It’s not a secret that energy is the vital force of the body. That is why energy is priceless. When people communicate with each other, there is always an exchange of energy. If people communicate with each other on a voluntary basis, and their energy is in resonance, the energy exchange is balanced and reciprocal. After such communication, there are pleasant feelings and a desire to communicate again. This is an example of normal and natural communication with no signs of energy vampires.
However, the modern reality is that the cases of energy vampirism are very common. And, almost every one of us has at least once come face to face with one of the many manifestations of energy vampirism. This happens because the energy of most people is weak leaving them feeling exhausted. Such people, due to lack of relevant knowledge or desire, are not able to independently maintain their energy at a normal level, so they “suck” energy (unknowingly) from other people.
You can meet energy vampires anywhere: at work, at the stores, at the parties, at home, etc. After talking to an energy vampire, a person can feel fatigue, irritability, mood deterioration and a feeling of loss of vital energy. It is necessary to understand that if you constantly fall under the influence of energy vampirism, this entails the depletion of your energy field. When the energy field is weakened, you feel exhausted and easily get sick.
Therefore, energetic vampirism is the process of energy extraction by one person of another person, in which the first becomes saturated, and the second is weakened.
The Nature Of Energy Vampire and Energy Donor
An energy vampire is always energetically and spiritually more weak, than energy donor. Typically, only insecure and unstable people who are prone to scandals, gossips and envy become energy vampires. They are intuitively attracted to positive and energized people.
An energy donor is a person with great energy and spiritual potential. As a result, the energy donor is attractive to energy vampire and unwittingly gives his energy when communicating.
The cause of energy vampirism is always lack of vital energy. When a person doesn’t have enough energy he (or she) becomes an energy vampire.
In other words, if the person continually causes irritation, and after talking with him, you feel weak and tired, most likely you’re dealing with an energy vampire!
Usually, a person who becomes an energy vampire has lots of blocks in his (or her) energy body. That’s why he (or she) becomes unable to freely access sustainable energy from Source. Therefore, he (or she) takes energy from another person, and usually feels some sort of pleasure or satisfaction that his (or her) donor feels bad and depleted because of the loss of energy.
For the most part, energy vampires are very obsessive, and often unhappy with themselves and their environment, selfish and annoying. Staying with them is very uncomfortable, and any conversation with them quickly becomes boring or even painful.
I’m telling you all this for making you understand that energy vampires are energetically weak people. Their access to their own internal power source is blocked. This suggests that they have a lot of blocks and insecurities. They absolutely do not resonate with the vibrations of the universe, because they violate its laws.
How To Recognize Energy Vampires?
Let’s take a look at the signs that reveal energy vampires.
First of all, the most important thing for energy vampires is to get you out of balance.
For example, he can pretend that he doesn’t understand something. At the same time, he will be bothering you with a lot of questions and errors, completely ignoring any explanation, and not recognizing any help. Through his actions, he wants you to lose your temper. As soon as you lose control over your emotions, there will be a release of energy, which will serve as “food” for the vampire.
Secondly, energy vampires often start long conversations “about nothing”.
These conversations cannot be interrupted and you have to listen for hours about their complaints and stories about their life. If you feel that you are already tired of the conversation, but you can not interrupt it or change the subject, then most likely, your excessive talker is just trying to pump energy out of you.
Thirdly, energy vampires like to create situations when you are forced to wait for them, tormented in the expectations.
For example, you can simply invite such a person to a cafe or the movie theater, and he will not give you a clear answer whether he is going to make it or not. As a result, you start to get frustrated about the uncertainty, and the energy vampire gets his “food” in the form of your energy.
Fourthly, the energy vampire gets pleasure from retelling the details of disasters, tragedies, wars, deaths, and other negative events.
He relishes the details of the suffering of the victims in order to arouse in others fear, anxiety, and pain. Thus he brings them out of balance. People get emotional about negativity in the world and then become “food” for energy vampires.
Fifthly, energy vampires always seek direct contact.
They like to touch other people, can even intentionally push somebody for getting their “food”.
There are different types of energy vampires
Generally, one vampire can distinguish several kinds.
This type gives the impression of a kind person. But when someone starts a conversation about their problems, he immediately butts in the conversation and starts asking questions about the details, giving advice, and revealing the stories about other people’s suffering.
This person always has a very sad look. He often grumbles and is absolutely dissatisfied with his life. Even if such a person gets into a friendly company, he will always find something negative and will constantly be focusing on it. He likes to complain about his life and the imperfections of this world. You might think that such a person is just looking for moral support or advice, but in fact, he is not going to change anything in his life, he just needs your energy. And he gets it, drawing your attention to his problem.
3. “Aggressive vampire”
This type loves to provoke conflicts and quarrels. He is rude and one might even say barbaric. He is very well aware of what causes people’s negative emotions and loves to push buttons. This gives him great pleasure. Because negative emotions are his favorite “dish”.
Such a person absolutely does not care about other people, he only cares about his own problems. As a rule, such a person considers himself an undervalued genius, who was surrounded by small and limited people who are not able to appreciate it. Usually, he is arrogant and likes to humiliate other people.
This is the most dangerous type, which acts very tricky. From the very beginning, he’s (she’s) trying to ingratiate himself (herself), make compliments (manipulating victim’s ego), gives expensive gifts. He (she) can spend weeks, months, and even years making a potential donor dependent on him (her). Besides that, he (she) tries to learn everything about the victim’s interests, passions, and weaknesses. He (she) is always very attentive to donor’s emotions and feelings.
But the danger is that as soon as the victim lets him (her) into his (her) life, he (she) immediately begins to humiliate, insult and hurt the victim. He (she) will always equally use “stick and carrot” in order not to lose the donor. He (she) will not leave the donor alone until he (she) has sucked all the energy out of the donor. When the donor is completely devastated, he (she) will switch to the next victim and will follow the same pattern.
When you’re facing this type of vampirism it is very important to control your ego. One of the first things this kind of vampire will use to manipulate you is your vanity.
How To Deal With Energy Vampires?
When you’re experiencing the vampiric attack as the donor you’re losing a large amount of vital energy, resulting in fatigue, apathy, and irritability.
Please pay attention to the main signs of vampiric attack:
- heart palpitation;
- pain in the heart;
- difficulty breathing;
- decreased appetite;
- fear of loneliness;
If after talking with a person, you have at least one of these symptoms, then most likely you fell under the effects of a vampiric attack.
So, how to protect yourself when you’re facing an energy vampire?
The first thing you need to remember – energy vampires can’t take your energy if you’re calm and balanced.
That’s why they try to cause negative emotions. Therefore, the most important thing is not to allow the vampire to provoke you and to remain calm. If in such a situation you can remain calm, you will not become the donor.
Second, when energy vampires talk about their problems, it is necessary to refrain from feeling pity.
As a rule, during these stories, he (she) stares into the eyes of a potential donor, not allowing to look away. He (she) also tries to touch the donor as often as possible, thus trying to extend the contact. In such cases, it’s best just to walk away from the vampire or come up with a reason to distract the conversation. If this is impossible, you can think about something more neutral – it will help to keep your emotions under control.
Third, try not to look into the vampire’s eyes.
This is how you can protect yourself from the vampire’s manipulations.
Fourth, when dealing with an energy vampire, cross your arms and legs.
Such a posture will help you avoid energy leakage.
My experience has shown that the best way to protect yourself from energy vampires is to treat them with good humor. Laughter is the emotion to which vampires are absolutely not ready for. Therefore, try to treat people who are trying to bring you into unbalanced emotional states with irony. What makes you laugh can’t be scary, right? Try to make fun of any rude remarks the vampire makes. Humor absolutely knocks the vampire out of balance, because it doesn’t resonate with him (her) at all. Stay calm and be positive!