Awareness

The Ultimate Empath Survival Guide: 7 Solutions For You

Published

2 years ago

May 14, 2020

Empaths are individuals who get overwhelmingly concerned about other people’s feelings and emotions. An empath survival guide is important because, in the process, they take up negative energy that later manifests itself as physical, emotional, and spiritual imbalances.

How does one survive living as an empath? This is an empath survival guide that you can incorporate into your everyday life.

Carry Out a Self-Assessment into Your Sensitivities

What triggers you to be oversensitive? It could be a difficult childhood phase you had or the loss of a loved one or even unresolved issues from the past. By knowing what makes you behave the way you do, you can come up with strategies to protect yourself and still be of help to others.

There are many empath quizzes that you can take and determine what type of empathic person you are.

Develop Strategies to Protect and Replenish Your Energy

Now that you know you are an empath, you have to be proactive in protecting yourself from the negativity that you tend to absorb unwillingly. These 7 survival tactics will see you through. You can use them as a basis in developing your own empath survival guide:

1. Deal With Your Anxiety

Empaths may find themselves being anxious for no apparent reason. If they are not worrying about themselves, they are worrying about another. It is as a result of a lack of faith in one’s capabilities. Being in this state is counterproductive. When faced with anxiety, communication is vital in keeping feelings under control.

Learn to communicate your feelings so that you do not pick on other people’s stress levels. You can, for example, explain to a spouse that you need some quiet time to think about the problem at hand. Make it clear that this has nothing to do with them before they conclude that they are to blame.

2. Build Your Self-Confidence

One way to live a healthy life as an empath is by engaging in activities that build your self-confidence. Have daily affirmations reminding you of your strengths. These affirmations will instill the belief system that you want to live by.

List your fears and have a plan to conquer them.

What is that one thing that scares you the most? Just do it. See yourself the way you would like to be and make plans to achieve that.

List all the things you find wrong in yourself because most of the things we criticize ourselves for never make us better people. Why not start approving yourself and see what happens?

3. Set Clear Boundaries and Live By Them

In order to develop a tough skin when you are an empath, you need to set boundaries to what you can and cannot do. This is because, naturally, you are inclined to give to others. Whenever that urge of selflessness overwhelms you to the point you have no disregard for your own wellbeing ask yourself if you really need to do this now.

Know who you are, what you want to achieve in life, and how you plan to do so. Use this to set clear boundaries on what you are willing to tolerate. Never let others get past your boundaries.

4. Deal With Over-eating or Under-eating

Know what triggers your poor eating habits. Be mindful of what you eat. Read food labels. Measure your portions. Have a specific time for eating. Eat small frequent meals instead of a few large meals.

Our bodies tend to interpret thirst as hunger. Therefore, ensure you drink plenty of water throughout the day.

Take part in sports or regular exercises to keep fit. However, don’t overdo it. Start with regular walks and cardiovascular exercises and slowly progress to HIIT workouts.

Keep yourself busy. Idleness tends to make our minds to wonder a lot. In the process, we engage in poor habits that affect our health.

Live by this rule: Do not try to fix someone who has not asked you to do so.

5. Deal With Your Clinical Depression

Empaths are hit the hardest by clinical depression because they tend to take shock and trauma personally. Additionally, instead of dealing with the depression, empaths put the feelings and emotions of other people first, therefore ignoring their own needs.

Unlike other forms of depression, clinical depression takes more than just the will power to overcome it. If you suffer from clinical depression, you need to take a step back and analyze the possible causes of your depression. This is because clinical depression accumulates for many years before it becomes noticeable. Remember, ignoring the triggers will only make your depression to escalate.

6. Deal With Unintended Guilt

Empaths tend to internalize other people’s guilt to the extent of falling into clinical depression and even committing suicide. To avoid the bad effects of guilt, you should know that you can never control how other people feel about you or about themselves. The best you can do is assist them as much as you can, doing so with honest intentions.

7. Take the 100 Days Rejection Challenge

Have you ever heard of the 100 days rejection challenge? Your purpose for the next 100 days is to engage anyone you meet without having the fear of rejection. Just like Eleanor Roosevelt said, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

By doing this challenge, you learn to desensitize yourself from the fear of rejection. Since it takes at least 3 months to develop a habit, by the end of the 100 days, you should be more confident and assertive when interacting with colleagues. The 100 days rejection challenge makes your empath survival guide easy to live by.

Conclusion

An empath is like a psychic sponge. You suck up both the good and bad energy around you in an effort to make the other person feel better. In turn, you end up getting clogged emotionally and physically. In order to live a healthy lifestyle as an empath, you need to make sure the negative energy accumulated is removed on a regular basis. You also need to develop survival tactics that proactively keep the negative energy absorption under control. This empath survival guide gives you key strategies you need to cope with.

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The Most Accurate Horoscope for July 2022

Published

4 days ago

June 30, 2022

Katya Ki

This article will share the most accurate horoscope for July 2022 based on the Feng Shui flying stars chart. The horoscope includes predictions for different spheres of life and Chinese zodiac signs and essential tips for protection from negative influences of the month and the activation of positive events and good luck.

Most Accurate Horoscope Based On Chinese Zodiac Signs

I believe that the Chinese Horoscope is one of the most accurate horoscopes you can use to correct the month’s energy in your favor. I follow its recommendations every month, and it helps me attract positive events into my life and prevent unfortunate ones.

I often hear that astrology doesn’t affect you if you focus on positive things in life and follow the law of attraction rules. Yes, a positive mindset is very crucial; however, according to Eastern teachings, there are three kinds of luck that affect each of us:

human luck;
earth luck;
heaven luck.

Your positive mindset is your human luck which is just 33% of your total luck score. Your heaven luck (another 33%) comes from astrology. And your earth luck (33%) depends on Feng Shui and the energy you surround yourself with.

Of course, you can rely on your human luck and believe that your positive mindset can help you overcome all the obstacles. However, let’s say something negative happened, and somebody yelled at you, or your husband/wife cheated on you, or somebody you love died. How many of us can stay 100% calm and positive in situations like this? You see, when you allow yourself to react to a negative situation in a negative way, you lose your human luck. Now you can rely only on your heaven and earth luck.

Ok, now let’s take a look at your earth luck. Is your house 100% balanced? Is it 100% clean and free of blockages? Does it have all the remedies and protection from negative energy? If your answer is “no,” you can’t rely on your earth luck. And now all that is left is your heaven luck that depends on astrology.

With the help of Chinese astrology, you can fix your situation, protect yourself from the negative influences of the month, and activate good luck! All you need to know is what type of energy rules the month and how to deal with it.

It can be quite dangerous to play around with the energy of the month. After reading my monthly horoscope articles, people who have started to follow all of the Feng Shui recommendations religiously have noticed significant improvements in their lives. Today I want to share with you these priceless recommendations for July 2022. I’m asking you to take everything you’ll read below seriously. It’s essential to get all the protection tools for the month because they are literally lifesavers!

For reading your July 2022 Horoscope, all you need to know is your Chinese zodiac sign. To do this, you just need to find your date of birth in the Hundred Year Calendar (click here)!

Horoscope For July 2022

RAT (1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008, 2020)

The Illness Star takes residence in your chart this month, sapping your energy levels, causing fatigue, and loss of concentration. July is not a good time for taking on too much work or planning too many outings. Protect your health by carrying the Stay Healthy Talisman and display a Wu Lou with Joyous Cranes by your bedside.

OX (1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009, 2021)

The horoscope for July 2022 promises a very positive month for those born in the year of the Ox. The Star of Future Prosperity is taking its turn in your sector. This Star grants success, fame, recognition, and long-term prosperity. Activate your good fortune by displaying the Completion Horse on your desk or in the Northeast sector of your house or office. Also, carry the Sky Horse Amulet for success and victory luck.

TIGER (1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010, 2022)

Those born in the year of the Tiger are feeling energetic and having an active month. Your energy levels are high which lets you make plenty of new connections. Activate your good fortune by displaying the Completion Horse on your desk or in the Northeast sector of your house or office. If you’re in business, display the 100 Blessings Energetic Deer on your work desk for improving your profits. Also, carry the Sky Horse Amulet for success and victory luck. However, beware of a possible conflict between older and younger people this month. Display the Magical Cosmic Apple in the Northeast corner of your house and by carrying its amulet version.

RABBIT (1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011)

The horoscope for July 2022 promises romantic luck for those born in the year of the Rabbit. Your creativity gets a boost, as does your ability to negotiate and to win others onto your side. Relationship luck improves, allowing you to easily strengthen current relationships or repair damaged ones (this applies to both – your personal and work life). Activate your romantic luck by displaying the Romance Lock in the East sector of your house. If you are married, display the Marriage Lock in the East sector of your house.

DRAGON (1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012)

The horoscope for July 2022 promises a troublesome month for those born in the year of the Dragon. This month may bring many obstacles your way. The Dragons badly need feng shui cures this month. Display the Heart Sutra Pagoda on your work desk and in the Southeast sector of your house. Carry the Heart Sutra Pagoda Amulet with you throughout the month. Avoid dangerous sports and take extra care of your health. Carry the Stay Healthy Talisman to protect your health. To protect yourself from physical injuries and accidents, carry the 28 HUMs Protection Lotus Amulet.

SNAKE (1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013)

The Misfortune Star takes residence in your chart this month, bringing unexpected expenses, obstacles, and relationship problems. Display the Heart Sutra Pagoda on your work desk and in the Southeast sector of your house. Carry the Heart Sutra Pagoda Amulet with you throughout the month. Avoid dangerous sports and take extra care of your health. Carry the Stay Healthy Talisman to protect your health. Although there are many opportunities coming your way, it’s best to lie low for now. This is not a good month for big activities.

HORSE (1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014)

Those born in the year of the Dragon are enjoying completion luck. This month, outcomes turn out how you want, and you are enjoying the fruits of your hard work. This is a good time for closing deals and completing projects. Use this auspicious month to keep yourself productive and then you’ll be able to successfully accomplish a lot! Activate your luck this month by displaying the Sky Horse with Flag of Success on your work desk. Also, carry the Sum-of-Ten Amulet to activate your completion luck.

GOAT (SHEEP) (1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015)

The horoscope for July 2022 promises a very noisy month for those born in the year of the Goat. The Quarrelsome Star in your chart may make you irritable and emotional and cause havoc in your relationships. Therefore, you need to control your emotions and your temper this month. Don’t let your overzealous views lead you to do or say something you may regret later. Soften the negative influence of the Quarrelsome Star by displaying the Magical Cosmic Apple in the Southwest corner of your house and by carrying its amulet version.

MONKEY (1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016)

The energies of the month make those born in the year of the Monkey confrontational and irritable. The Quarrelsome Star in your chart may cause relationship problems and scandals. Make sure you control your temper this month! Try to be more patient with others and stay away from any arguments. This is not a good time to prove your point or force your opinion on others. This could be easily misinterpreted and led to arguments. Soften the negative influence of the Quarrelsome Star by displaying the Magical Cosmic Apple in the Southwest corner of your house and by carrying its amulet version. Wearing red color is also a good way to suppress the quarrelsome energies of July 2022.

ROOSTER (1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017)

The horoscope for July 2022 promises a lucky month filled with new opportunities for those born in the year of the Rooster! You are blessed with wealth luck this month. July 2022 will bring you new opportunities to make money, as well as power, influence, and leadership. Carry the 100 Blessings Energetic Deer Amulet to ensure you can successfully tap into the opportunities coming your way. However, there is a risk of physical injury for the Roosters this month. To protect yourself against harm, carry the 28 HUMs Protection Lotus Amulet.

DOG (1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006, 2018)

The Loss Star takes residence in your chart this month, bringing unexpected expenses, and the possibility of betrayal by close friends or family members. Ensure you protect yourself by displaying the Armored Rhino And Elephant in the Northwest sector of your house. Protect yourself against betrayals by carrying the Anti-Bad Intentions Amulet. Also, carry the Wealth Lock Amulet to protect your assets. There is also an indication of a risk of injury caused by sharp metal objects this month. Therefore, be extra careful and carry the carrying 28 HUMs Lotus Protection Amulet throughout the month.

BOAR (1959, 1971, 1983, 1995, 2007, 2019)

The horoscope for July 2022 warns those born in the year of the Boar since there is an indication of the possible betrayals, loss, and robberies this month. In July, you should be extra careful with the people you choose to trust. There is a risk of being betrayed, backstabbed, and even robbed. Ensure you protect yourself by displaying the Armored Rhino And Elephant in the Northwest sector of your house. Protect yourself against backstabbing by carrying the Anti-Bad Intentions Amulet. Dispel betrayal energies by carrying the 28 HUMs Lotus Protection Amulet. Also, carry the Wealth Lock Amulet to protect your assets. Be especially careful when driving this month!! You can place Peacock Feathers in your car or stick the Anti-Burglary & Violence Window Stickers on your car windows to protect yourself against accidents while on the road.

Astrology

Feng Shui Astrology For July 2022: What to Expect This Month?

Published

5 days ago

June 29, 2022

Katya Ki

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Feng Shui astrology is based on the Chinese calendar. The dates of the beginning and the end of the months are different from those generally accepted in the Gregorian calendar. According to the Chinese calendar, the year’s fourth month starts on July 7th and ends on August 7th. Therefore, all the recommendations given in this article will be accurate until August 7th.

Feng Shui astrology believes that each month has its unique energy and character. Therefore, each month’s energy is expressed through one of the 12 Zodiac animals and connected to one of the five elements.

July 2022 is the month of the Fire Goat. In this article, I will share what kind of energy and events to expect in July 2022 and how to properly choose dates for different events.

Feng Shui Astrology for July 2022

The Energy of the Month of the Fire Goat

According to the Chinese calendar, July 2022 is ruled by the Fire Goat.

In Chinese mythology, the Fire Goat is an image of red-hot embers crackling merrily on the fire. Under the influence of July’s energies, people may have an increased desire to be the center of attention at any cost. This tendency may make them more artistic, charismatic, overly emotional, excitable, and even irritable. People can also lie more often and embellish their own achievements.

So, the month promises to be quite hot, both literally and figuratively. Hot and dry weather often drives people crazy, so if you feel emotional tension, try to be more patient and practice mindfulness. Don’t react to possible conflict or problems immediately. Take your time to calm down and cool off first. Also, try to avoid being in the sun too much this month. It may increase the Fire element which could bring more emotional intensity to your life. This month, it is especially beneficial to spend time close to the water – by the lakes, rivers, or ocean. Even swimming in the pool can help to cool down the excessive Fire element.

Southeast is the most dangerous direction for traveling this month. This recommendation only applies to long-distance trips. It is ok to take a walk or move around the city or close to it in the Southeast direction.

Auspicious Days In July 2022

July 13th and 25th are good dates for starting long-term affairs. The projects started on this date do not promise rapid development, but they will bring stable, reliable results. However, these dates are not suitable for those born in the year of the Rooster.

July 15th is a good date for official openings, signing deals or contracts, making agreements, and purchasing a property. However, this date is not suitable for those born in the year of the Boar.

Days With a Higher Risk of Getting Viruses And Other Contagious Diseases

July 14th and 26th – during these dates, it’s easier to get a disease. Therefore, make sure you’re being extra cautious these days, as there is an increased risk of getting infections and viruses!

Inauspicious Days In July 2022

July 11th, 18th, 23th, 30th, and August 4th are unfavorable dates to start important things. They bring difficulties, obstacles, and problems.

July 16th and 28th are not suitable dates for a lot of activity, organizing important events, or starting medical treatment. But you can use these dates to complete old cases.

August 6th is “Exhausting Day”. The energy potential of this day is very weak. Therefore, try to avoid any big activity on this day.

Feng Shui Astrology For July 2022: Check Out Your Bagua Sectors

If you are new to Bagua, make sure to read my articles:

Feng Shui Bagua: 8 Aspirations

The Feng Shui Bagua Map: How to Use It?

According to Feng Shui astrology, each of the nine sectors of your house is influenced by a certain type of energy. This energy changes from month to month, from year to year. In this particular article, I will not be talking about the annual chart but focusing on the energy influence of the month.

Now let me share with you Feng Shui Astrology for July 2022!

Center

The central part of the house brings wealth luck, good fortune, and intellectual prowess in July. Activate your luck by placing the Jade Emperor Windchime here. However, the overriding annual chi of the 5 Yellow obstructs good luck and can cause health problems. Therefore, make sure you protect yourself by placing the Supremacy of Heaven Plate, the Heart Sutra Pagoda, and the Wu Lou with Joyous Cranes here.

Northwest

The Northwest sector brings accidents, violence, risk of money loss, and betrayals this month. At work, office politics can become a problem if your office is located in the Northwest corner. Be careful of the people you are working with this month. To suppress the negative influence of this sector, place the Anti-Robbery Plaque here and carry the Kuan Kung on Horseback Anti-Betrayal Amulet.

West

Feng Shui Astrology for July 2022 promises a prosperous month to the residents of the West sector and those whose front door is facing the West. To activate prosperity energy in your house, display the 100 Blessings Energetic Deer in this sector. However, remember to protect your West sector from the annual Loss Star by displaying the Anti-Robbery Plaque here.

Northeast

Feng Shui astrology for July 2022 promises good fortune, commercial success, wealth, promotion, and career luck to those residing in the Northeast rooms. Activate your success luck by displaying the Completion Horse in this sector. If you play in the stock market or take any kind of gamble, display the Wealth Lock Mini Plaque in the Northeast corner of your office or in the Northeast sector of your house (or living room).

South

Feng Shui astrology for July 2022 promises an excellent month to those residing in the South rooms and whose houses are facing the South direction. You will have career advancement and leadership luck this month. To activate the lucky energies of this sector, display the New Victory Banner here.

North

The North sector gets afflicted by the Illness Star, sapping the energy of those who reside here. If your bedroom is located in this sector, make sure you display the Wu Lou by your bedside and carry the Stay Healthy Amulet at all times. Pregnant women should consider moving to another bedroom this month.

Southwest

Feng Shui Astrology for July 2022 promises a quarrelsome month to those residing in the Southwest rooms or whose houses are facing Southwest. The energy of this sector brings conflicts, gossip, arguments, and even legal entanglements. To neutralize the quarrelsome energies, display the Magical Cosmic Apple here. Also, remove anything that makes too much noise from this sector (windchimes, TV, stereo, etc.).

East

The East is favorable for studying and writing this month. This sector can also help attract noble people, patrons, and mentors. Also, it can attract investors to your business. If you have an office in this sector, it may bring you promotion luck. To activate your success luck, display Feng Shui Dragon Carp with 3-Legged Toad Mini Plaque in the East sector of your house.

However, if your bedroom is located here, there is a possibility of romantic scandals caused by the presence of a third party and emotional stress due to relationship problems. To protect your relationship, display the Marriage Lock in the East sector of your house.

Southeast

The Southeast part of your house is a very dangerous area this month! If you and your family spend lots of time here, you will find everyone becoming stressed and short-tempered this month. It also increases the likelihood of sickness, accidents, and misfortune. Try to avoid spending time in this area if possible. To suppress the misfortune energies, display the Heart Sutra Pagoda and Wealth Lock Mini Plaque here.

Feng Shui Astrology For July 2022: Bonus Tip

For sectors of the home where good energy resides, it is excellent to activate with plenty of noisy activity. Have the radio, TV, or fan placed here to churn up the energy so there is a good level of noise. Also, it is very favorable to install brighter lights in these sectors. Moving the energy in these ways will encourage yang chi to manifest to your advantage.

Abundant Living

Abundance Haircuts In July 2022: Good And Bad Days To Cut Your Hair

Published

1 week ago

June 27, 2022

Katya Ki

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Abundance Haircuts is a sutra based on the Tibetan calendar. It reveals the negative consequences of cutting your hair on the bad days and the incredible benefits of cutting it on the good days. Dates of Abundance Haircuts are calculated according to extremely complex formulas by experienced Feng Shui Masters.

Most people in the Western world have never heard about abundance haircuts. While for Eastern people, it’s not a new practice. This article will share this powerful sutra and give you a calendar for abundance haircuts in July 2022, with good and bad days for haircuts. Pay attention to what day you’re picking for your next hair appointment – only choose good days for abundance haircuts in July 2022.

Why Is Hair So Important?

Since ancient times, people have given hair a sacred meaning. It was thought that people could connect with the Universe through one’s hair. Hair serves as “antennas” and “guides” between our world and the world of Heaven. And so far, this knowledge has not lost its relevance. Hair connects us with Higher forces, cosmic energy, God, and Higher consciousness. By connecting through the hair to the Cosmos, we can fill ourselves with the energies of abundance and health.

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There were many beliefs associated with hair; some of them have survived to the present day. For example: in any case, you should not get a haircut by yourself, as in this case, deformation of your energy field may happen, which can lead to health problems and energy loss. It is also not recommended to get a haircut on the days of a lunar or solar Eclipse: the hair can suffer, weaken, and lose shine and volume.

What Are “Abundance Haircuts”?

It has long been known that there are days when it is especially favorable to cut hair. Among these days, there are days of “Abundance haircuts.”

Abundance haircuts are a special ritual to attract abundance flows into your life. It is good to say abundance affirmations and mantras on this day. So you will strengthen the ritual haircut and make it a more effective and efficient force.

Here are examples of the mantras:

For wealth and abundance: OM TARE TUTTARE TURE MAMA BASU PUSHTIM KURU SOHA
Mantra for vitality and life force increase: OM TARE TUTTARE TURE MARITSE YE TSE BHRUM NRI DZA SOHA
For fame, power, and charisma: OM TARE TUTTARE TURE BODHI CITTA SOHA
Mantra for health and longevity: OM TARE TUTTARE TURE MAMA AYUR PUNYE JNANA PUSHTIM KURU YE SOHA
For magnetism and attractiveness: OM TARE TAM SOHA

If you are not a mantra practitioner, you can use affirmations instead.