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The Best Feng Shui Bedroom Tips For Love, Romance, and Happiness

Published

1 year ago

August 29, 2018

A bedroom is the most important part in our homes. Just think about this: a significant part of our lives we spend in bed. I’m not talking about just sleeping but also relaxing and making love. It is very important that when you sleep, you ensure that all the energy that enters your body complements and animates you, is favorable and attracts good luck for when you wake up in the morning.

Therefore, there is no doubt that the bedroom is an extremely important place for each of us. It is here, like nowhere else, we should definitely comply with Feng Shui laws. In this article, I will share with you the best Feng Shui bedroom tips!

First Of All – Make Your Bed Face Your Good Direction!

It is very important to sleep in your best direction (according to your Kua number). Sleeping in your best direction will give you a good rest, positive energy, health, and happy life. Sleeping in your bad direction can be extremely dangerous – it can bring you illness, loss of energy, a bad mood and all kinds of misfortune.

Take a look at what direction your headboard is facing. This will be the direction you sleep in! Use the table below to find your best directions and best directions for each member of your family. Arrange your family members to sleep in their own best directions!

This is how you can find out what your Kua number is. Just find the year of your birth in the table and then in the two last columns you will see the Kua number for men and women.

Now you know your Kua number and you can find what your good and bad directions are. Just find your Kua number in the table below and you will find your good and bad directions.

Now you know your good and bad directions. But what can we do if you and your partner have different Kua numbers and good directions? Feng Shui Masters don’t have the same point of view on this question.

However, from the Chinese perspective, it is a woman who is the Keeper of the home and the purity of the family. That’s why the master bed should face the good directions of the hostess (according to her Kua number).

Create a Balanced Space In Your Bedroom

A bedroom is a place for rest and relaxation. That’s why make sure you don’t have too much Yang energy in your bedroom. Your bedroom should be calm and quiet. The lighting should not be too bright. The color scheme should be muted.

However, do not overdo it! Our goal is to still bring balance into your resting space. If you feel like you don’t have enough energy then it makes sense to bring a little Yang energy into your bedroom. Buy yourself red bed sheets. Use your own judgment when applying feng shui to your bedroom!

Also, do not overdecorate the bedroom! You may energize your bedroom for romance and love. But it’s better not to energize it for wealth and business success! Wealth and business luck enhancers are better suited to the living room and office.

It’s very important to follow the main bedroom rule – the fewer things, the more peaceful and restorative will be your sleep.

The Main Feng Shui Bedroom Taboo Is a TV-set!

I know that it is very popular to place the TV in the bedroom. Many people fall asleep to the sound of the TV. This is very harmful to your energy because the bedroom should always remain calm, peaceful atmosphere. When we’re watching TV we are bombarded with a mass of negative information. The negativity affects our aura and activates the negative energy flow.

But what can you do if you live in a Studio apartment and your bedroom is also a living room? Then consider turning it off not earlier than a half an hour before bedtime, and open the window to ventilate the room.

Another problem that can be caused by TV in the bedroom is your partner’s cheating. Yes, you read it right! The thing is that when you turn off TV its screen becomes a reflecting surface (almost like a mirror). Feng Shui Masters believe that if the bedroom has a mirror and it reflects the sleeping couple, the mirror surface acts as a third partner in their relationship. This necessarily leads to cheating, quarrels, and discord in any relationship, no matter how strong they may be.

The sacrament of sleep is quite a delicate thing, and putting such a powerful conductor of energy like a mirror or TV next to you when you and your spirit are defenseless is not very reasonable.

Other Feng Shui Bedroom Taboos

Here is the list of other Feng Shui Taboos.

1. Avoid sharp edges pointed towards the bed.

2. Do not have archways in your bedroom.

3. Make sure your bed isn’t placed directly below an exposed beam.

4. Do not place any water objects in your bedroom (such as an aquarium, mini-fountain, pictures of water, etc.).

5. The bedroom should not have mirrors reflecting the bed and sleeping people on it. The fact is that mirrors tend to accumulate negative energy. People who have mirrors reflecting the bed spend the night under the influence of negative Qi. As a result, in the morning they usually don’t feel cheerfulness. In addition, the glare and shadows flickering in the mirror often cause insomnia and anxiety. The most suitable place for a mirror is the space on the inside of the Cabinet door.

6. Do not place your bed so that it faces another bedroom door.

7. Make sure your bed doesn’t face a protruding corner.

8. Your bed should not be placed between two doors.

9. Do not place potted plants in your bedroom.

10. Never move the bed when the wife is pregnant.

11. Do not have the bedroom directly confronting the stairs.

12. Make sure your bedroom is not located above a garage, kitchen or storeroom.

13. Do not sleep in a bedroom directly below a toilet.

14. Do not place the bed directly next to the window, otherwise, you will fall under the influence of the Sun and the Yang energy, which is not always favorable.

15. Never place wedding portraits inside the bedroom, especially facing the bed.

16. Placing a bed against a toilet wall will flush away your marital happiness.

Feng Shui Bedroom Tips

1. Keep your bedroom very clean.

2. Your bed should be placed against a solid wall.

3. The headboard must be placed against a wall. It should never be “floating”!

4. Place a pair of mandarin ducks in your bedroom for happiness in marriage.

5. Place heart-shaped rose quartz in your bedroom for attracting love and romance into your life.

6. Place Double Happiness Symbol of Marriage underneath your bed. This Symbol is a very powerful activator of romantic luck!

7. You may also place a pair of pigeons in your bedroom since this is a symbol of immortal love.

8. Place the Mystic Knot underneath your mattress. It will attract vital energy while you’re sleeping.

9. Make sure you sleep on the correct side of the bed! Men should sleep on the left-hand side (determined when lying on your back) and women should sleep on the right-hand side of the bed. When you’re sleeping on the correct side of the bed it creates the balance of Yin and Yang energy in the marital bed.

10. To safeguard against infidelity, place an amethyst slab tied with red string and tied to a bedpost under the foot of the bed of the wife’s side if the husband tends to cheat; and on the husband’s side if it is the wife who is vulnerable to outside flirting or cheating.

11. To improve a marriage that has begun to turn sour, place seven crystal spheres in the Southwest corner of your bedroom. This will create powerful nurturing energy inside your bedroom and will soften both partners, making you less hostile and more tolerant of one another.

The Bottom Line

Of course, this does not include all of the Feng Shui bedroom tips and rules that exist. But even using these simple recommendations, you can improve your sleep, mood, romantic life and even health. Make your bedroom your own little sanctuary! Let it be the most peaceful and harmonious place for you. And then you’ll see how little Feng Shui corrections can change your life for the better forever!

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Katya Ki is the Founder and Editor-In-Chief of SOLANCHA Magazine, a Feng Shui Master, a Metaphysical Expert, a Reiki Master, and Human Rights Attorney. She has been studying Eastern metaphysics and esotericism for almost 20 years now. And she's still discovering new knowledge, which is hidden in ancient teachings. During her pilgrimage to the monastery of Saint Catherine in Egypt, she discovered the SOLANCHA System. This is how the SOLANCHA journey started!

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Abundance Haircuts In January: Good And Bad Days To Cut Your Hair

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1 month ago

December 26, 2019

Katya Ki

Abundance Haircuts is a little-known sutra which reveals negative consequences of cutting your hair on the bad days and incredible benefits of cutting it on the good days. Bad and good days for this sutra are based on the Tibetan Calendar. Dates of Abundance Haircuts are calculated according to extremely complex formulas by experienced Feng Shui Masters. Naturally, each year, depending on the stars and their position, these days change.

Most people in the Western world have never heard about abundance haircuts. While for Eastern people it’s not a new practice. Today I would like to introduce this Abundance haircut sutra and give you a special calendar for January with good and bad days for your haircuts. Pay attention to what day you’re picking for your next hair salon appointment – only choose good haircut days!

Why Is Hair So Important?

Since ancient times, people gave hair and any manipulation with them sacred meaning. It was thought, that through hair people can connect with the Universe. Hair serves as “antennas” and “guides” between our world and the world of Heaven. And so far this knowledge has not lost its relevance. Hair connects us with Higher forces, cosmic energy, God, Higher consciousness. By connecting through the hair to the Cosmos, a person is fed by the energies of Abundance and Health.

There were many beliefs associated with hair, some of them have survived to the present day. For example: in any case, you should not get a haircut by yourself, as in this case there is a deformation of your energy field, which can lead to poor health. It is also not recommended to get a haircut on the days of a lunar or solar Eclipse: the hair can suffer, weaken, lose shine and volume.

What Are “Abundance Haircuts”?

It has long been known that there are days when it is especially favorable to cut hair. Among these days there are days of “Abundance haircuts.”

Abundance haircuts is a special ritual to attract abundance flows into your life. It is good to say special affirmations and mantras for abundance and prosperity on this day. So you will strengthen the ritual haircut and make it more effective and efficient force.

On this day it would be beneficial to read the Lakshmi mantra:

OM HREEM SHREEM LAKSHMI BYO NAMAHA

Or Ganesh mantra:

OM SHRI GANESHAYA NAMAHA

It is also very beneficial to say positive affirmations like:

I deserve to be abundantly happy and healthy!
My abundance is constantly growing!
I always have money for everything I need!
Money comes to me easily and fast!
I’m grateful for my abundant life!

The Bottom Line

In the day of Abundance haircut is not necessarily radically change the hairstyle or cut long braids. It’s just enough to trim the tips. If you believe and surrender to this process with sincerity, good mood, and gratitude, the energy of cosmic abundance will surely enter your life. Take the chance to open your channel to the limitless flow of abundance!

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Abundance Affirmations: A Powerful Tool For Creating Abundant Living

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1 month ago

December 23, 2019

Katya Ki

What we say and think shapes our reality and affects the quality of our life. When we repeat the same thought-form multiple times it gets concentrated into a powerful force of intention. Therefore, affirmations are one of the most effective tools for manifesting your desired life. In this article, I will share with you my collection of the most powerful and effective abundance affirmations that can significantly change the quality of your life for better. The key is to be consistent with your practice since the reprogramming of the subconscious mind takes time and patience.

What Is Abundance?

So, what is abundance? Money? Successful business? Love? A large circle of friends? A big and happy family? Each of us has his/her own understanding of abundance. But its essential meaning is that you are solidly happy with who you are and no external event or situation – whether good or bad – can add or subtract from that happiness.

Our perspective about the world we live in is also very subjective. Some people believe that the world is a cruel place where only the strongest survive therefore their life looks like a constant fight for survival. But there are others who believe that the world is a wonderful abundant place where everything is enough for everyone. These people believe that all you need to do is to learn how to distribute endless benefits of the Universe and remember to notice the abundance in everything! Interestingly, in both cases, people find confirmation of their own beliefs.

Reality is subjective because it depends on the thought forms that influence our minds. It is our thoughts that shape our reality. And if you believe that life is a constant fight for survival you will find plenty of evidence that proves this, since your thoughts make life this way. Oppositely, if you believe that life is abundant you’re making it this way with your thoughts. Therefore, you will find lots of confirmation of your own beliefs. This is how we all can co-exist in the same world but see it from different angles.

Whether you believe in the abundance that surrounds us or not, the Universe always says “yes” to you and supports your beliefs.

How Do Abundance Affirmations Work?

Affirmations are positive statements that program your subconscious mind to fulfill all your desires. In accordance with this program, joyful and happy desired events will gradually enter into your life.

Most people can’t even imagine how effective affirmations are! Affirmations are your main key to reprogramming your consciousness. That’s why the trick is to keep repeating them again and again until they are firmly imprinted in your subconscious.

With the help of abundance affirmations, you can reprogram your mind from lack and competition to abundance and cooperation. If you learn to direct the energy of your thoughts to abundance and infinite possibilities you will eventually start attracting abundance into your life whether it money and success or love, health, peace, and harmony.

How To Practice Abundance Affirmations?

In abundance affirmation practice, the key to success is your consistency! Read the abundance affirmations in the morning immediately after waking up and in the evening right before going to bed.

I discovered that the abundance affirmations work better when you’re reading them in front of the mirror looking directly in your eyes.

It is very important to combine reading the affirmations with your emotions. Use your own emotions to make the affirmation practice more powerful. You can even add moves and gestures. Your goal is to convince yourself that what you are saying is true! Therefore, use whatever helps you to achieve this goal.

However, if you are reading the affirmations without being convincing, your consciousness will never get the message. Remember that your entire body should work when you are practicing abundance affirmations!

Repeat the affirmations as many times as you want. However, I prefer to use the magic number 8! 8 is a symbol of infinity. Therefore, when you’re repeating the affirmation 8 times it is considered to be repeated an infinite number of times.

Abundance Affirmations

Here is the list of my favorite abundance affirmations.

I am open and receptive to all the wealth life offers me!
Every day I am attracting more and more abundance into my life!
I easily access my abundant nature!
I am surrounded by abundance!
I live an abundant life!
The world I live in is a wonderful place where everything is enough for everyone!
I love my life and the world I live in!
I am attuned to the frequency of love and abundance!
I acknowledge and express gratitude for the abundance in my life!
Every day in my life I find evidence of abundance!
I create abundance through my actions and attitude!
I am living my life in a state of complete abundance!
I notice an abundance of opportunities wherever I am and wherever I am heading!
The Universe is a generous source of abundance and I receive its blessings every day!
I have generous amounts of resources, time, and money!
Every day I create new opportunities for myself that open the door for more abundance!
I am increasingly magnetic to health, wealth, abundance, prosperity, and money!
I have an abundance mindset!
I am abundance!
I live in an abundant universe!
I radiate abundance!
Every day I find new ways to experience abundance!

Abundance Affirmations For Attracting Money

My world is full of abundance and prosperity!
I am the personification of wealth!
My life is filled with abundance and prosperity!
I am the embodiment of wealth!
Money comes to me easily!
I always have as much money as I need!
I love money and money loves me!
I attract big money into my life!
My money income is growing!
I always double my prosperity!
I allow the energy of abundance to fill up my life!
The universe’s love is expressed with the flow of abundance in my life!

Abundance Affirmations For Creativity

I have genius ideas that create prosperity!
All my ideas are very profitable!
I use my creativity to gain abundance in my life!
My life is a unique expression of my inner world!
I freely and easily express my creativity and talents!
I value myself, my gifts, and talents!
I am the source of inspiration for myself and for others!

Abundance Affirmations For Love

I radiate LOVE!
There is LOVE inside and around me!
My life is full of LOVE!
I LOVE myself and the whole world!
I am a source of LOVE!
May my LOVE fill the Universe!
I’m in LOVE with my life!
I LOVE everyone I know and everyone who knows me LOVES me! I feel it!
I LOVE the whole world and the whole world LOVES me! I feel it!
I LOVE the whole Universe and the whole Universe LOVES me! I feel it!
I’m in LOVE and I am LOVED! I live in peace and harmony!
I am happy in LOVE!

The Bottom Line

The most important thing in affirmation practice is to change negative thoughts to positive. In abundance affirmation practice, we are changing our thoughts about the lack of abundance to thoughts about infinite abundance whether it’s related to money, love, creativity or success. It is especially important to remember this not only during your affirmation practice but also in your everyday life. Remember that even a fleeting negative thought can destroy months of positive affirmation practice! Choose your thoughts carefully!

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Feng Shui Christmas Tree Placement Rules for Abundance and Happiness

Published

2 months ago

December 10, 2019

Katya Ki

Christmas is just around the corner, so it’s time to decorate your Christmas tree! You might be asking, what’s so special about the Christmas Tree placement? Why do we need to use Feng Shui Christmas tree placement rules in this simple action we’ve done so many times before? The thing is that a Christmas tree with bright decorations, garlands, and lights is a powerful source of Yang energy. When we place a Christmas tree in a certain sector, we activate the energy of this sector.

From an astrological point of view, each sector can be a source of positive or negative energy. And if a Christmas tree gets into a sector with negative energy, this energy gets activated and attracts all kinds of problems into your life. If the tree gets into the sector with positive energy, it gives the opposite effect – you attract luck, abundance, and well-being. All these astrological subtleties are calculated by Feng Shui masters.

Everything is important in Feng Shui Christmas tree placement: where the Christmas tree will be placed, how active will the room be where you place it, what color you choose for its decoration, what date and time you choose to install the Christmas tree. In short, each seemingly insignificant detail can have a huge impact on the energy of the house.

In this article, I will not delve into the complex Feng Shui formulas but instead, I will give you practical tips on how to activate the positive energy of your home and avoid the activation of negative energy.

Why Is It So Important Where the Christmas Lights Are?

In terms of Feng Shui, there are two kinds of energy — Yin and Yang. Yang energy is active and live. If the Yang energy fills the favorable sector of your home, it activates the flow of positive energy and attracts good luck to you. For example, you can suddenly get a bonus, your salary can be raised, you may come up with a new great idea, etc.

However, if the Yang energy gets into the unfavorable sector, it activates all kinds of failures of your life – you can lose money, health, happiness, peace, and you can quarrel with loved ones, etc.

Following Feng Shui Christmas tree rules, will help you to attract good luck and improve your life.

Where to Place the Christmas Tree and What Decorations to Use In December 2019?

Energy changes every year. Therefore, the following recommendations were created by taking into account the energies of December 2019.

In order to determine which sector to put the Christmas tree in, you need to have a Bagua map of your house. If you still don’t have a Bagua map and don’t know what it is read my article “The Feng Shui Bagua Map”.

So, here are the main Feng Shui Christmas tree placement recommendations!

Which Sector to Choose According to the Feng Shui Christmas Tree Placement Rules?

Northwest sector of your house or Northwest corner of your living room

You can use blue, white, and gold decorations for the tree in this sector.

Do not hang Christmas lights in the Northwest sector of your house!

There should be no activity in this sector. It should be a quiet and peaceful place. No loud noise is allowed here. Fire is especially unfavorable here (it can provoke poisoning, diseases, and inflammation). Do not light candles, do not use red decorations, do not hang Christmas lights in the Northwest sector of your house or the Northwest corner of your living room.

North sector of your house or North corner of your living room

If you decided to place your Christmas tree in the North sector, then make sure not to use Christmas lights for its decoration here. You can use blue and green decorations.

South sector of your house or South corner of your living room

South sector is a bad place for your Christmas tree this year! So it’s better if you place your Christmas tree somewhere else. If for some reason it’s impossible then, at least, make sure that you are not using Christmas lighs in this sector. Use white and silver decorations for your tree.

Southwest sector of your house or Southwest corner of your living room

It’s not a good sector for placing a Christmas tree this year. If it’s possible try to find another place for your tree. If it’s impossible then make sure not to use any Cristmas lights in this sector. It’s important to keep this sector peaceful and quite. No loud noise is allowed here.

Southeast sector of your house or Southeast corner of your living room

If you decided to place your Christmas tree in the Southeast sector, then use blue and green Christmas decorations. This colors will attract new opportunities, good luck, and prosperity!

East sector of your house or the East corner of your living room

It is the best place for a Christmas tree in this sector this year! If it’s possible make sure to use this amazing opportunity to activate your good luck! By placing a Christmas tree here you are activating prosperity, money flow, and harmony for the entire family.

For performing this activation, hang the Christmas lights and colorful decorations on your Christmas tree! Don’t forget to say your intention to activate your prosperity luck before you start decorating your Christmas tree. Also, if you want to triple the power of this activation, say outloud money affirmations while decorating your Christmas tree!

West sector of your house or West corner of your living room

It’s not the best sector for placing a Christmas tree this year. If you can’t place your Christmas tree anywhere else then make sure to use white, gold, silver or blue decorations here.

Northeast sector of your house or Northeast corner of your living room

It is favorable to use blue, white, silver, or gold decorations in this sector.

Central part of your house or center of your living room as your Christmas tree placement

It’s one of the best places for the Christmas tree in December 2019. If you place the Christmas tree here you will attract good luck, good opportunities, recognition, fame, good communication, prosperity, wisdom. To activate this auspicious energy you need to decorate your Christmas tree with Christmas lights and yellow, gold, silver, or white Christmas decorations.

When to Set the Christmas Tree?

The date and time you decided to set your Christmas tree also play a big role. There are four favorable dates in December when you can do it:

December 7th: 7 am-9 am; 1 pm-3 pm (GMT)

Note: If your Chinese zodiac sign is Monkey do not install the Christmas tree this day.

December 13th: 7 am-11 am; 7 pm-9 pm (GMT)

Note: If your Chinese zodiac sign is Tiger do not install the Christmas tree this day.

December 18th: 5 am-7 am; 9 pm-11 pm (GMT)

Note: If your Chinese zodiac sign is Sheep do not install the Christmas tree this day.

December 19th: 1 am-3 am; 7 pm-9 pm (GMT)

Note: If your Chinese zodiac sign is Monkey do not install the Christmas tree this day.

Conclusion

It’s hard to imagine Christmas without a Christmas tree. It brings us joy, festive mood, and anticipation of miracles to our homes. If you want the tree to become a real activator of happiness, abundance, success and new opportunities, feel free to use these simple yet powerful Feng Shui Christmas tree placement rules!

The best sectors to install the Christmas tree this year are center and the east. It’s very good to use lots of Christmas lights and decorations in these sectors, which will attract good luck into your house.

If you can not put the Christmas tree in the Southwest, other auspicious sector is North. Feel free to use blue or/and green decorations here!

And be sure to use the best time and date to install your Christmas tree! This is a great opportunity to manifest your reality by attracting and activating good energies in your house!

Happy Holidays!