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Is It Necessary To Receive Your Reiki Attunement From A Reiki Master?

Published

2 years ago

May 2, 2018

Everyone who’s interested in energy healing sooner or later starts thinking about receiving their Reiki Attunement – the initiation into Reiki System. There are many different opinions about if we can practice Reiki without an Attunement since we are all connected with the Universal energy Source, or not; if it’s necessary to receive the attunement from a Reiki Master or can we receive self-initiation from our Higher Self into Reiki system. Also, some people are not even sure what a Reiki Attunement is. In this article, I’ll try to explain the meaning and the purpose of the Reiki Attunement. After reading the article, you’ll be able to make your own decision on if you need the attunement or not.

So What Is the Reiki Attunement?

Introduction to the Reiki System always starts with the Reiki Attunement. A student receives the attunement from a Reiki Master Teacher. The Attunement is the initiation into spiritual tradition. This is an ancient way of transferring energy and sacred knowledge from one person to another, which cannot be transferred by means of words.

During the initiation, the reiki student goes through a process of adjustment. The result of this is the raising of his entire energy system to a higher vibration level. After the Reiki Attunement, a person acquires not only the theoretical and practical knowledge transferred to him by the Master-Teacher, but also he acquires his inner knowledge and revealing of his own potential in energy management. This internal knowledge over time takes the form of the practitioner’s special abilities, not only in the field of healing but also in the creation of his or her own reality.

Usually, when people say “the Reiki Attunement” they mean the ceremony of the initiation into the Reiki System. However, the Attunement is carried out by the Universal Energy in response to the intention of the Reiki Master, according to a certain methodology. That is, the transfer of internal knowledge and the revealing of internal capacity is carried out directly by Reiki.
The Reiki Attunement is a great mystery, during which there is a complete transformation of the student’s energy body. As a result, the student creates a deeper and stronger contact with his Higher Self. The Attunement, in fact, is a direct flow of divine (Universal) Energy pouring out upon man.

Misunderstanding Of The Reiki Attunement

Many people, even those ones who practice Reiki for years, have a misleading understanding of what the Reiki Attunement is. The most common belief is that the Reiki Attunement opens up energy channels and connects a person with energy Source. But it is very important to understand that the Attunement does not open and does not form any energy channels, as well as it does not connect a person to any kind of energy source.

The Reiki Attunement reveals the energy potential, establishes a direct connection between a person and the Primary source of Reiki. Thus, people who have received the initiation, become themselves a source of Reiki. Therefore, it is important to realize that a Reiki practitioner is not a conductor of divine Energy, but its source himself!

The main goal of Reiki practice is to be a pure source of divine energy. The healing process is possible only when the practitioner realizes his unity and integrity with Reiki.

The Reiki Attunement Ceremony

This Ceremony can be compared to a spiritual awakening. The initiation itself does not implement anything in man, but only reveals the inner potential, develops and enhances abilities inherent in each human being from birth.

During initiation, each student receives only what he/she needs, what he/she is ready for. So the sensations during the Attunement can be different. Some people feel the flow of energy, others feel the presence of the guardian angels, for some, the process of initiation is accompanied by visions, dizziness, feeling of loss of sense of reality, and some people simply don’t feel anything. Sensations during the attunement reflect only the level of development and openness of a particular student. Any comparison of sensations is incorrect since the process of accepting the initiation is very individual.

Daily Reiki Practice

The Attunement is a fundamental element of Reiki, however, by itself, without other components, it is useless. We can draw a parallel between the setting of a musical instrument and the Reiki Attunement. A musical instrument itself is useless if the person doesn’t know how to play it. In order to learn how to play, you need constant practice. The same is so in Reiki – in order to get any result, to see miracles and to develop special abilities, it’s necessary to practice Reiki every day.

After the Attunement, the energy must be integrated into all energy bodies. This process takes time. The less pure your thoughts and intentions are, the more energy blocks you have, the longer the period of time must pass from the first-degree initiation to the second one. Otherwise, the healing cleansing caused by the initiation may be incomplete due to the overlap of different crisis stages at different levels from the initiations of different degrees.

What Is The Healing Cleansing?

The healing cleansing is the process of your energy bodies cleansing. This process always happens, but every person can feel it in different ways. Cleansing can take place physically, emotionally and mentally.

Physical body cleansing is a type of the healing cleansing in which a person’s physical condition can temporarily get worse. It often happens that right after the Attunement people get sick. Most often, in the course of this cleansing, the immunity of the person decreases, there is an exacerbation of chronic diseases. The fact is that the human body is overloaded with toxins accumulated over the years, from which the body is urgently eliminating as a result of the Attunement.

Emotional cleansing is a type of the healing cleansing that provokes the emergence of various conflicts around the person. This is a result of his increased emotionality during this time.

Mental cleansing is a type of the healing cleansing which is manifested in the form of an ongoing stream of thoughts or in the form of unpleasant dreams and nightmares. During this kind of the healing cleansing, our thoughts, negative attitudes and beliefs are getting purified.

How To Facilitate The Manifestation Of The Healing Cleansing?

1. Reiki itself can help you with this

Invite Reiki with the intention to mitigate, as much as possible, the symptoms of your healing cleansing.

Place your hands on the part of the body that bothers you the most, or leave your hands in the gassho position. Relax and let the Energy work with you.

In 15 minutes, tell your gratitude to Reiki and your Higher Self for the healing.

2. Drinking water will help you to detox your body faster

In order to help your bodies detox, it is necessary to drink clean water as often as possible with small sips (preferably every 5 minutes).

You can also charge the water with Reiki to raise its vibrations. To do this, invite Reiki, hold your hands over the water (5 minutes) and charge it with positive intentions, such as:
“This water cleanses me from negative thoughts, negative energies, and negative attitudes. It charges me with the energy of love, light, happiness, joy, health, and harmony! I’m in harmony! I am happy!”

3. Praying will help you to adjust to the new vibrations

In order to quickly adjust to the new vibrations caused by the Reiki Attunement, you should make praying your daily practice! You can read the following prayer during your Reiki sessions and every morning immediately after waking up:

“I tune myself with new high-frequency vibrations of Love, Joy, Unity, and Strength!

I call in my heart and in my life new high-frequency vibrations of the Universe and accept these vibrations in my life with love and joy!

With this appeal, I affirm my intention to advance, self-development and self-improvement!

From now on, every cell of my body is open to the Light of high-frequency vibrations of the Universe!

From now on, every particle of me is filled with Light and vibrations of pure love and transformation!

I accept all changes in myself with gratitude, trust, and love!»

The Bottom Line

The desire of individual students to go as quickly as possible from the first Reiki degree to the second and up, are usually dictated by their ego. It always turns into unexpected and very uncomfortable consequences. The process of healing cleansing in such cases is is set to turbo mode, and the energy of initiation becomes so powerful that it becomes unacceptable for unprepared bodies and levels of consciousness of the student. The results of such haste are always unpredictable and negative.

Don’t take the Reiki Attunement as some kind of “show”. Try to get rid of the expectation of some “miracle”. Only by letting your ego go will you be able to accept the Attunement in a proper way. Eventually, it will lead you to spiritual transformation and the revealing of internal potential.

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Katya Ki is the Founder and Editor-In-Chief of SOLANCHA Magazine, a Feng Shui Master, a Metaphysical Expert, a Reiki Master, and Human Rights Attorney. She has been studying Eastern metaphysics and esotericism for almost 20 years now. And she's still discovering new knowledge, which is hidden in ancient teachings. During her pilgrimage to the monastery of Saint Catherine in Egypt, she discovered the SOLANCHA System. This is how the SOLANCHA journey started!

Astrology

The Most Accurate Horoscope for April 2020

Published

1 hour ago

March 31, 2020

Katya Ki

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In this article, I will share with you the most accurate horoscope for April 2020 based on the Feng Shui flying stars chart. This horoscope includes not just predictions for different spheres of life and Chinese zodiac signs but also very important tips for protection from negative influences of the month and the activation of positive events and good luck.

Most Accurate Horoscope Based On Chinese Zodiac Signs

I believe that the Chinese Horoscope is one of the most accurate horoscopes you can use for correcting the energy of the month in your favor. I follow its recommendations every month and it really helps me to not only attract positive events into my life but also to prevent unfortunate ones.

I often hear that if you focus on positive things in life and follow the law of attraction rules, astrology doesn’t affect you. Yes, a positive mindset is very important, however, according to Eastern teachings, there are three kinds of luck that affect each of us:

human luck;
earth luck;
heaven luck.

Your positive mindset is your human luck which is just 33% of your total luck score. Your heaven luck (another 33%) comes from astrology. And your earth luck (33%) depends on Feng Shui and the energy you surround yourself with.

Of course, you can rely on your human luck and believe that your positive mindset can help you overcome all the obstacles. However, let’s say something negative happened and somebody yelled at you or your husband/wife cheated on you or somebody you love died. How many of us can stay 100% calm and positive in situations like this? You see when you allow yourself to react to a negative situation in a negative way you loose your human luck. Now you can rely only on your heaven and earth luck.

Ok, now let’s take a look at your earth luck. Is your house 100% balanced? Is it 100% clean and free of blockages? Does it have all the remedies and protection from negative energy? If your answer is “no”, well, you can’t really rely on your earth luck. And now all that left is your heaven luck that depends on astrology.

With the help of Chinese astrology, you can fix your situation, protect yourself from negative influences of the month, and activate good luck! All you need to know is what type of energy rules the month and how to deal with it.

It can be quite dangerous to play around with the energy of the month. People who have started to religiously follow all the Feng Shui recommendations after reading my monthly horoscope articles noticed big improvements in their lives. Today I want to share with you these priceless recommendations for April 2020. I’m asking you to take everything you’ll read below seriously. It’s especially important to get all the protection tools for the month because they are literally life saviors!

For reading your Horoscope for April 2020, all you need to know is your Chinese zodiac sign. To do this, you just need to find your date of birth in the Hundred Year Calendar (click here)!

Horoscope For April 2020

RAT (1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008)

If you were born in the year of Rat, be careful – your health can be in danger this month! Your vitality is weak so you can easily get sick. During these dangerous times of Coronavirus spread, Rats should more than anyone be concerned and strictly practice social distancing and stay home, especially those who are elderly! Avoid travel and stay away from public places!

If you are already not feeling well, make sure to see the doctor. Don’t take your health for granted!

Recommendations:

Keep the Anti Illness Amulet with you at all times! To have this powerful amulet is extremely important during this pandemic time (not just for those born in the year of Rat!). It helps to protect the health, extend life, and deter illness vibrations. Make sure you have this amulet!
Place a Medicine Buddha statue in the North sector of your house. The left hand of Medicine Buddha holds a blooming myrobalan plant. Tibetan medicine recognizes three basic types of illness, the root causes of which are the conflicting emotions – passion, aggression, and ignorance. Myrobalan is the only herb in the Tibetan pharmacopeia that can aid in healing each of these three types of diseases. This is like the action of the Buddha of Healing, who has the power to see the true cause of any affliction, whether spiritual, physical or psychological.

OX (1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009)

Horoscope for April 2020 promises good fortune to those born in the year of Ox. You will enjoy good completion and career luck. Also, you will feel support about your ideas from others.

Your energy levels are very high! You’re feeling mentally and physically charged up. You are full of passion and as long as you have a project to tackle, you will be satisfied. Whatever it is that gets your attention will benefit greatly from your fine form this month!

Recommendations:

Carry the Sum of Ten Amulet to enhance your luck further. With this amulet, you ensure that whatever luck comes your way actually manifests for you causing you to enjoy good outcomes in all your endeavors.
For better wealth luck, have the Golden Rat Holding Coin on your desk. This auspicious rat statue is believed to invite boundless wealth luck in 2020, year of the Rat.

TIGER (1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010)

Those born in the year of Tiger radiate confidence this month. You are mentally agile and physically fit. You attract attention from others, everyone wants to be your friend! Also, you become more attractive to the opposite sex this month.

Lots of great opportunities are coming your way! And you’re not going to miss them!

Recommendations:

Activate completion luck with the ‘Sum of Ten’ amulet! With this amulet, you ensure that whatever luck comes your way actually manifests for you causing you to enjoy good outcomes in all your endeavors.
Place the Monkey on Elephant on your desk to boost your career. It is a powerful symbol of a successful and upwards climbing career.

Rabbit

Horoscope for April 2020 promises Rabbits a creative month. You’ll be able to think outside the box and come up with new creative ideas. This month, you will definitely feel that people are more open to your ideas.

Your personal relationships improve this month. You’ll find more things in common with your friends and family members.

Recommendations:

Place a Scholar on Dragon Carp on your desk. This Scholar depicted with Dragon Carp and Four Symbols of Scholarship brings examination success and top academic attainment to those pursuing their studies.
Carry the Lucky Mahjong Tiles Amulet to activate your money luck. This powerful amulet features the characters that carry this meaning of “prosperity” and “striking it rich”, as well as the magical wealth talisman and mantra on the reverse sides. It attracts money luck, boosts wealth and windfall luck!

DRAGON (1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012)

Dragons are experiencing a misfortune month. They are facing obstacles at work and their lives seem frustrating. The month is bringing you all sorts of mishaps. Therefore you should tread carefully.

Also, there is an indication of some cash flow problems. Therefore the Dragons should make sure to protect themselves this month and become more flexible!

Recommendations:

Carry the Five Element Pagoda with OM AH HUM Amulet to reduce the effect of misfortunate energy coming your way.
Place a Double Humped Camel on your desk to improve your financial situation.

SNAKE (1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013)

According to Horoscope for April 2020, Snakes are experiencing misfortune this month. This is the time for lying low and avoiding risk. Do not engage in extreme sports as the danger of injury is high.

Also, there is an indication of money loss in April. Therefore make sure to set aside a little more money and don’t spend money unless it’s necessary! There is a big chance to face unexpected expenses that crop up.

Recommendations:

Carry the Five Element Pagoda with OM AH HUM Amulet to reduce the effect of misfortunate energy coming your way.
Wear the Garuda Wu Lou pendant to reduce the risk of serious illness.
Place a Double Humped Camel on your desk to improve your financial situation.

HORSE (1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014)

Horoscope for April 2020 promises a good month for those born in the year of Horse! Your energy levels improve, enabling you to capture new opportunities. New opportunities you’re facing this month will help you formulate new ambitions!

However, married Horses may face relationship problems that may lead to divorce. Therefore make sure you protect your relationship this month!

Recommendations:

Carry the Victory Banner Amulet to enhance the good opportunities coming your way. It is the ideal enhancer to carry for those needing to triumph over any challenges that face them. Anyone in a competitive situation – at work, in business, at school or in social situations – will benefit from the energies this amulet attracts. It allows you to emerge victorious in any situation you find yourself in. Excellent for executives climbing the career ladder, students looking to win coveted placements and scholarships, and for those involved in competitive sport, politics or situations when you need to overcome rivals.
Wear the Marriage Saver Amethyst Pendant to protect your relationship and ‘heal’ your marriage.

SHEEP (1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015)

Horoscope for April 2020 promises you a quarrelsome month. You may feel more emotional and sensitive than usual, getting defensive without a real reason for that. Try not to react to other people’s comments and opinions too emotionally. Learn to cool down before you react.

Petty quarrels can lead to serious misunderstandings. In relationships, it can even lead to breakups. Try to be more tactful and patient with people, especially with your family members. This month, it’s better for you to give in to the small things instead of making a big deal out of it.

Recommendations:

Place the Dragon Holding Fireball Anti Conflict Amulet to reduce the conflict energy of the month. This powerful amulet ensures that any disagreeable energy manifesting in conflict and quarrels is not just suppressed, but converted into harmonious and industrious interactions instead. Also, this is the most effective antidote for those suffering from any manner of legal entanglements or lawsuits.
If you are involved in a court case, carry the Talisman to Win a Court Case to improve your chances. This Talisman features Ksiddhigarbha’s Fireball, which when carried near you will ensure you can win in any lawsuit, court proceedings, or when faced with a legal conflict. Carry it to bring victory in any legal fight. It also aids in resolving conflicts with everyone’s satisfaction.

MONKEY (1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016)

Those born in the year of Monkey are experiencing argumentative month. You may experience conflicts with your family members, colleagues, or bosses. Try your best not to get involved in arguments! This month, the more you try to prove your point the more heated the argument will get. Take it easy! Learn to compromise!

Recommendations:

Place the Dragon Holding Fireball Anti Conflict Amulet to reduce the conflict energy of the month. This powerful amulet ensures that any disagreeable energy manifesting in conflict and quarrels is not just suppressed, but converted into harmonious and industrious interactions instead. Also, this is the most effective antidote for those suffering from any manner of legal entanglements or lawsuits.
Carry Peace and Anti Conflict Keychain Amulet.

ROOSTER (1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017)

Horoscope for April 2020 promises auspicious month for those born in the year of Rooster. You will enjoy positive emotions and good mood this month. Good luck is coming your way! Whatever you put your mind to now has a high chance of success. Your financial situation is improving. It’s a good time to think about new investments or new ways of making money.

Recommendations:

Activate your wealth luck using the Mongoose Wealth Amulet. This powerful amulet delivers a continuous flow of wealth and prosperity luck your way.
Display the Mangoose Spouting Jewels on your desk to ensure your investments bring gains and success.

DOG (1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006, 2018)

April will bring betrayal to those born in the year of Dog. This month, you should watch out for a traitor in your midst.

There is also an indication of overindulgence. Do not overspend and keep an eye on your finances. Unexpected expenses could crop up!

Recommendation:

Carry the Anti Betrayal Amulet this month. This powerful amulet incorporates the Taoist power of the God Warrior KUAN KUNG and the Buddhist blessings that protect against betrayal, burglary, and violence. This is an extremely effective amulet that guards and protects.

BOAR (1959, 1971, 1983, 1995, 2007, 2019)

The Boars may face betrayal and money loss this month. There are people envious of your success who would go to great lengths to get ahead of you.

There is a risk of being cheated or taken for a ride. For single Boars, better not to commit to any relationship at the moment. If you’re married make sure to use the special amulet to protect your marriage.

Since there is an indication of money loss this month, make sure to budget extra money to take care of mishaps that may happen.

Recommendations:

Carry the Evil Eye Anti Jealousy Amulet to transform jealousy into admiration. This powerful amulet protects against harm caused by gossip, slander, and actions taken by those jealous of you, in competition with you, or who may covet what you have.
Wear the Marriage Saver Amethyst Pendant to protect your relationship and ‘heal’ your marriage.

Astrology

Abundance Haircuts In April: Good And Bad Days To Cut Your Hair

Published

4 days ago

March 27, 2020

Katya Ki

Abundance Haircuts is a little-known sutra that reveals negative consequences of cutting your hair on the bad days and incredible benefits of cutting it on the good days. Bad and good days for this sutra are based on the Tibetan Calendar. Dates of Abundance Haircuts are calculated according to extremely complex formulas by experienced Feng Shui Masters. Naturally, each year, depending on the stars and their position, these days change.

Most people in the Western world have never heard about abundance haircuts. While for Eastern people it’s not a new practice. In this article, I will share with you this powerful sutra and give you a special calendar for abundance haircuts in April with good and bad days for haircuts. Unfortunately, most of the world is dealing with a global pandemic called Covid 19 or Coronavirus. Picking your next hair salon appointment is most likely not an option for most this month but if you are able to have a family member or roommate trim your hair – only choose good days for abundance haircuts in April!

Why Is Hair So Important?

Since ancient times, people have given hair and any manipulation of it a sacred meaning. It was thought, that through one’s hair people can connect with the Universe. Hair serves as “antennas” and “guides” between our world and the world of Heaven. And so far this knowledge has not lost its relevance. Hair connects us with Higher forces, cosmic energy, God, Higher consciousness. By connecting through the hair to the Cosmos, a person is fed by the energies of Abundance and Health.

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There were many beliefs associated with hair, some of them have survived to the present day. For example: in any case, you should not get a haircut by yourself, as in this case there is a deformation of your energy field, which can lead to poor health. It is also not recommended to get a haircut on the days of a lunar or solar Eclipse: the hair can suffer, weaken, lose shine and volume.

What Are “Abundance Haircuts”?

It has long been known that there are days when it is especially favorable to cut hair. Among these days there are days of “Abundance haircuts.”

Abundance haircuts is a special ritual to attract abundance flows into your life. It is good to say special affirmations and mantras for abundance and prosperity on this day. So you will strengthen the ritual haircut and make it a more effective and efficient force.

On this day it would be beneficial to chant the Lakshmi mantra:

OM HREEM SHREEM LAKSHMI BYO NAMAHA

Or Ganesh mantra:

OM SHRI GANESHAYA NAMAHA

It is also very beneficial to say positive affirmations like:

I deserve to be abundantly happy and healthy!
My abundance is constantly growing!
I always have money for everything I need!
Money comes to me easily and fast!
I’m grateful for my abundant life!

Abundance Haircuts In April

Awareness

Somatic Narcissist: A Detailed Guide to Identify One

Published

6 days ago

March 26, 2020

SOLANCHA STAFF

Narcissistic behavior is a disorder that manifests in many ways. For a somatic narcissist, it is all about physical appearance. If you’ve met someone whose self-love is more about how he looks, he might be a somatic narcissist. In this guide, we want to explore how somatic narcissist functions. More so, we’ll share with you 7 key signs to look out for when you are interacting with a somatic narcissist. Let’s get to it!

Categories of Narcissists

Psychologists classify narcissists into three categories:

a cerebral narcissist;
a sexual narcissist;
a somatic narcissist.

Now, a cerebral narcissist will want to assert his values on you based on his superior view of his intellect.

In contrast, a sexual narcissist sees his sexual prowess domineering over everyone.

However, a somatic narcissist will want you to acknowledge his worth based on his physical appearance. We are discussing these types today.

The Typical Somatic Narcissist

Have you ever met persons obsessed with the finer details of their appearances? They will spend hours in front of the mirror each day to prepare for the day. If it is a woman, she will talk endlessly about her hair, latest beauty treatment, or clothes. For men, they tend to spend lots of time and money at the gym to achieve and maintain the body image they want.

7 Tell-Tale Signs That You Are Dealing With a Somatic Narcissist

#1: Appearance Comes First

A somatic narcissist will spend an unreasonable amount of time and money to get the perfect body image they want. For example, they prefer exotic dining and designer wear. They will also pay hefty subscriptions to join a premium fitness club. Such persons will also spend most of their income on cosmetic surgery, trying to correct their looks.

On the same note, a somatic narcissist will always find fault in other people’s appearances. For example, they will make nasty jokes about an obese person. Alternatively, they make it their business to follow up and set unrealistic standards for others.

Do you know those persons who give unsolicited advice on how to dress up around them? Well, it gets worse when a somatic narcissist leads a team. He will try and impose his eating and fitness habits on to the other team members. It does not matter whether such practices will suit the team or not.

#2: They Have No Intimate Sexual Relationship

Sex partners are often mere objects of pleasure to a somatic narcissist. For, they view the sexual act as a means to conquer the other. Hence, they will seduce and have several partners at the same time. In turn, they validate their view of themselves by feeling sexually desirable to multiple partners. Yet, they will not show any emotional involvement in the relationships. It is their way to conquer and move on to the next target without getting hurt in the process.

#3: They Are Self-Centered

Like other narcissists, a somatic narcissist always thinks about his interests above those around him. For example, when you excel as a team, he will want to take credit for the feat. A typical somatic narcissist shows no empathy for those around him. Instead, this single relation will further drain the emotions of anyone near him.

#4: A Sadistic Sense Of Pleasure

Does your partner find pleasure in bringing you down? Then, you could be dealing with a somatic narcissist. Some somatic narcissists enjoy hurting others to gratify themselves. Take, for example, your boss scolding you for your executive image around customers. It only means that he sees you as a threat to his ego. In turn, he will give you unfounded punishments to try to discourage you from looking superior before him.

#5: They Will Not Accept Negative Criticism

A somatic narcissist is never the type to receive negative criticism without putting up a fight. His self-righteous image of himself makes him get aggressive when probed for his flawed works. In response, such a person can become abusive or violent to deny responsibility for his actions. They do this to avoid any humiliation and emptiness for accepting that they are in the wrong. To spot this sign in a somatic narcissist, try taking part in an exercise that will conflict with their interest. If he overreacts or behaves irrationally, then that’s your proof right there.

#6: Their Needs Come First

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A typical somatic narcissist will appear to you as a charming and charismatic person. Hence, they will quickly draw you to associate with them. In fact, the more you give them your attention and approval, the more they want you in their lives. Yet, as time passes by, you notice how they always give their needs a priority above everyone else’s needs. When you stop feeding their narcissist needs, they immediately start losing interest in you.

#7: They Are Master Manipulators

Does your partner or colleague manipulate your emotions to get what he wants from you? You know, they lie about something to twist your reality. In addition, what they say is the opposite of what they do. Moreover, they always want to make you feel guilty of something so that you can give in to their demands.

If you have someone who lies and is still playing a victim, he is a master manipulator. Somatic narcissists, too tend to use the gaslighting technique to get what they want. For example, if they wake up in a bad mood, they will try to attribute it to you. In turn, they get you to pity them and try to make up to them.

In Conclusion – Why Is It Important To Know A Somatic Narcissist?

A somatic narcissist can make you lose your self-esteem since they always try to point out your physical flaws. Their craving for approval can leave you scarred emotionally. It is how they make themselves look superior. Yet their appeal is never skin-deep. Hence, by understanding the somatic narcissist, you can come up with ways to protect yourself from getting hurt. For example, take your time to know the person before committing to a serious sexual relationship. Plus, it would help if you insisted on treating one another fairly.