Awareness

10 Reasons Why Most Men Can’t Handle Female Empaths

Published

2 years ago

January 6, 2020

Are you a female empath who struggles to stay in relationships? Are you doing all you can to make things right but somehow nothing seems to work? Don’t take all the blame. Have you ever thought it could be your male partner who can’t handle you? Now you’re thinking “Johnny couldn’t handle you, Rick, Mike, Brian… Just hang in there!

Unlike other persons, female empaths have a strong intuition. They know what they want and will not accept half-truths or half-lies. Does this account ring a bell in your past relationships? If so, here are some 10 more reasons why most men can’t handle female empaths.

10 Reasons Why Most Men Can’t Handle Female Empaths

1. Female Empaths Ask a Lot of Questions

Empaths are intuitive. They have a natural drive to question every aspect of their lives. Moreover, it is their way of understanding and accepting of how the world revolves around them. This trait may be a setback for most female empaths in a relationship.

A female empath wants a partner that they can share their hopes and aspirations. Hence, they tend to be overly inquisitive. However, not all men are ready to answer the tough questions about their past or current lives.

The male partner may be happy with the status quo, unwilling to question his habits. So, he may shrug off the first few instances. But, when the female empath is persistent, it could hurt their relationship.

2. Empaths Know What They Want in The Relationship

Some people start a relationship hoping things will work out as they get to know each other. Unfortunately, this is not the case with empaths. A female empath makes deliberate decisions about her life. She has an idea of what she expects and how the relationship should steer. However, a man who is not clear about his plans may find this trait too demanding.

3. Empaths Detect and Detest Dishonesty

Honesty is a major pillar in an empath’s life. It is hard to tell female empaths half-truths. They can know when a man is dishonest. Secondly, most empaths will tell a man about it directly. Now, this bold approach can be intimidating to a male partner. More so, for a partner who tends to sugar-coat his mistakes and get away with it.

Moreover, an empath already knows what she wants in the relationship. Hence, if the partner is not into her, or wants to use her, she will keep off.

4. Empaths Value Solid Relationships

Now, if you see yourself as an average male partner, it won’t be ideal to date a female empath. Similarly, if you are just out to have fun for a night or so, then, an empath may feel frustrating to you. Female empaths seek justification for everything they do. Plus, when they are in a relationship, they are in it for the long haul. Indeed, female empaths value meaningful unions. They will do all they can to make it deep and fulfilling.

5. Intimacy is Key

Are you in love with a female empath? You ought to know that if the feeling of love grounds her, she will be more open to showing you her vulnerable side. A love life with an empath can only be intimate, or else you won’t last for long. Sometimes, the male partners may not be ready for this intimacy. It is for this reason that empaths end up hurting the most when in a bad relationship.

Again, empaths have an intense love for their pets. There are times when, as a partner, you’ll feel as though you come second. Well, empaths can’t help it. But, a male partner may misunderstand this and opt to compete for attention. Unfortunately, this approach never works.

6. Empaths Are Hard To Deceive

Are you dealing with a significant issue in your life that can affect your relationship? Let your female empath partner know. This way, you’ll avoid awkward moments when your partner starts to doubt you.

Indeed, empaths have great intuition. They can tell if you are dealing with anxiety, stress, or any other emotional challenge. Covering up your struggle by blaming fatigue or lack of sleep won’t help. An empath will not be at peace until you clear the air.

7. They Value Consistency

Whereas empaths never settle for an average life, they value consistency. They have a vision of what they want. Then, they develop routines that aim at achieving their dreams. Thus, if you are the type who never keeps a promise, your relationship will be quite hectic.

For example, did you promise to help out with house chores? Don’t bail out the last minute. The empath partner relies on your word to make bigger plans for the future.

8. Empaths Want It All Or Nothing At All

Now that you know you are in love with a female empath, are you reciprocating her feelings towards you? If not, then there will be problems. See, empaths will commit their all to the relationship and expect the same from you. Hence, this deep commitment can scare a partner who was out to have fun and move on.

9. Empaths are Independent

Did you know that empaths are independent thinkers? Yes, we know empaths are emotional sponges with erratic mood swings, right? But, we do have alpha empaths who are pretty independent. Hence, they do not wait for their partners to assure them of their position in life or the relationship. Instead, they make solid choices and stick by them. Now, what happens when this empath dates a man with a traditional mindset?

10. You Can’t Cage a Female Empath

A female empath knows her strengths and weaknesses. Also, she has a higher sense of her surroundings than most of her peers. Sometimes, offering to protect her feels suffocating to her. She’d prefer to first make her own mistakes and work on fixing them.

A male partner with an urge to shield his female empath partner may not grasp this. Instead, he will feel helpless in times of the partner’s need.

The Bottom Line

Any man dating a female empath should do so with an open mind. These partners express their love differently. And, if you value your relationship, find ways to cope with your partner’s uniqueness. For example, you ought to take anything your partner tells you seriously. In addition, understand that you can never change an empath. They were born that way.

Up Next

The Four Components of Emotional Intelligence: More Important Than IQ

Don't Miss

Abundance Haircuts In January: Good And Bad Days To Cut Your Hair

Katya Ki

Katya Ki is the Founder of SOLANCHA Magazine, a Metaphysical Expert, a Reiki Master, and Human Rights Attorney. She has been studying Eastern metaphysics, cosmology, and esotericism for almost 20 years now. And she's still discovering new knowledge, which is hidden in ancient teachings. During her pilgrimage to the monastery of Saint Catherine in Egypt, she discovered the SOLANCHA System. This is how the SOLANCHA journey started!

Abundant Living

Abundance Haircuts In August 2021: Good And Bad Days To Cut Your Hair

Published

3 days ago

July 23, 2021

Katya Ki

Abundance Haircuts is a little-known sutra that reveals the negative consequences of cutting your hair on the bad days and the incredible benefits of cutting it on the good days. Bad and good days for this sutra are based on the Tibetan Calendar. Dates of Abundance Haircuts are calculated according to extremely complex formulas by experienced Feng Shui Masters. Naturally, each year, depending on the stars and their position, these days change.

Most people in the Western world have never heard about abundance haircuts. While for Eastern people it’s not a new practice. In this article, I will share with you this powerful sutra and give you a special calendar for abundance haircuts in August 2021 with good and bad days for haircuts. Pay attention to what day you’re picking for your next hair salon appointment – only choose good days for abundance haircuts in August 2021.

Why Is Hair So Important?

Since ancient times, people have given hair and any manipulation of it a sacred meaning. It was thought, that through one’s hair people can connect with the Universe. Hair serves as “antennas” and “guides” between our world and the world of Heaven. And so far this knowledge has not lost its relevance. Hair connects us with Higher forces, cosmic energy, God, Higher consciousness. By connecting through the hair to the Cosmos, a person is fed by the energies of Abundance and Health.

There were many beliefs associated with hair, some of them have survived to the present day. For example: in any case, you should not get a haircut by yourself, as in this case there is a deformation of your energy field, which can lead to poor health. It is also not recommended to get a haircut on the days of a lunar or solar Eclipse: the hair can suffer, weaken, lose shine, and volume.

What Are “Abundance Haircuts”?

It has long been known that there are days when it is especially favorable to cut hair. Among these days there are days of “Abundance haircuts.”

Abundance haircuts are a special ritual to attract abundance flows into your life. It is good to say abundance affirmations and mantras on this day. So you will strengthen the ritual haircut and make it a more effective and efficient force.

On this day it would be beneficial to chant the Lakshmi mantra:

OM HREEM SHREEM LAKSHMI BYO NAMAHA

Or Ganesh mantra:

OM SHRI GANESHAYA NAMAHA

It is also very beneficial to say abundance affirmations like:

I deserve to be abundantly happy and healthy!
My abundance is constantly growing!
I always have money for everything I need!
Money comes to me easily and fast!
I’m grateful for my abundant life!

Abundance Haircuts In August 2021

Astrology

The Full Thunder Moon 2021: Big Karmic Lessons Are Coming

Published

4 days ago

July 22, 2021

Katya Ki

The Full Thunder Moon 2021 rises on Friday, July 23, 2021. The upcoming Full Moon is often called the Thunder Moon, Buck Moon, Feather Moulting Moon, Salmon Moon, Berry Moon, and Raspberry Moon. The Full Thunder Moon 2021 is the time when we will be learning our karmic lessons and reaping the fruits of our good or bad karma.

In this article, we will share with you everything you need to know about the Full Thunder Moon 2021!

When Is The Full Thunder Moon 2021?

Full Thunder Moon will reach peak illumination at 10:37 P.M. Eastern Time on Friday. Look towards the southeast to watch it rise above the horizon.

Why Is It Called the “Thunder Moon”?

The full moon in July is also called the Thunder Moon because of the frequency of thunderstorms during this hot, dry month.

The Full Moon In Capricorn

According to Vedic astrology, the Full Moon takes place in Capricorn in the lunar mansion of Uttarashadha Nakshatra. Because the Moon is close to Saturn (which is in retrograde motion), there may be depressions and downturns in our personal lives and in the global economy.

Uttarashadha is the nakshatra of truthfulness. This nakshatra is intolerant of behind-the-scene influences and deception. Under the influence of this nakshatra, people will attract lots of life challenges where their truthfulness and authenticity will be tested. The spiritual lesson that Uttarashadha nakshatra brings to us is learning how to see through illusions in order to reveal the true nature of life events.

Under the influence of Uttarashadha Nakshatra, some people will be motivated to fight for what they believe is right. Also, during this time, your commitment to your ideas and moral principles may get tested. Therefore, it’s important to stay firm in your beliefs!

In Uttarashadha, the wisdom and integrity received in Sagittarius are directed to the sign of Capricorn – the field of changing and improving the surrounding world and humanity. Therefore, this Nakshatra puts a big responsibility on humanity, especially, on the world leaders. If the principles that humanity follows are false, then the changes that will be brought to the world will be wrong. In this case, there’s a danger of creating structures that will bind people and put more limitations on them, instead of setting them free.

This nakshatra can also bring health-related issues like weakness of lymphatic vessels, the knees, skin, ears, urinary system, typhoid, dysentery, eczema, and allergies.

The main advice for this Full Moon is to stay patient and take your emotions under control. You may face lots of injustice, manipulations, and lies, however, stay focused on your truth and your moral principles, don’t compromise your authenticity in order to fit in.

How to Work With the Full Moon Energy?

If we do not live in the rhythm of the lunar cycle, we most likely will feel mood swings and fatigue during the Full Moon time. Moreover, our emotional and even physical condition may deteriorate. Therefore, it is very important to learn to live in harmony with the Moon, especially when it’s at the peak of its activity.

Spend this Full Moon time period doing some internal work. Don’t let your energy run rampant with trying to make things happen. Time spent in silence, prayer, and meditation will be karmically rewarded. No matter what’s happening around you, stay calm, grounded, and centered.

For harmonizing the influence of the Moon on our lives, we can perform Moon practices and adjust our lifestyle to the Moon’s vibrations.

Quick Tips For the Full Thunder Moon 2021

In order to balance the Full Thunder Moon 2021 period’s influence on your life, try to keep in mind the following tips:

Do not start new cases and projects during this period.
Do not make important life-changing decisions.
Do not sign contracts, hold meetings with partners, or start a new business during this time. It is better to postpone all these things to another day. If this is not possible, be extremely careful.
A full moon is a special day when the maximum concentration of energy is reached, and the moon is visible in the sky at its full power. Therefore, during the Full Moon, when emotions are on the verge of getting out of control, it is recommended to devote yourself to spiritual practices.
During the Full Moon, try not to do any intense physical activity.
It is not recommended to perform operations during the full moon, as there is a high probability of their unfavorable outcome (severe bleeding may occur).
Be extremely careful on the roads while driving during the Full Moon. Make sure you concentrate on driving.
The full moon is a great time for fasting and cleansing.
It is recommended to do charity work on this day. For example, feed the homeless or donate something to the orphanage. Any help will be favorable. However, it is not recommended to donate money on this day.
Stay connected with nature: take a walk in the forest or at the beach, lie down on the ground, talk to the trees, hug them, etc.
Wear white clothes and pearls to pay your homage to the Moon.
Cooking for your family and friends will help to activate and balance the Moon energy.

The full moon in Uttarashadha Nakshatra is a favorable time for:

Art;
Wearing new clothes and jewelry;
Healing from illness;
Planting plants;
Installation of altars;
Spiritual ceremonies;
Studying of the Vedas;
Improving the home environment;
Tantra.

Spiritual Practices For the Full Thunder Moon 2021

#1: Chanting Ganesh Mantra

The symbol of Uttarashadha is an elephant tusk. The Elephant’s tusk associates this lunar mansion with the Hindu God Ganesh. Lord Ganesh is the one-tusked elephant-headed god who is invoked to bless new beginnings and is prayed to remove obstacles from one’s path or endeavor. Therefore, chanting the Ganesh mantra during this full moon will help you to remove any obstacles from your path to success and abundance.

Chant the mantra 108 times.

#2: Filling Up With Lunar Energy

This practice is especially recommended for those who have a bad relationship with their mothers or elderly women, and also for those who have mood swings.

Instructions:

Place a glass of clean water on the windowsill (or next to the window) so that the moonlight reflects in it. Leave it there for the night.
In the morning, drink that Moon water on an empty stomach. Tell your gratitude to the Moon. Chant the Moon mantra: OM CHANDRAYA NAMAHA (108 times).

#3: Full Moon Mantra Chanting For Attracting Abundance

On a Full Moon, go outside (backyard or patio), stretch your hands up to the Moon. When looking at the Full Moon, set your intention to attract abundance into your life and repeat the following mantra for 12 minutes: OM SHRAAM SHREEM SHRAUM SAH CHANDRAMASE NAMAHA

The Bottom Line

The retrograde motion of Saturn makes this full moon a depressive and emotional period. Stay in touch with your feelings. Be patient with yourself and with others. Take every obstacle with gratitude for teaching you an important lesson. Remember that we are personally responsible for our own karma. By focusing on your truthfulness and spiritual principles you will lay a firm foundation for your good karma and positive changes in life.

Personal Development

10 Must-Watch Conscious Movies That Make You Think Deeply

Published

5 days ago

July 21, 2021

SOLANCHA STAFF

As humans, stories are one of our most powerful forms of communication. We love stories! They help us to understand important ideas and make sense of the world around us. Everything we go through in our lives is a story, every dream we have is a story, and there’s a story behind every achievement and every failure. That’s why it makes sense that we love movies since they perfectly embody interesting stories. Some of us watch movies to get inspired or motivated, others – to find a sense of relief from our daily stress, to have a mind-twisting experience, or to even feel empathy by letting them touch our hearts. It’s not a secret that the right kind of movie can even help us grow as individuals and be a powerful tool for self-reflection. Conscious movies can encourage us to question our lives, ideas, and principles, realize our infinite potential and endless possibilities, and even understand where we’re heading as a society.

In this article, we want to share with you our list of 10 conscious movies that will definitely make you think deeply and question old paradigms.