially important to get rid of all the things that your ex-partners gave you as gifts without regret! Do not keep those things that are the symbols of a long-gone love. Until you get rid of these things, your past will pull you back, and the energy of these things will only attract problems in a new relationship! You need to remove all the cords to the past to open the door for a brighter future!

I assure you, you will feel great relief after throwing away all those things that no longer bring you joy!

Step 2: Fill Your House With Positive Energy

It would be great if our parents taught us this simple rule. But, unfortunately, only a few people are aware of the necessity of the bed linen replacement after the breakup of the relationship. It is very difficult to bring to life a harmonious relationship when we sleep on the same sheets on which we slept when we were in past relationships. I, personally, follow a strict rule: new relationships – new sheets! Why bring the old energy of a long-gone relationship into your new relationship?

Take a look at your bed. How attractive does it look? Update bedspreads, decorative pillows, place aromatic blend with rose scent into your bedroom. Give preference to the soft warm tones for linens – peach, warm beige, etc. Make your bed radiate love and invite love. The bed should always be clean and tidy!

By the way, for married couples, there is also an ancient proven way to refresh the relationship. To do this, the masters advise that you throw away the oldest sheets that you have in the house. Thus, you will cleanse your relationship from negative and stagnant energies! This method is often used to stop fights and abuse between spouses.

Step 3: Add Some Light

Southwest sector of your house represents your romantic luck and love. Therefore, make sure you don’t store suitcases here, and that this sector is clean and free of dust and trash can.

To attract love we should make the southwest sector light and bright. Make sure it has enough natural light. If it doesn’t, use extra electric lights there to keep it light. This light attracts romantic luck into your life!

If you don’t have a Southwest sector in your house, you can activate it in the living room. Simply find the Southwest corner of your living room and make sure it’s clean, bright and light.

Step 4: Activate Romantic Luck

Love is alive and very strong energy. Therefore, the Southwest sector is not just a part of your house, but a magical island of love, radiating powerful vibrations of love and attracting romantic relationship into your life.

Here is a list of talismans that project a powerful message to the Universe that you are ready for love and happiness and open for a romantic relationship. Place the talismans that you like most in the Southwest sector, and expect wonderful miracles to happen!

Windchimes

Feng Shui for love requires you hang a special windchime in the Southwest sector of your house.

Windchime is a great energizer of positive Chi.

As soon as you hang the windchime in the Southwest sector of your house, rest assured – the love energy has been activated for you.

A very effective method is to hang a windchime next to the picture of your dream man/woman (the picture cut from the magazine or printed). I know a lot of people who in a short period of time attracted real miracles! Suddenly they met love partners and created a wonderful relationship that brought a lot of joy. Moreover, the appearance of their partners was very similar to the appearance of the people depicted in the picture! It sounds fantastic, but it’s true! If you have a certain type that you want to attract, feel free to use this method! The universe loves clear requests!

Crystals

Сrystals are actively used in Feng Shui both to dissipate negative energy and to activate positive energy.

The traditional method of Feng Shui for love is to put the crystal in the southwest sector. It is best to place the crystal in such a way that sunlight falls on it. On a nice sunny day, you can play with the crystal, turning it and allowing shining rays to illuminate the walls, ceiling and all objects in the room. This simple action brings positive Chi energy in your house.

Another way to place the crystal in the southwest sector is to hang it. However, be careful there are certain rules on how to hang the crystal in feng shui purposes:

1. hang your crystal on a red thread;

2. the length of this thread must be a multiple of 9. That is 9, 18 or 27 cm (3.54, 7.09, or 10.63 inches). This is because the number 9 is a sacred number in Feng Shui that combines the power of heaven and earth;

3. when hanging the crystal, it is necessary to charge it. Simply turn to your crystal and ask it to protect your house from negativity and bring love, peace, and harmony into your life.

Pair Talismans

Traditional Feng Shui suggests placing mandarin ducks or a pair of cranes in the southwest sector. The mandarin ducks symbolize a long and happy marriage. The cranes carry very strong energy of the happy couple that cannot be separated. They symbolize immortal love and loyalty.

A Couple Of Candles

This is just the perfect love sector activator! Place a couple of red or pink candles in the southwest sector and light them approximately once a week with the intention to attract love into your life. While the candles are burning, it is very useful to meditate, looking at the flame. Imagine how this flame ignites the fire of love in your heart.

Rose Quartz Double Heart

Rose quartz is a stone of love, which is a radiator of love and romance and which we always use in Feng Shui for love! Place a rose quartz double heart talisman in the southwest sector of your house and you will activate the energy of love, tenderness, and romance in your life.

Dragon and Phoenix

In the Feng Shui symbolism, Dragon and Phoenix are the two most powerful exponents of favorable Qi energy. These are heavenly creatures that symbolize the pinnacle of luck.

The Dragon symbolizes success, courage, leadership, and higher fortune. Phoenix symbolizes new opportunities, luck, change, and rebirth.

Dragon and Phoenix placed together represent a strong Union of Yin and Yang, embodied in the life of family happiness. This is an effective means of improving romantic luck, both for already married people and for those who are in search of love.

Place the Dragon and Phoenix in the southwest sector of your house or in your bedroom.

Step 5: Fill In Your Bedroom With Love Energy

Make your bedroom your own little sanctuary! Let it be the most peaceful and harmonious place for you. Follow Feng Shui bedroom tips in my article “The Best Feng Shui Bedroom Tips For Love, Romance, and Happiness”.

Bottom Line

I’ve never met anyone that Feng Shui for love wouldn’t help. Feng Shui changes lives! It doesn’t always happen immediately. Usually, changes come gradually. Although sometimes people see the results the very next day. Everyone is different, so it turns out the results are different. But one thing I know for sure: Feng Shui works at all levels of our lives! It brings joy and hope for a new happy and harmonious life. Feel free to accept “the friendly hand” of your new friend Feng Shui! Use these simple steps and see how your life will change!

Open your heart and go towards your dream of a harmonious romantic relationship, towards true love, towards yourself!

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Activate Romantic Luck With These Powerful Love Affirmations!

Published

3 months ago

January 11, 2019

Katya Ki

Love is the main creative force, the binding fabric of the Universe. Everything alive on our planet is circling in the eternal act of love. And our spiritual development can only progress through love. When we fall in love, it means that we connect with the whole Universe in a great dance of creativity. It gives us strength, inspiration, birth to new ideas and impetus to our development. Before I share my favorite love affirmations with you, I would like to say a couple of words about love.

Let’s Talk About Love

The greatest secret of happiness is to love yourself, be in a good mood and think positively!

If you love yourself, you will never suffer from the loss of love. You have to understand that your relationship with yourself is reflected in all your other relationships (with your partner, family members, colleagues or friends).

I’m sure you noticed that the most attractive energy comes from people who sincerely and unconditionally love themselves. And there is nothing surprising about the fact that the better you treat yourself, the better quality of relationship you attract. In this regard, “better quality” is shown in not allowing yourself to have those relationships that are unworthy of you, in which you humiliate yourself or suffer. “Better quality” means always to choose the best for yourself, never compromise with yourself and never sacrifice your self-love!

How Do Love Affirmations Work?

First of all, let me tell you that in my opinion love affirmations are the most effective formula for finding love. I’m 100% confident that affirmations work for everyone who has enough discipline, willpower, and concentration for everyday practice.

Affirmations are positive statements that program your subconscious mind to fulfill all your desires. In accordance with this program, joyful and happy desired events will gradually enter into your life.

Most people can’t even imagine how effective affirmations are! Affirmations are your main key to reprogramming your consciousness. That’s why the trick is to keep repeating them again and again until they are firmly imprinted in your subconscious.

How To Practice Love Affirmations?

In this article, I decided to share with you the system that I created for myself many years ago when I was suffering from unrequited love. Later I discovered that this system works amazingly not just for myself but also for my friends and students. This system helped me not only to meet my great love but also learn to love myself! That is why I recommend you start practicing with self-love affirmations and then move on to Universal love affirmations and Love affirmations for attracting a partner.

My Love Affirmation System includes 3 groups:

1. Self-love affirmations
2. Universal love affirmations
3. Love affirmations for attracting a partner for romantic relationships.

Read these affirmations in the morning immediately after waking up and in the evening before going to bed. Practice the first group of affirmations for 21 days. Then (after 21 days of daily practice) add the second group to your daily practice. Read both groups of affirmations for another 21 days. Then add the 3rd group of affirmations. Practice all 3 groups of affirmations daily until you see the result.

Group 1 – Self-Love Affirmations

Start practicing love affirmations with this group.

We always attract what we radiate. That is why – in order to attract a partner, you must first become a source of love. When you radiate love you become a magnet for love. You become more attractive not only on an energy level but even your appearance will start to change! When you love yourself you become a source of joy and inspiration for others. You look attractive, happy and calm. In my article “5 Simple Steps To Boost Your Self-Love” I share how to love yourself. Don’t forget to check it out!

The following affirmations will help you to boost your self-love.

I LOVE and accept myself for who I am!
I LOVE my personality!
I LOVE my body!
I LOVE my behavior!
Every day I become more and more attractive! I can see it and people around me can see it too!
I respect myself!
I think about myself only in a positive LOVING way!
I talk about myself only in a respectful and LOVING way!
I am LOVE!
I’m in LOVE with myself!

Group 2 – Universal Love Affirmations

Continuing the theme on how to become the source of love. We need to learn not only to love ourselves but also to love our lives and everything and everyone around us!

The following love affirmations will help to tune into the energy of love towards the whole world.

I radiate LOVE!
There is LOVE inside and around me!
My life is full of LOVE!
I LOVE myself and the whole world!
I am a source of LOVE!
May my LOVE fill the Universe!
I’m in LOVE with my life!
I LOVE everyone I know and everyone who knows me LOVES me! I feel it!
I LOVE the whole world and the whole world LOVES me! I feel it!
I LOVE the whole Universe and the whole Universe LOVES me! I feel it!

Group 3 – Love Affirmations For Attracting a Partner

Finally, we come to the last set of affirmations – and probably the reason you began to read this article – love affirmations to attract a partner.

I let go of my past and open up myself to LOVE and new relationships!
I welcome new relationships and new LOVE!
I am open to LOVE unconditionally!
I am open to receive LOVE!
I’m grateful for LOVE!
I have a big respect and LOVE for men (women)!
I’m in LOVE and I am LOVED! I live in peace and harmony!
I attract harmonious and happy relationship into my life!
My partner respects me and loves me as much as I love and respect him (her)!
I am happy in LOVE!

The Bottom Line

There is nothing more important than love. In order to attract love, we have to become its source first. It’s not difficult to do if we keep our focus on it. Affirmations are a great tool which helps us not only reprogram ourselves from negativity to positivity, from self-hate to self-love, from misery to happiness but also to keep our focus on only what we desire.

If you want to attract love, first of all, you should stop focusing on your loneliness but start focusing on LOVE instead. While reading love affirmations visualize that you already have what you intend to attract: self-love, acceptance, romantic relationships, etc. Not just the positive words of love affirmations but also the feeling of having what you want attracts the desired results! Combine the power of thoughts with a power of words and a power of visualization and you will always attract what you want into your life!