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Why Past Sexual Egregores Can Ruin Your Relationship?

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Sexual energy is the most powerful creative energy on our planet. When there is too much creative energy it transforms into the opposite – a destructive force that causes relationship problems and freezes spiritual development.

Each sexual connection we have in our life (even short-term) forms a powerful egregore connected to the energy body. The fact is that sexual energy is always aimed at creation – thus, children are born and egregores are formed.

That’s why I think it’s very important to be aware of sexual egregores you’re still attached to. It will help you to avoid many relationship problems you could experience in the future.

What Is An Egregore?

Egregore is a sustainable energy-informational structure, engendered by the thoughts and emotions of people.

The egregore itself is formed on an energy level, but it feeds on the energy of the physical plane. The egregore exists as long as it has adherents capable of maintaining the necessary level of energy in it for its existence, as well as until its idea is “alive”.

Egregores have the ability to transmit and receive energy at their own frequencies. That is why not everyone can catch the signals of a particular egregore. Such signals are able to catch only those people who are aligned with this particular egregore.

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Egregore provides a person with the necessary resources and provides him (her) with the necessary energy to solve his (her) tasks. However, it should be understood that the resources and energy provided by the egregore are given for solving specific problems of the egregore itself. If a person, instead of solving the problems of the egregore, spends energy and resources on something else, then energy and resources are taken away from him (her).

The egregore itself is a neutral form. However, when you create a new egregore, an old egregore of similar quality must be destroyed. Otherwise, the old egregore will put all its forces to destroy the new one, or at least slow down its development.

Sexual Egregores

Sexual connection arises initially at the level of thoughts and emotions. First, there is a sexual desire, then the desire to satisfy it, and only after that it gets satisfied on the physical plane. That’s the algorithm in which a sexual egregore gets created.

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Thus, you have as many sexual egregores as many sexual partners you’ve had in life. Since all of these egregores were built on the energy of the same quality (sexual energy), they all have the ability to influence each other. The task of each egregore is to keep you in a relationship with a sexual partner, as a result of which, in fact, it was formed. Thus, you may have several egregores in the confrontation, taking away your energy.

This fight for your energy will continue until you destroy all egregores based on your past relationships. The danger of having such egregores is that they are trying to destroy the relationship you have at the moment, taking the energy away from it, as well as taking energy from your partner.

A Lack Of Energy Leads To Relationship Problems

Past relationship egregores can act like energy parasites that suck your energy, your partner’s energy and eventually create relationship problems.

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Here is the list of signs (relationship problems) that show if you have the lack of energy in your relationship:

  • quarrels, scandals, swearing;
  • lack of understanding;
  • lack of intimacy;
  • distrust;
  • cheating;
  • jealousy;
  • fatigue;
  • aggression;
  • spite;
  • no desire to be alone with each other, the need to be in a company of friends (i.e. your egregore is so depleted and weak that you just need to be among other people to get energy support from them because your relationship almost has no energy to survive. You explain yourself that you just want to have fun, that without friends you are bored. Although actually, not boredom is forcing you to be in the company of other people but the lack of energy. When there is enough energy in your relationship, it can’t be boring. Therefore, you’re able to have fun only in with your friends – because you are full of energy taken from a friendship egregore).

Sexual Egregores May Keep You Away From Relationships

If at the moment you are alone and can not create a relationship, it can also indicate that it is the sexual egregores of your past that attract all sorts of failures in love, preventing you from meeting your soulmate. They will try to “cut to the root” any relationship because in this case, you will continue to feed them with your energy.

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The only way to get rid of the destructive effects of an egregore is its destruction. To do this, first of all, it is necessary to realize the danger of having such an egregore, and then – without regret to destroy it.

How To Destroy a Sexual Egregore?

The process of liberation from destructive sexual egregors consists of the following steps.

Step 1: Make A List Of All Your Sexual Partners.

It’s very important to make a list of all your sexual partners. It gives you a clear idea of what to work with.

Stage 2: Remove Any Material Connections With Your Ex Sexual Partners

Using the list of your ex sexual partners remove any material connections with each of them:

  •  remove their phone numbers from your phone memory;
  •  burn all the pictures where you’re together, and delete them from electronic devices and social networks;
  • get rid of all the gifts that your ex-partners gave you (give them to someone, give them to charity, and if they are of no value – just throw them away);
  • stay away from any discussions of your ex-partners with friends or family members;
  • try to protect yourself from any interaction with your ex-partners.

Stage 3: Karmic Relationship Healing

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In order to destroy energy cords with every sexual partner you’ve had in life you should consider doing a karmic relationship healing. Use the list of your ex-partners so you won’t forget anyone! This is very important because if you don’t heal your karmic relationship you will transfer your previous relationship to the next incarnation in the form of a karmic bond, which will be a big obstacle to your full development in this and next life. To learn more about this practice read my article “Karmic Relationship Healing: Effective Practice To Let Your Past Go!”

Conclusion

When you free yourself from your past you’ll step into a new stage of your life. Nothing will pull you back anymore, you’ll stop experiencing the same relationship problems again and again. You will be free from your past so you can enter a new relationship! What’s more important is that you’ll be able not just to receive love but also to give it. You’ll be able to be happy and make your partner happy too. By destroying sexual egregores of your past you’ll finally be able to create a loving and harmonious relationship!

Katya Ki is the Founder and Editor-In-Chief of SOLANCHA Magazine, a Feng Shui Master, a Metaphysical Expert, a Reiki Master, and Human Rights Attorney. She has been studying Eastern metaphysics and esotericism for almost 20 years now. And she's still discovering new knowledge, which is hidden in ancient teachings. During her pilgrimage to the monastery of Saint Catherine in Egypt, she discovered the SOLANCHA System. This is how the SOLANCHA journey started!

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These 5 Love Mantras Will Change Your Life!

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Sometimes our romantic life doesn’t quite go the way we would like it to. Some people start to fight for their happiness, some –  give up and resign themselves to fate, and some – appeal to a Higher power to help them understand why they are experiencing this life lesson, learn it and continue their path. Love mantras help to overcome the difficulties and troubles in relationships, to find a life partner or soulmate, to fill with passion, fading relationships. In other words, to change our romantic luck for the better.

Written in Sanskrit verbal codes that came to us from Tibet and India are designed for different situations. Powerful coded information, which is hidden in every sacred syllable of love mantras, allows you to improve your romantic luck and get rid of loneliness.

How Do Love Mantras Work?

Ancient Tibetan and Hindu knowledge allows us to discover new spiritual horizons and significantly improve our lives.

Mantras came to us from ancient times. Mantra Chanting helps us to attract love, tenderness, and passion. Some people think that this practice is not for everyone. But it’s not true! Mantra chanting is a universal method of praying that is available to everyone. Absolutely everyone can chant mantras. And this is a very significant advantage of mantras – they help everyone who wants to change his or her life for the better, regardless of age, sex, and religion.

When we pronounce mantras in Sanskrit, we have the opportunity to restore harmony and connect with the cosmos. When you chant love mantras consistently you become more and more connected with the Universe. This connection creates love vibrations in your body. And these vibrations attract your soulmate into your life; passion in your relationships; tenderness in your feelings;  etc.

Each mantra contains a very powerful energetic particle of the Universe and the potential of the realization of the desired result.

In this case, when it comes to the attracting love luck, love mantras will be your most powerful tool.

How To Chant Love Mantras?

It is recommended to chant mantras 108 times. This number is considered to be magical, carrying a very important sacred meaning. By repeating love mantras 108 times, you reveal the meaning of each number, allowing it to work for you:

1 – the symbol of the Highest Energy that contributes to the realization of the desired result;

0 – the symbol of the perfection of God’ Creation;

8 – the symbol of infinity.

When you’re chanting love mantras it is recommended to use prayer beads (108 beads). Thus, you will not be distracted from the meditation and will be able to tune in the right way to attract the desired result into your life.

Meditation and a good atmosphere are also considered to be very important. It is best to chant mantras early morning and evening hours. The room where you practice mantra chanting should be calm and quiet.

You can reach the excellent results if you combine mantra chanting with certain actions. For example, you can apply the following schedule: get up early in the morning and drink a glass of warm water on an empty stomach; sit down and chant love mantras. Supplement the session with several favorite yoga asanas (optional). And complete the ritual with a short-term relaxation lying on the back on the floor with closed fingers – thumb and index.

After reading these simple recommendations you can start your mantra practice. Believing in the power of love mantras and showing respect for ancient Tibetan and Hindu knowledge, you will forget about all your problems with relationships.

The Most Powerful Love Mantras

Green Tara Mantra

This mantra brings the soul to a state of balance, reveals femininity and attractiveness. While chanting the mantra you should mentally refer to the goddess Tara and ask for assistance in finding your soulmate. This mantra is considered to be a mantra of the fulfillment of desires. That’s why it’s Dalai Lama’s favorite mantra.

Om Tare Tuttare Ture Svaha

Mantra of Love

This is a very beautiful mantra of love and tenderness. This mantra fills your soul with the light of love and harmony. It helps to attract love into your life. If you had a fight with your beloved, chanting this sacred mantra will help you to reconcile. Crying while listening or singing this mantra is a very good sign of cleansing your aura from negative vibrations.

Tumi Bhaja Re Mana Tumi Japa Re Mana
Om Shri Ram Jaya Ram
Japa Re Mana

The Vibration of Love

These sacred sounds raise the internal power of women, creating in them a vibration of love. Magically, you will become a magnet of love for others if you sing these sounds for three weeks. This mantra connects you with energies of Sun, Moon, Earth and the Infinite Spirit. Through this connection, you experience deep healing.

Ra Ma Da Sa Sa Say So Hung

Mantra for Attracting the Attention of the Opposite Sex

This mantra attracts potential partners for relationships. You can chant this mantra while thinking about a perfect partner for yourself. Sacred sounds of this mantra create a glow around your aura, which is impossible not to notice. Sing constantly to achieve results.

Om Kurukulle Svaha

Mantra for the Reunification of the Feminine and Masculine

This powerful mantra helps with the reunification of the feminine and masculine. It helps to create the inner harmony, fertile ground for love, tenderness and long-term relationships.

Kang Kalika Hum Shivaya

Purusha Prakriti

Kang Kalika Hum Shivaya

Om Mani Padme Hum

The Bottom Line

As you can see the mantra practice is not so difficult! However, the result of this practice is simply amazing. Try to make love mantras chanting your daily practice – and you will see how much your life will change for the better. If you correctly repeat each sound, syllable, word, then it is possible to attract improbable favorable changes in your life very quickly!

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What to Expect When Dating an Empath: Empathy vs. Emotional War

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Dating an empath must pretty much be difficult. Often described as overly sensitive, empaths possess the rare gift of an ability to intuitively feel and comprehend what the next person is going through from within their frame of reference. Owing to their acute sensitivity, they are more vulnerable to getting hurt especially in relationships.

Empaths naturally react to the slightest provocations. It may be the sight of an animal in distress or the sound of a child crying in anguish or pain. The immediate surrounding thus plays a key role in determining whether they will be happy and energized or sad.

Most people are afraid of dating an empath because of their ability to see through people and tell what is really going on. They fear their partner might be over-protective or over-reactive in sensitive situations. And these fears are actually true.

How to Know If You Are Dating an Empath

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You may be unconsciously dating an empath. Below are common traits that we associate with empaths:

  • Empaths are highly sensitive people. They are overly keen about themselves and their immediate environment. Naturally, they can observe and notice things, which an ordinary person wouldn’t.
  • They possess a lot of empathy. Whatever the next person is feeling, good or bad, empaths will feel to the same scale. This is both exhausting and flourishing for them. It is exhausting if around negative energy and flourishing if surrounded by peace and love.
  • They are introverted. Crowds overwhelm Empaths. That is why they prefer one-to-one contact or small groups. They connect better with individuals than groups.
  • Empaths are very intuitive. It is practically impossible to lie to an empath. They are led by their intuition, which is right most of the time. Consequently, they can separate positive vibes from negative energy.
  • They love spending time alone. Being around people leaves them drained, and therefore, they need to constantly stay away to re-energize. This may be partly why they don’t last in intimate relationships. They have a big heart and worry more about others than themselves, which wears them out.

How to Interact with Empaths

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If you are dating an empath, there are a few adjustments you have to make. This is what relationships are about anyway, right? Initially, these changes might be tough and inconvenient, but once you adapt everything should work just fine. With time, you will realize that empaths are adorable people capable of loving and being loved just like any other person.

Give them alone time

When they stay alone from you, it is not because they don’t want you around, but rather to decompress and recharge. It is their means of self-preservation. Create a routine that encompasses breaks within the day.

Establish some physical space

This may be your bathroom, living room, or even the study area. It may seem a bit abnormal, but empaths have certain spaces that can’t be evaded at all. This requires you to compromise, but it’s a step closer towards building a stronger relationship.

Make requests, not demands

Dating an empath may be demanding. If there is something that you’d love your partner to change about themselves, there is a proper way of asking without coming out as if you are imposing. Approach them when they are decompressed and at peace and then tell them in a sensitive manner.

Do not yell at him or her. You might have arguments occasionally but you should never yell at an empath. They are very sensitive about little things and yelling may make them snap.

Take it slow

Do not rush things. It may take a little longer making adjustments but do not rush yourself or your partner. Give each other time to adapt to each other. Similarly, address a single issue at a time to avoid overwhelming them with stress. Empaths are drained drastically by sad and unpleasant situations because of their overly sensitive nature.

They are not broken – stop “fixing”

We ruin most relationships because of couples trying to ‘fix’ the other. There are those things you may not like about your partner. Try compromising and if you can’t then talk it up with him or her in a settled manner. Do not try to mold him or her into something they are not. You just have to trust your instincts and play your part well.

Be playful with your partner

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Empaths tend to be serious most of the time. Lighten up the mood by bringing out the inner child in them at times. This is healthy for both of you and your relationship.

Be honest and truthful

We often lie at times to save ourselves or to avoid disappointing our partners. It is almost impossible to lie to an empath. They always have a way of feeling the inner truth, and if they are persistent, eventually you will confess the truth. Endeavor to be open and truthful because empaths can’t handle being lied to. If issues come up, handle them in complete honesty with each other. However, don’t forget to be mindful of their feelings.

Does the future look bright?

It is important not to work too hard to make things work in a relationship that explicitly has no future. Walk out if you feel that things are hopeless for the two of you. Otherwise, such a relationship might hurt your partner or you emotionally. However, if you take your time to know your partner well, you’ll discover their loveable inner character. Besides, “nothing good comes easy”. Dating an empath has its challenges, but if well done, it is one of the most fulfilling relationships. The rest will fall in place with time.

In Conclusion

Many people confuse empaths for weak people who are nothing but scared. The opposite is true. When surrounded by positive energy they flourish into lovely creatures that are so much fun to hang around. There is no ultimate guide to loving a person, and dating an empath is an exciting experience despite all the compromises. All it takes is enough commitment from both parties and sufficient communication.

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What Is Tantra? Demystifying The Myths

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What is tantra? Tantra in literal terms can be compared to technology. Just like we harness technology to create what we want – physical items or otherwise, tantra is leveraged to enable us to make available, an intelligence beyond our present capabilities. It is a sophisticated process of awareness, openness, and harmony. It allows you to open your heart and move the energies within your body through conscious awareness.

Demystifying Tantra

Tantra originated from India and was documented in Sanskrit texts from the 6th to about the 13th century. It was (and still is) meant to enhance the mastery of one’s energies and how to harness them. Tantra works to help us to love and understand our lives. It also creates a spiritual connection with everything that is present in our lives. And in this case, even our partners.

The nature of the human mind is such that if we can distinctly create something in our mind, the next step would be to empower that with our life energy. And if we can do that, it will become a living reality by itself. Most humans have lost this power because their minds have become restless. Their life energies are also not sufficiently organized to put them behind whatever they wish.

There are tools that we can use to harness our mind and energies to making an intelligence that surpasses our present capabilities. These tools are referred to as tantric methods. We use tantra to make things happen. Tantra methods are varied. In yoga, we refer to it as tantra yoga. In sexuality, we relate to the tantra method as tantric sex. With Tantra, you work on your mind, energies, emotions, body, and heart, collectively or separately, to achieve something.

If you’re still wondering what is tantra, we can conclude that if you are able to strengthen yourself physically such that you can accomplish arduous tasks, then that is Tantra. Similarly, tantra is when you manage to employ your energies to your heart. This makes you kind and loving to all.

Tantra and Sexuality

For most people (especially in Western countries), the mention of tantra resonates with acrobatic sexuality – hours and hours of it. There is nothing wrong with wanting to enjoy prolonged sex. However, tantra works mainly to enhance a more intimate and stronger connection with your partner.

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So, all this begs the question, what is tantra with regards to sexuality?

To answer this question, I will refer to a form of tantra called tantric sex.

Tantric sex, an ancient Hindu practice, had remained hidden from the public for ages due to religious reasons. However, it is now open to all. Tantric sex is a form of slow sex. It is designed as a way of weaving and expanding the energies at play during sex. The aim is for the whole experience to be as enjoyable and rewarding as possible.

Sexuality is potent. Its energies are some of the most intense. Tantric sex enables you to harness this energy appropriately. Instead of demanding fulfillment from your partner, tantra helps you to find it within yourself. This creates stability and harmony in relationships.

Tantra also allows couples to enjoy better sex. It provides an avenue in which they eradicate the negative emotions that work to inhibit the blossoming of relationships. In Tantra, sex isn’t a taboo or something to be ashamed. Instead, it is sacred and an expression of our inherent ability to experience joy with others.

There are specific guidelines when performing tantra that I apply. These guidelines are extremely useful in facilitating a bond with my partner and providing a conducive atmosphere for intimacy. In many ways, it enhances sensuality even before you initiate intercourse.

The Basic Tantric Sex Principles are:

  • Creating a sacred place for your sexual time with your partner.
  • Slowing down and being aware and present with each other.
  • Honoring your lover.
  • Emphasizing total body sexual foreplay.

Use tantric breathing exercises to channel your Kundalini. The term refers to sexual energy that stays dormant in your body until it is awakened. It then spreads from the base of your spine to the top of your head, through your Chakras (your body energy centers).

The Impacts of Tantra on Spirituality As Well As Sexual Relationships

Tantra enables you to channel your energies into achieving calmness and inner peace which are integral components of your spirituality.

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The emphasis of tantric sex on honoring your lover and taking out negative thoughts about them as well as yourself, from your mind is essential in promoting healthy relationships.

Today’s lives and hustles mean that we rarely stop and get to understand the special people in our lives. Tantra enhances connecting with your lover more intensely. This improves the bond you share with each other. You get to understand each other on a very high level. It also provides adequate closeness in your intimacy which enhances your union.

The ability to experience sexual pleasure is vital in any sexual relationship. Tantric sex enables you to harness the sexual energy. The pleasurable sensations get exaggerated and experienced over long periods. After all, sex is part of being human and enjoying it in the best way possible is essential to our wellbeing.

In tantra, we learn how to use our mind, energies, and body as instruments with which we can achieve higher possibilities. When correctly implemented, tantra enhances spiritual healing and wellness.

Tips for Spicing Up Lovemaking Based On Tantric Sex

Mental Manipulation

The key to enjoying sex lies in one’s mind. If anything the brain is the organ that processes our sensations. What this means is that any negative thoughts including misgivings about ourselves or our partners will ultimately hinder us from enjoying the experiences. You, therefore, need to shed it all and have a clear mind.

Think of it as having an intimate relationship with the best version of your partner. Release the past and immerse yourself in the now – the present. Keep it all out and focus on the experiences at hand. Focus on the nourishing thoughts about yourself, your body as well as your partner’s.

Establish and Maintain Eye Contact

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Having eye contact with your partner during sex (as well as during foreplay) is one of the best ways to connect with them. Intimacy is not just about intercourse. It is also about getting to be one with your partner. Eye contact enables you to fully immerse yourself in your sensations as well as those of your partner.

One way to start is by eye gazing. Sit across each other on the bed with no touching and merely stare into each other’s eyes for about five minutes. Essentially, it creates a deep level of connection with your partner even before you touch one another.

Meditate As You Have Sex

What I mean by this, is to picture the sensations while being fully aware of your present moment. If you tune in to your five senses, you will experience everything that you perceive at that moment. This will happen through what you see, hear, feel, smell, and taste.

The next step is to use your sexual energy to get into a state of trance. For regular sex, your sensations and the turn-on are localized in your genitals. However, with tantra, you can direct this energy to the brain and through the rest of the body. It will get you into a profound state of consciousness.

In Conclusion

Orgasm or climaxing is usually a short-lived period of extreme pleasure. However, with tantric sex, due to the intense circulation of sexual energy, as well as the fact that you’re more in a state of trance, the orgasm leads to the entire body coming alive. Instead of being a brief experience, the body radiates these extreme pleasure sensations for hours and hours. With this, I hope the question of what is tantra has been comprehensively addressed.

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