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These Osho Quotes Will Change Your Perspective About Relationships

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12 months ago

March 11, 2018

For many of us, the introduction to Osho’s wisdom doesn’t begin with his books, but with his quotes that we see all around the Internet. Why do we love Osho quotes so much? Why do we post them and repost them again and again? I think you will agree that Osho quotes contain a unique depth and can give the most unexpected and simple answers to our most difficult questions. And they also bring inspiration and clarity into our lives. That’s why there will always be space for Osho books on our shelves and Osho quotes on our social media feed.

Every time we read Osho’s words about ordinary things we always get an extraordinary perspective about things that seemed so obvious. Osho had a brilliant talent to inspire people to open up their inner potential and to see things as they are.

Who Is Osho?

Probably every one of you has heard about Osho. But if for some reason you still don’t know who this wise man that gets quoted on social media more than anyone else is, and whose quotes you know by memory, then this information is for you.

Osho is an Indian spiritual leader who preached the eclectic doctrine of Eastern mysticism, individual devotion, and freedom. He absorbed the ideas of India’s religious traditions, studied and taught philosophy, was a spiritual mentor and practiced social asceticism.

When I read his book for the first time it was a very new experience for me. Usually, when you read these kinds of books you expect to get a systematized knowledge that gives you clear answers to your questions. Osho’s teaching seems absolutely opposite. I would represent his teaching as a chaotic mosaic of Buddhism, yoga, Taoism, Greek philosophy, Sufism, European psychology, Tibetan traditions, Christianity, Zen, Tantrism and many other spiritual traditions intertwined with his own views. Osho himself said that he does not have a system because the system is initially dead.

Lifechanging Osho quotes about relationship

Relationship is a bondage

“The moment love becomes a relationship, it becomes a bondage, because there are expectations and there are demands and there are frustrations, and an effort from both sides to dominate. It becomes a struggle for power…
“Two persons can be very loving together. The more loving they are, the less is the possibility of any relationship. And naturally, there is no question of any frustration.”
Osho, The Hidden Splendor

“When you are happy alone, when you can live with yourself, there is no intrinsic necessity to be in relationship. That does not mean that you will not relate. But to relate is one thing, and to be in relationship is quite another. Relationship is a kind of bondage, relating is sharing. You will relate with many people, you will share your joy with many people, but you will not depend on anyone in particular and you will not allow anybody else to depend on you. You will not be dependent, and you will not allow anybody to be dependent on you. Then you live out of freedom, out of joy, out of love.”
Osho, Be Still and Know

Relationship and love are two different things

“Relationship means something complete, finished, closed. Love is never a relationship; love is relating. It is always a river, flowing, unending. Love knows no full stop; the honeymoon begins but never ends. It is not like a novel that starts at a certain point and ends at a certain point. It is an ongoing phenomenon. Lovers end, love continues. It is a continuum. It is a verb, not a noun.

“And why do we reduce the beauty of relating to relationship? Why are we in such a hurry? – because to relate is insecure, and relationship is a security, relationship has a certainty. Relating is just a meeting of two strangers, maybe just an overnight stay and in the morning we say good-bye. Who knows what is going to happen tomorrow? And we are so afraid that we want to make it certain, we want to make it predictable. We would like tomorrow to be according to our ideas; we don’t allow it freedom to have its own say. So we immediately reduce every verb to a noun.”
Osho, The Book of Wisdom

“Relationship and love are totally different things. Love is never a relationship, and relationship is never love. Love relates, but it is not a relationship. Relationship is a dead thing, a closed thing. Love is a flowing.”
Osho, Walk Without Feet, Fly Without Wings and Think Without Mind

Relationship is a challenge

“When you are in relationship with people, in a thousand and one ways you are provoked, challenged, seduced. Again and again, you come to know your pitfalls, your limitations, your anger, your lust, your possessiveness, your jealousy, your sadness, your happiness all moods come and go, you are constantly in a turmoil. But this is the only way to know who you are.

“Self-knowledge is not the knowledge of a dead self, self-knowledge is the knowledge of the process of the self. It is an alive phenomenon. The self is not a thing, it is an event, it is a process. Never think in terms of things, the self is not there inside you just like a thing waiting in your room. The self is a process: changing, moving, arriving at new altitudes, moving into new planes, going deeper into new depths. Each moment much work is going on and the only way to encounter this self is to encounter it in relationship.”
Osho, Tao: The Pathless Path

Be independent and give independence to your partner

Relationship is one thing, interdependence totally another. Relationship means you are separate; you are independent and so is the other, and you decide to relate. Relationship is not interdependence, it is a contract between two independent persons. Hence all relationships are false because basically independence is false. Nobody is independent – and if you are not independent how can you relate? With whom can you relate?
Osho, The Book Of Wisdom

There are two types of relationship

There are two types of relationship: one is of fight, fear, hatred – this creates ego – the other is of love, compassion, sympathy. These are the two types of relationship. Wherever love is, fight ceases ego drops. This is why you cannot love. It is difficult because to love means to drop the ego, to drop yourself. Love means not to be.
Osho, A Bird On The Wing

I don’t like the word “friendship”

I am against all kinds of relationships. For example, I don’t like the word “friendship,” but I love the word “friendliness.” Friendliness is a quality in you, friendship again becomes a relationship.
Osho, The Hidden Splendour

Between the friend and the enemy, there is not much difference. With the friend your relationship is love-hate, and with the enemy, your relationship is hate-love. That’s the only difference – just the difference of emphasis. Love on top and hate hidden behind it – it is friendship. Hate has come on top and love has gone behind it – it is enmity.

Osho, I Say Unto You

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Feng Shui For Love: 5 Simple Steps To Attract Romantic Relationship

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2 weeks ago

February 11, 2019

Katya Ki

If you are unlucky in your love and romantic life and you don’t know how to find your soul mate, then you might want to try a little feng shui to help with the disharmonious atmosphere in your house. If the energy of your home doesn’t radiate love and romance, it’s not easy for you to attract a decent life partner. Feng Shui for love offers many proven formulas and methods of harmonization of the energies around us. These methods are quite simple. We can successfully apply them in life and achieve amazing results!

In this article, I want to share with you 10 proven tips to bring romantic luck into your life by harmonizing the energy of your home with Feng Shui methods!

Let’s get it started!

Step 1: Cleaning Out Space Around You

No matter how boring it may sound, before you start attracting the long-awaited love, it is necessary to properly clean the space around you. Your home is your temple, where love lives. Therefore, the attitude to the house should be appropriate. Create a temple of love in your house!

Good Feng Shui for love always begins with cleaning your house and getting rid of old and useless things. Remember that every little thing in your house has energies. However, these energies are not always positive. Look around! Do all the things that surround you make you happy? Without regret, get rid of all those things that do not cause love vibrations in your heart!

It is especially important to get rid of all the things that your ex-partners gave you as gifts without regret! Do not keep those things that are the symbols of a long-gone love. Until you get rid of these things, your past will pull you back, and the energy of these things will only attract problems in a new relationship! You need to remove all the cords to the past to open the door for a brighter future!

I assure you, you will feel great relief after throwing away all those things that no longer bring you joy!

Step 2: Fill Your House With Positive Energy

It would be great if our parents taught us this simple rule. But, unfortunately, only a few people are aware of the necessity of the bed linen replacement after the breakup of the relationship. It is very difficult to bring to life a harmonious relationship when we sleep on the same sheets on which we slept when we were in past relationships. I, personally, follow a strict rule: new relationships – new sheets! Why bring the old energy of a long-gone relationship into your new relationship?

Take a look at your bed. How attractive does it look? Update bedspreads, decorative pillows, place aromatic blend with rose scent into your bedroom. Give preference to the soft warm tones for linens – peach, warm beige, etc. Make your bed radiate love and invite love. The bed should always be clean and tidy!

By the way, for married couples, there is also an ancient proven way to refresh the relationship. To do this, the masters advise that you throw away the oldest sheets that you have in the house. Thus, you will cleanse your relationship from negative and stagnant energies! This method is often used to stop fights and abuse between spouses.

Step 3: Add Some Light

Southwest sector of your house represents your romantic luck and love. Therefore, make sure you don’t store suitcases here, and that this sector is clean and free of dust and trash can.

To attract love we should make the southwest sector light and bright. Make sure it has enough natural light. If it doesn’t, use extra electric lights there to keep it light. This light attracts romantic luck into your life!

If you don’t have a Southwest sector in your house, you can activate it in the living room. Simply find the Southwest corner of your living room and make sure it’s clean, bright and light.

Step 4: Activate Romantic Luck

Love is alive and very strong energy. Therefore, the Southwest sector is not just a part of your house, but a magical island of love, radiating powerful vibrations of love and attracting romantic relationship into your life.

Here is a list of talismans that project a powerful message to the Universe that you are ready for love and happiness and open for a romantic relationship. Place the talismans that you like most in the Southwest sector, and expect wonderful miracles to happen!

Windchimes

Feng Shui for love requires you hang a special windchime in the Southwest sector of your house.

Windchime is a great energizer of positive Chi.

As soon as you hang the windchime in the Southwest sector of your house, rest assured – the love energy has been activated for you.

A very effective method is to hang a windchime next to the picture of your dream man/woman (the picture cut from the magazine or printed). I know a lot of people who in a short period of time attracted real miracles! Suddenly they met love partners and created a wonderful relationship that brought a lot of joy. Moreover, the appearance of their partners was very similar to the appearance of the people depicted in the picture! It sounds fantastic, but it’s true! If you have a certain type that you want to attract, feel free to use this method! The universe loves clear requests!

Crystals

Сrystals are actively used in Feng Shui both to dissipate negative energy and to activate positive energy.

The traditional method of Feng Shui for love is to put the crystal in the southwest sector. It is best to place the crystal in such a way that sunlight falls on it. On a nice sunny day, you can play with the crystal, turning it and allowing shining rays to illuminate the walls, ceiling and all objects in the room. This simple action brings positive Chi energy in your house.

Another way to place the crystal in the southwest sector is to hang it. However, be careful there are certain rules on how to hang the crystal in feng shui purposes:

1. hang your crystal on a red thread;

2. the length of this thread must be a multiple of 9. That is 9, 18 or 27 cm (3.54, 7.09, or 10.63 inches). This is because the number 9 is a sacred number in Feng Shui that combines the power of heaven and earth;

3. when hanging the crystal, it is necessary to charge it. Simply turn to your crystal and ask it to protect your house from negativity and bring love, peace, and harmony into your life.

Pair Talismans

Traditional Feng Shui suggests placing mandarin ducks or a pair of cranes in the southwest sector. The mandarin ducks symbolize a long and happy marriage. The cranes carry very strong energy of the happy couple that cannot be separated. They symbolize immortal love and loyalty.

A Couple Of Candles

This is just the perfect love sector activator! Place a couple of red or pink candles in the southwest sector and light them approximately once a week with the intention to attract love into your life. While the candles are burning, it is very useful to meditate, looking at the flame. Imagine how this flame ignites the fire of love in your heart.

Rose Quartz Double Heart

Rose quartz is a stone of love, which is a radiator of love and romance and which we always use in Feng Shui for love! Place a rose quartz double heart talisman in the southwest sector of your house and you will activate the energy of love, tenderness, and romance in your life.

Dragon and Phoenix

In the Feng Shui symbolism, Dragon and Phoenix are the two most powerful exponents of favorable Qi energy. These are heavenly creatures that symbolize the pinnacle of luck.

The Dragon symbolizes success, courage, leadership, and higher fortune. Phoenix symbolizes new opportunities, luck, change, and rebirth.

Dragon and Phoenix placed together represent a strong Union of Yin and Yang, embodied in the life of family happiness. This is an effective means of improving romantic luck, both for already married people and for those who are in search of love.

Place the Dragon and Phoenix in the southwest sector of your house or in your bedroom.

Step 5: Fill In Your Bedroom With Love Energy

Make your bedroom your own little sanctuary! Let it be the most peaceful and harmonious place for you. Follow Feng Shui bedroom tips in my article “The Best Feng Shui Bedroom Tips For Love, Romance, and Happiness”.

Bottom Line

I’ve never met anyone that Feng Shui for love wouldn’t help. Feng Shui changes lives! It doesn’t always happen immediately. Usually, changes come gradually. Although sometimes people see the results the very next day. Everyone is different, so it turns out the results are different. But one thing I know for sure: Feng Shui works at all levels of our lives! It brings joy and hope for a new happy and harmonious life. Feel free to accept “the friendly hand” of your new friend Feng Shui! Use these simple steps and see how your life will change!

Open your heart and go towards your dream of a harmonious romantic relationship, towards true love, towards yourself!

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Activate Romantic Luck With These Powerful Love Affirmations!

Published

1 month ago

January 11, 2019

Katya Ki

Love is the main creative force, the binding fabric of the Universe. Everything alive on our planet is circling in the eternal act of love. And our spiritual development can only progress through love. When we fall in love, it means that we connect with the whole Universe in a great dance of creativity. It gives us strength, inspiration, birth to new ideas and impetus to our development. Before I share my favorite love affirmations with you, I would like to say a couple of words about love.

Let’s Talk About Love

The greatest secret of happiness is to love yourself, be in a good mood and think positively!

If you love yourself, you will never suffer from the loss of love. You have to understand that your relationship with yourself is reflected in all your other relationships (with your partner, family members, colleagues or friends).

I’m sure you noticed that the most attractive energy comes from people who sincerely and unconditionally love themselves. And there is nothing surprising about the fact that the better you treat yourself, the better quality of relationship you attract. In this regard, “better quality” is shown in not allowing yourself to have those relationships that are unworthy of you, in which you humiliate yourself or suffer. “Better quality” means always to choose the best for yourself, never compromise with yourself and never sacrifice your self-love!

How Do Love Affirmations Work?

First of all, let me tell you that in my opinion love affirmations are the most effective formula for finding love. I’m 100% confident that affirmations work for everyone who has enough discipline, willpower, and concentration for everyday practice.

Affirmations are positive statements that program your subconscious mind to fulfill all your desires. In accordance with this program, joyful and happy desired events will gradually enter into your life.

Most people can’t even imagine how effective affirmations are! Affirmations are your main key to reprogramming your consciousness. That’s why the trick is to keep repeating them again and again until they are firmly imprinted in your subconscious.

How To Practice Love Affirmations?

In this article, I decided to share with you the system that I created for myself many years ago when I was suffering from unrequited love. Later I discovered that this system works amazingly not just for myself but also for my friends and students. This system helped me not only to meet my great love but also learn to love myself! That is why I recommend you start practicing with self-love affirmations and then move on to Universal love affirmations and Love affirmations for attracting a partner.

My Love Affirmation System includes 3 groups:

1. Self-love affirmations
2. Universal love affirmations
3. Love affirmations for attracting a partner for romantic relationships.

Read these affirmations in the morning immediately after waking up and in the evening before going to bed. Practice the first group of affirmations for 21 days. Then (after 21 days of daily practice) add the second group to your daily practice. Read both groups of affirmations for another 21 days. Then add the 3rd group of affirmations. Practice all 3 groups of affirmations daily until you see the result.

Group 1 – Self-Love Affirmations

Start practicing love affirmations with this group.

We always attract what we radiate. That is why – in order to attract a partner, you must first become a source of love. When you radiate love you become a magnet for love. You become more attractive not only on an energy level but even your appearance will start to change! When you love yourself you become a source of joy and inspiration for others. You look attractive, happy and calm. In my article “5 Simple Steps To Boost Your Self-Love” I share how to love yourself. Don’t forget to check it out!

The following affirmations will help you to boost your self-love.

I LOVE and accept myself for who I am!
I LOVE my personality!
I LOVE my body!
I LOVE my behavior!
Every day I become more and more attractive! I can see it and people around me can see it too!
I respect myself!
I think about myself only in a positive LOVING way!
I talk about myself only in a respectful and LOVING way!
I am LOVE!
I’m in LOVE with myself!

Group 2 – Universal Love Affirmations

Continuing the theme on how to become the source of love. We need to learn not only to love ourselves but also to love our lives and everything and everyone around us!

The following love affirmations will help to tune into the energy of love towards the whole world.

I radiate LOVE!
There is LOVE inside and around me!
My life is full of LOVE!
I LOVE myself and the whole world!
I am a source of LOVE!
May my LOVE fill the Universe!
I’m in LOVE with my life!
I LOVE everyone I know and everyone who knows me LOVES me! I feel it!
I LOVE the whole world and the whole world LOVES me! I feel it!
I LOVE the whole Universe and the whole Universe LOVES me! I feel it!

Group 3 – Love Affirmations For Attracting a Partner

Finally, we come to the last set of affirmations – and probably the reason you began to read this article – love affirmations to attract a partner.

I let go of my past and open up myself to LOVE and new relationships!
I welcome new relationships and new LOVE!
I am open to LOVE unconditionally!
I am open to receive LOVE!
I’m grateful for LOVE!
I have a big respect and LOVE for men (women)!
I’m in LOVE and I am LOVED! I live in peace and harmony!
I attract harmonious and happy relationship into my life!
My partner respects me and loves me as much as I love and respect him (her)!
I am happy in LOVE!

The Bottom Line

There is nothing more important than love. In order to attract love, we have to become its source first. It’s not difficult to do if we keep our focus on it. Affirmations are a great tool which helps us not only reprogram ourselves from negativity to positivity, from self-hate to self-love, from misery to happiness but also to keep our focus on only what we desire.

If you want to attract love, first of all, you should stop focusing on your loneliness but start focusing on LOVE instead. While reading love affirmations visualize that you already have what you intend to attract: self-love, acceptance, romantic relationships, etc. Not just the positive words of love affirmations but also the feeling of having what you want attracts the desired results! Combine the power of thoughts with a power of words and a power of visualization and you will always attract what you want into your life!

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These 5 Love Mantras Will Change Your Life!

Published

3 months ago

November 17, 2018

Katya Ki

Sometimes our romantic life doesn’t quite go the way we would like it to. Some people start to fight for their happiness, some – give up and resign themselves to fate, and some – appeal to a Higher power to help them understand why they are experiencing this life lesson, learn it and continue their path. Love mantras help to overcome the difficulties and troubles in relationships, to find a life partner or soulmate, to fill with passion, fading relationships. In other words, to change our romantic luck for the better.

Written in Sanskrit verbal codes that came to us from Tibet and India are designed for different situations. Powerful coded information, which is hidden in every sacred syllable of love mantras, allows you to improve your romantic luck and get rid of loneliness.

How Do Love Mantras Work?

Ancient Tibetan and Hindu knowledge allows us to discover new spiritual horizons and significantly improve our lives.

Mantras came to us from ancient times. Mantra Chanting helps us to attract love, tenderness, and passion. Some people think that this practice is not for everyone. But it’s not true! Mantra chanting is a universal method of praying that is available to everyone. Absolutely everyone can chant mantras. And this is a very significant advantage of mantras – they help everyone who wants to change his or her life for the better, regardless of age, sex, and religion.

When we pronounce mantras in Sanskrit, we have the opportunity to restore harmony and connect with the cosmos. When you chant love mantras consistently you become more and more connected with the Universe. This connection creates love vibrations in your body. And these vibrations attract your soulmate into your life; passion in your relationships; tenderness in your feelings; etc.

Each mantra contains a very powerful energetic particle of the Universe and the potential of the realization of the desired result.

In this case, when it comes to attracting love luck, love mantras will be your most powerful tool.

How To Chant Love Mantras?

It is recommended to chant mantras 108 times. This number is considered to be magical, carrying a very important sacred meaning. By repeating love mantras 108 times, you reveal the meaning of each number, allowing it to work for you:

1 – the symbol of the Highest Energy that contributes to the realization of the desired result;

0 – the symbol of the perfection of God’ Creation;

8 – the symbol of infinity.

When you’re chanting love mantras it is recommended to use prayer beads (108 beads). Thus, you will not be distracted from the meditation and will be able to tune in the right way to attract the desired result into your life.

Meditation and a good atmosphere are also considered to be very important. It is best to chant mantras early morning and evening hours. The room where you practice mantra chanting should be calm and quiet.

You can reach the excellent results if you combine mantra chanting with certain actions. For example, you can apply the following schedule: get up early in the morning and drink a glass of warm water on an empty stomach; sit down and chant love mantras. Supplement the session with several favorite yoga asanas (optional). And complete the ritual with a short-term relaxation lying on the back on the floor with closed fingers – thumb and index.

After reading these simple recommendations you can start your mantra practice. Believing in the power of love mantras and showing respect for ancient Tibetan and Hindu knowledge, you will forget about all your problems with relationships.

The Most Powerful Love Mantras

Green Tara Mantra

This mantra brings the soul to a state of balance, reveals femininity and attractiveness. While chanting the mantra you should mentally refer to the goddess Tara and ask for assistance in finding your soulmate. This mantra is considered to be a mantra of the fulfillment of desires. That’s why it’s Dalai Lama’s favorite mantra.

Om Tare Tuttare Ture Svaha

Mantra of Love

This is a very beautiful mantra of love and tenderness. This mantra fills your soul with the light of love and harmony. It helps to attract love into your life. If you had a fight with your beloved, chanting this sacred mantra will help you to reconcile. Crying while listening or singing this mantra is a very good sign of cleansing your aura from negative vibrations.

Tumi Bhaja Re Mana Tumi Japa Re Mana
Om Shri Ram Jaya Ram
Japa Re Mana

The Vibration of Love

These sacred sounds raise the internal power of women, creating in them a vibration of love. Magically, you will become a magnet of love for others if you sing these sounds for three weeks. This mantra connects you with energies of Sun, Moon, Earth and the Infinite Spirit. Through this connection, you experience deep healing.

Ra Ma Da Sa Sa Say So Hung

Mantra for Attracting the Attention of the Opposite Sex

This mantra attracts potential partners for relationships. You can chant this mantra while thinking about a perfect partner for yourself. Sacred sounds of this mantra create a glow around your aura, which is impossible not to notice. Sing constantly to achieve results.

Om Kurukulle Svaha

Mantra for the Reunification of the Feminine and Masculine

This powerful mantra helps with the reunification of the feminine and masculine. It helps to create the inner harmony, fertile ground for love, tenderness and long-term relationships.

Kang Kalika Hum Shivaya

Purusha Prakriti

Kang Kalika Hum Shivaya

Om Mani Padme Hum

The Bottom Line

As you can see the mantra practice is not so difficult! However, the result of this practice is simply amazing. Try to make love mantras chanting your daily practice – and you will see how much your life will change for the better. If you correctly repeat each sound, syllable, word, then it is possible to attract improbable favorable changes in your life very quickly!