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10 Reasons Why Most Men Can’t Handle Female Empaths

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Are you a female empath who struggles to stay in relationships? Are you doing all you can to make things right but somehow nothing seems to work? Don’t take all the blame. Have you ever thought it could be your male partner who can’t handle you? Now you’re thinking “Johnny couldn’t handle you, Rick, Mike, Brian… Just hang in there!

Unlike other persons, female empaths have a strong intuition. They know what they want and will not accept half-truths or half-lies. Does this account ring a bell in your past relationships? If so, here are some 10 more reasons why most men can’t handle female empaths.

10 Reasons Why Most Men Can’t Handle Female Empaths

1. Female Empaths Ask a Lot of Questions

Empaths are intuitive. They have a natural drive to question every aspect of their lives. Moreover, it is their way of understanding and accepting of how the world revolves around them. This trait may be a setback for most female empaths in a relationship.

A female empath wants a partner that they can share their hopes and aspirations. Hence, they tend to be overly inquisitive. However, not all men are ready to answer the tough questions about their past or current lives.

The male partner may be happy with the status quo, unwilling to question his habits. So, he may shrug off the first few instances. But, when the female empath is persistent, it could hurt their relationship

2. Empaths Know What They Want in The Relationship

Some people start a relationship hoping things will work out as they get to know each other. Unfortunately, this is not the case with empaths. A female empath makes deliberate decisions about her life. She has an idea of what she expects and how the relationship should steer. However, a man who is not clear about his plans may find this trait too demanding.

3. Empaths Detect and Detest Dishonesty

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Honesty is a major pillar in an empath’s life. It is hard to tell female empaths half-truths. They can know when a man is dishonest. Secondly, most empaths will tell a man about it directly. Now, this bold approach can be intimidating to a male partner. More so, for a partner who tends to sugar-coat his mistakes and get away with it.

Moreover, an empath already knows what she wants in the relationship. Hence, if the partner is not into her, or wants to use her, she will keep off.

4. Empaths Value Solid Relationships

Now, if you see yourself as an average male partner, it won’t be ideal to date a female empath. Similarly, if you are just out to have fun for a night or so, then, an empath may feel frustrating to you. Female empaths seek justification for everything they do. Plus, when they are in a relationship, they are in it for the long haul. Indeed, female empaths value meaningful unions. They will do all they can to make it deep and fulfilling.

5. Intimacy is Key

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Are you in love with a female empath? You ought to know that if the feeling of love grounds her, she will be more open to showing you her vulnerable side. A love life with an empath can only be intimate, or else you won’t last for long. Sometimes, the male partners may not be ready for this intimacy. It is for this reason that empaths end up hurting the most when in a bad relationship.

Again, empaths have an intense love for their pets. There are times when, as a partner, you’ll feel as though you come second. Well, empaths can’t help it. But, a male partner may misunderstand this and opt to compete for attention. Unfortunately, this approach never works.

6. Empaths Are Hard To Deceive

Are you dealing with a significant issue in your life that can affect your relationship? Let your female empath partner know. This way, you’ll avoid awkward moments when your partner starts to doubt you.

Indeed, empaths have great intuition. They can tell if you are dealing with anxiety, stress, or any other emotional challenge. Covering up your struggle by blaming fatigue or lack of sleep won’t help. An empath will not be at peace until you clear the air.

7. They Value Consistency

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Whereas empaths never settle for an average life, they value consistency. They have a vision of what they want. Then, they develop routines that aim at achieving their dreams. Thus, if you are the type who never keeps a promise, your relationship will be quite hectic.

For example, did you promise to help out with house chores? Don’t bail out the last minute. The empath partner relies on your word to make bigger plans for the future.

8. Empaths Want It All Or Nothing At All

Now that you know you are in love with a female empath, are you reciprocating her feelings towards you? If not, then there will be problems. See, empaths will commit their all to the relationship and expect the same from you. Hence, this deep commitment can scare a partner who was out to have fun and move on.

9. Empaths are Independent

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Did you know that empaths are independent thinkers? Yes, we know empaths are emotional sponges with erratic mood swings, right? But, we do have alpha empaths who are pretty independent. Hence, they do not wait for their partners to assure them of their position in life or the relationship. Instead, they make solid choices and stick by them. Now, what happens when this empath dates a man with a traditional mindset?

10. You Can’t Cage a Female Empath

A female empath knows her strengths and weaknesses. Also, she has a higher sense of her surroundings than most of her peers. Sometimes, offering to protect her feels suffocating to her. She’d prefer to first make her own mistakes and work on fixing them.

A male partner with an urge to shield his female empath partner may not grasp this. Instead, he will feel helpless in times of the partner’s need.

The Bottom Line

Any man dating a female empath should do so with an open mind. These partners express their love differently. And, if you value your relationship, find ways to cope with your partner’s uniqueness. For example, you ought to take anything your partner tells you seriously. In addition, understand that you can never change an empath. They were born that way.


Katya Ki is the Founder and Editor-In-Chief of SOLANCHA Magazine, a Feng Shui Master, a Metaphysical Expert, a Reiki Master, and Human Rights Attorney. She has been studying Eastern metaphysics and esotericism for almost 20 years now. And she's still discovering new knowledge, which is hidden in ancient teachings. During her pilgrimage to the monastery of Saint Catherine in Egypt, she discovered the SOLANCHA System. This is how the SOLANCHA journey started!

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Abundance Haircuts In April: Good And Bad Days To Cut Your Hair

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Abundance Haircuts is a little-known sutra that reveals negative consequences of cutting your hair on the bad days and incredible benefits of cutting it on the good days. Bad and good days for this sutra are based on the Tibetan Calendar. Dates of Abundance Haircuts are calculated according to extremely complex formulas by experienced Feng Shui Masters. Naturally, each year, depending on the stars and their position, these days change.

Most people in the Western world have never heard about abundance haircuts. While for Eastern people it’s not a new practice. In this article, I will share with you this powerful sutra and give you a special calendar for abundance haircuts in April with good and bad days for haircuts. Unfortunately, most of the world is dealing with a global pandemic called Covid 19 or Coronavirus. Picking your next hair salon appointment is most likely not an option for most this month but if you are able to have a family member or roommate trim your hair – only choose good days for abundance haircuts in April!

Why Is Hair So Important?

Since ancient times, people have given hair and any manipulation of it a sacred meaning. It was thought, that through one’s hair people can connect with the Universe. Hair serves as “antennas” and “guides” between our world and the world of Heaven. And so far this knowledge has not lost its relevance. Hair connects us with Higher forces, cosmic energy, God, Higher consciousness. By connecting through the hair to the Cosmos, a person is fed by the energies of Abundance and Health.

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There were many beliefs associated with hair, some of them have survived to the present day. For example: in any case, you should not get a haircut by yourself, as in this case there is a deformation of your energy field, which can lead to poor health. It is also not recommended to get a haircut on the days of a lunar or solar Eclipse: the hair can suffer, weaken, lose shine and volume.

What Are “Abundance Haircuts”?

It has long been known that there are days when it is especially favorable to cut hair. Among these days there are days of “Abundance haircuts.”

Abundance haircuts is a special ritual to attract abundance flows into your life. It is good to say special affirmations and mantras for abundance and prosperity on this day. So you will strengthen the ritual haircut and make it a more effective and efficient force.

On this day it would be beneficial to chant the Lakshmi mantra:

OM HREEM SHREEM LAKSHMI BYO NAMAHA

Or Ganesh mantra:

OM SHRI GANESHAYA NAMAHA

It is also very beneficial to say positive affirmations like:

  • I deserve to be abundantly happy and healthy!
  • My abundance is constantly growing!
  • I always have money for everything I need!
  • Money comes to me easily and fast!
  • I’m grateful for my abundant life!

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Somatic Narcissist: A Detailed Guide to Identify One

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Narcissistic behavior is a disorder that manifests in many ways. For a somatic narcissist, it is all about physical appearance. If you’ve met someone whose self-love is more about how he looks, he might be a somatic narcissist. In this guide, we want to explore how somatic narcissist functions. More so, we’ll share with you 7 key signs to look out for when you are interacting with a somatic narcissist. Let’s get to it!

Categories of Narcissists

Psychologists classify narcissists into three categories:

  1. a cerebral narcissist;
  2. a sexual narcissist;
  3. a somatic narcissist.

Now, a cerebral narcissist will want to assert his values on you based on his superior view of his intellect.

In contrast, a sexual narcissist sees his sexual prowess domineering over everyone.

However, a somatic narcissist will want you to acknowledge his worth based on his physical appearance. We are discussing these types today.

The Typical Somatic Narcissist

Have you ever met persons obsessed with the finer details of their appearances? They will spend hours in front of the mirror each day to prepare for the day. If it is a woman, she will talk endlessly about her hair, latest beauty treatment, or clothes. For men, they tend to spend lots of time and money at the gym to achieve and maintain the body image they want.

7 Tell-Tale Signs That You Are Dealing With a Somatic Narcissist

#1: Appearance Comes First

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A somatic narcissist will spend an unreasonable amount of time and money to get the perfect body image they want. For example, they prefer exotic dining and designer wear. They will also pay hefty subscriptions to join a premium fitness club. Such persons will also spend most of their income on cosmetic surgery, trying to correct their looks.

On the same note, a somatic narcissist will always find fault in other people’s appearances. For example, they will make nasty jokes about an obese person. Alternatively, they make it their business to follow up and set unrealistic standards for others.

Do you know those persons who give unsolicited advice on how to dress up around them? Well, it gets worse when a somatic narcissist leads a team. He will try and impose his eating and fitness habits on to the other team members.  It does not matter whether such practices will suit the team or not.

#2: They Have No Intimate Sexual Relationship

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Sex partners are often mere objects of pleasure to a somatic narcissist. For, they view the sexual act as a means to conquer the other. Hence, they will seduce and have several partners at the same time.  In turn, they validate their view of themselves by feeling sexually desirable to multiple partners. Yet, they will not show any emotional involvement in the relationships. It is their way to conquer and move on to the next target without getting hurt in the process.

#3: They Are Self-Centered

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Like other narcissists, a somatic narcissist always thinks about his interests above those around him. For example, when you excel as a team, he will want to take credit for the feat. A typical somatic narcissist shows no empathy for those around him. Instead, this single relation will further drain the emotions of anyone near him.

#4: A Sadistic Sense Of Pleasure

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Does your partner find pleasure in bringing you down? Then, you could be dealing with a somatic narcissist. Some somatic narcissists enjoy hurting others to gratify themselves. Take, for example, your boss scolding you for your executive image around customers. It only means that he sees you as a threat to his ego. In turn, he will give you unfounded punishments to try to discourage you from looking superior before him.

#5: They Will Not Accept Negative Criticism

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A somatic narcissist is never the type to receive negative criticism without putting up a fight. His self-righteous image of himself makes him get aggressive when probed for his flawed works. In response, such a person can become abusive or violent to deny responsibility for his actions. They do this to avoid any humiliation and emptiness for accepting that they are in the wrong. To spot this sign in a somatic narcissist, try taking part in an exercise that will conflict with their interest. If he overreacts or behaves irrationally, then that’s your proof right there.

#6: Their Needs Come First

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A typical somatic narcissist will appear to you as a charming and charismatic person. Hence, they will quickly draw you to associate with them. In fact, the more you give them your attention and approval, the more they want you in their lives. Yet, as time passes by, you notice how they always give their needs a priority above everyone else’s needs. When you stop feeding their narcissist needs, they immediately start losing interest in you.

#7: They Are Master Manipulators

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Does your partner or colleague manipulate your emotions to get what he wants from you? You know, they lie about something to twist your reality. In addition, what they say is the opposite of what they do. Moreover, they always want to make you feel guilty of something so that you can give in to their demands.

If you have someone who lies and is still playing a victim, he is a master manipulator. Somatic narcissists, too tend to use the gaslighting technique to get what they want. For example, if they wake up in a bad mood, they will try to attribute it to you. In turn, they get you to pity them and try to make up to them.

In Conclusion – Why Is It Important To Know A Somatic Narcissist?

A somatic narcissist can make you lose your self-esteem since they always try to point out your physical flaws. Their craving for approval can leave you scarred emotionally. It is how they make themselves look superior. Yet their appeal is never skin-deep. Hence, by understanding the somatic narcissist, you can come up with ways to protect yourself from getting hurt. For example, take your time to know the person before committing to a serious sexual relationship. Plus, it would help if you insisted on treating one another fairly.


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Been Told You’re Too Shy? You Might Be an Introverted Empath

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In general, empaths handle everyday challenges in different ways. They internalize both the negative and positive vibes around them as their own. While it is hectic to live as an introverted empath, did you know that most of the empaths are indeed introverts? Yes, the virtues that empaths portray go hand in hand with introverts. Still, we have plenty of empaths who are extroverts. Then, how can you know if you are an introverted empath? Here are the telltale signs!

8 Sighs You Might Be an Introverted Empath

#1: They Lack Social Skills

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An empath who is an introvert is often said to be shy. In real sense, it is an absence of necessary social skills. Think about it. If you are an empath, how many times does an opportunity present itself to interact with others? Do you tend to withdraw to a comfort zone away from the crowds? Then, you could be an introverted empath.

For example, most introverted empaths will find it challenging to go on dates. They get anxious thinking of what the other person will say or think about them. And, if in a relationship, they struggle to express their romantic feelings. Other social skills lacking in introverted empaths include the inability to solve conflicts and poor listening skills.

#2: They Prefer A Solitude Lifestyle

An introverted empath prefers to be alone most times. They struggle to fit into the pre-set social norms. Even so, interacting in social gatherings feels like living a lie. For example, do you know of persons who always complain that they are lonely? Yet, given a chance, they ignore anyone trying to befriend them?

They always feel crowded. The constant interaction with others overwhelms them. Hence, if you find yourself feeling out of place or always faking a lifestyle to fit into other’s expectations, you could be an introverted empath.

#3: They Avoid Being the Center of Attention

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Are you an empath who dreads networking? Would you avoid any opportunity that will put you in the spotlight? It could be you are an introverted empath who finds it impossible to fake a friendship. Such networking sessions demand that you make small talk and be friendly to all. It gets complicated when the empath’s intuition urges him/her to stay away from certain toxic persons.

An introverted empath in a leadership position must come up with ways to cope. That is, the empath should minimize the time spent in meetings and social gatherings. Also, a daily meditation routine will help overcome the anxiety of being the center of attention.

#4: They Never Offer Help

Here is the thing: an introverted empath will feel the pain and suffering of those around him. More so, he wants to help them feel better. But this kind of empath will never offer help unless you ask for it. Yes, to them, they feel like trespassing when they get involved in other people’s lives. In contrast, they need help to help others.

What can you do to help those in need when you are an introverted empath? Try and visualize the impact of your help to the needy person. As you debate whether to help or not, keep the self-talk positive. Then, practice getting out of your comfort zone.

#5: Crowds and Noise Are Too Suffocating

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Most introverted empaths hate being in shopping malls, open markets, beaches, or concerts. Such areas are draining to them. In turn, they often have to look for a quiet place to recharge their energies. For example, a simple ride in a public bus feels like an eternity to this empath. Yet, if you ask them why they think this way, they can’t explain it. It is the same case when in a place with strange odors.

#6: They Rarely Talk

Introverted empaths are quiet persons. Yet, their minds are exploding with conversations they would want to have with those around them. Even when they choose to speak, they find it hard to say precisely what’s on their minds.

And, replying to others in conversations is a battle of choosing the right words to appear relevant. In turn, such persons hardly engage in small talks.

Researchers say that introverted empath’s solitude lifestyle contributes to him not able to hold small talks. They fear being judged or misinterpreted by others. Hence, most times, such a person is the observer in the group.

#7: Obsession with Self-Improvement

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Usually, an empath knows that his surrounding affects his emotions more like a curse than a blessing. Hence, being an introvert, he will try to make sure he makes the right decisions that are good for him. An introverted empath feels like perfection is an illusion that is too high to achieve.

It is this obsession to be right that makes an introverted empath always to want to improve himself. Only that, he seeks self-improvement so that he can please the other person, not for his benefit.

#8: They Are Their Worst Enemies

Now, when you sum up how an introverted empath behaves, his actions hurt him the most. For example, he has conflicting feelings of wanting to help and being too shy to do so. In turn, he moves around feeling guilty for not lending a helping hand.

In addition, the introverted empath will put himself down for his shortcomings. He even questions whether he is a true friend to his close circle. Yet, he assumes all his achievements, some of which are extraordinary.

Final Note: How Can You Thrive as An Introverted Empath?

Do the above telltale signs describe your personality? Then, you must find ways to live a healthy and fulfilling life in this fast-paced society. Do you struggle with anxiety and depression? Instead of wallowing in an addiction, seek help. Professional counselors and psychologists can assist you to overcome your self-doubt.

Does your introvert nature attract narcissists and energy vampires? Learn how to identify one. These toxic people take advantage of an empath’s vulnerable state to benefit themselves.

Finally, is your self-care routine all about those around you? It is time to heal yourself! Know that you can only be helpful to others when your mind and body are healthy.


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